Why does he do that? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

He said, he does not love me. He does not share the same feelings with me. He asked me to leave him alone. Irony, he still writes poetries about me.





Yes, I am sure it is about me. Those poems are so specific and only we know.Why does he do that? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
1. He said he does not love you


2. He does not share the same feelings with you


3. He has asked you to leave him alone





I do not mean to be cruel but 3 strikes you are out. Poems can mean lots of things but those 3 items listed are what count not poems. Obviously, you still have feelings for him or you would not have posted this question, correct?





But when someone tells you directly those three hurtful things it means the relationship is over and time for you to move on. It doesn't matter if he writes a zillion poems and you feel every one of them is about you. He may have found someone else you has your traits--one never knows. Sorry he hurt your feelings.Why does he do that? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
You loving him was enough for his inspiration but not a lasting relationship for the two of you. Still you are worth remembering enough to inspire, makes you one hell of a person
hmm. a lot of times people say they are not in love with someone, they just love them as a person. i have encountered this before and either the sexual attraction is gone or someone has taken your place. i also think maybe if you two went through a lot of stuff together the person may have just gotten over you. it sounds harsh, but it could be true.


i think a lot of times, its because the attraction is gone.
Its an artist thing, just because one has a bad experience doesn't mean that they cannot create from it. Why do photographers take beautiful pictures of disasters? Same thing. Aside from that, he's over you.
Sounds like he's been hurt
He probably does love you, but he wants you to so to speak run after him. He probably wants you to tell him how much you love him and how much he means to you. When people don't feel enough love, they often look for ways to get it from the other person. Sometimes they become ';needy,'; in that they come up with problems that they have they want you to help them in and sometimes they'll say things that will make you say that you love them. (For example, someone who's feeling unloved might say, ';I don't mean anything to anybody in this entire world. No one cares about me or loves me.'; In turn, they expect you to respond by saying, ';But I love you. They are craving it.';)


I think that he probably does love you, but he's just telling you that he doesn't love you because he wants to hear that you love him.


With people that are insecure about being loved, make sure they know they are loved before they have to ask for it.


Good luck!
Well he probably gets inspired by the pain of your separation... well at least I do with my girlfriend