Nel is a former number three just like Dordonii and in a manner of speaking both save his life and better his chances of getting Orihime back. Dordonii tells ichigo to emboy hatred and evil to detsroy evil and hatred and ironically this advice is still in Dordonii's mind nd he never gets to tell him anything at all. Its peculiar in my opinion because that information would have been the most important and vital information in this arc. I really think Ichigo would have listened to him as well. His opponent who obviously respects you enough to want to fight you at full strength must have had some passion for fighting and maybe was so old that he was willing to talk into open ears. What do you Bleach fans think?Its rather peculiar that the best advice Ichigo could have gotten in Hueco Mundo comes from a number 3?
Tite likes triangles and the number 3 I guess (Like the Ichi, Renji and Ruki love triangle)Its rather peculiar that the best advice Ichigo could have gotten in Hueco Mundo comes from a number 3?
i think that maybe he may be tired of fighting and wants to just listen ..... or listens then feels that they talked to much and wants to have a work out with maybe a worthy opponent! ;P
Friday, January 8, 2010
Missing clothes still, looking for best advice?
Ok i live with two males in my house, my brother and my dad.. recently, and sparsely in the past. have i noticed missing clothes. its usually the same things, nylons, my underwear and bra's..once or twice i cant remember, a skirt i think. now i have had nylons gone missing, then oddly returned in what seemed like a ';worn'; state. what do you think is going on? i cant fathom which or who, or why these things happen...i would lean towards my brother ';trying'; my things onm i guess, he is younger and quite a curious lad lol. but i never really considered this..any thoughts? suggestions? how do i find out for sure? do i say anything? please serious replies only and feel free to email me if confidentiality is a must..Missing clothes still, looking for best advice?
seeing as you are cute your brother may be trying them on , he may have a fetish.you could check out his room. does he spend lots of time at home by himself,or does he have at least one friend over lots. bros friend could be doing this also.leave a note with your undies that says please leave my undies alone.if you want to find out for sure set up a video camera, when caught you could say you have a video or just tell him he may have your worn out stuff or you could buy him his own.Missing clothes still, looking for best advice?
It sounds like your brother is probably borrowing them to try on.
seeing as you are cute your brother may be trying them on , he may have a fetish.you could check out his room. does he spend lots of time at home by himself,or does he have at least one friend over lots. bros friend could be doing this also.leave a note with your undies that says please leave my undies alone.if you want to find out for sure set up a video camera, when caught you could say you have a video or just tell him he may have your worn out stuff or you could buy him his own.Missing clothes still, looking for best advice?
It sounds like your brother is probably borrowing them to try on.
10 points for the best advice!?
I'm basically just sixteen and still in high school.This may sound superficial but it's a big deal for me right.My best friend is giving me the silent treatment because I told someone about her secret crush.I tried to talk to her but she ignores me.Now remember we're just teeny boppers so this is a ';huge problem'; for me so i need help.What should I do to regain our friendship?(10 points best answer!)10 points for the best advice!?
Maybe try writing her a note explaining how you feel %26amp; putting it someplace she'll definitely find it. Then wait for her to come to you. I bet she will after she cools off for a bit.10 points for the best advice!?
The problem is you violated her trust. She is not going to forgive easily.
Does her secret crush know now?
If so, does he like her too?
If he does, you have a shot here.
Talk to him. Ask him to talk to her for you.
Have him tell her that you didn't mean any harm, and that if you hadn't said anything, he might not know she liked him, and they might have never gotten together.
She might still be mad, but she'll get over it faster if she knows your mistake worked out for her.
Relationships are built on trust and by telling you've lost that trust. You'll have to earn it back...and only time will tell. Keep in mind this could have been a big issue for her/him. If it's that important to you and they are not willing to talk about it. Check with the school counselor for their help.
just be all sorry and maybe you can tll her u have a crush on sum guy n let her spill it ol ova school....ok i knw this sounds lame...but it might just work, shell get the satisfaction that shes not the only one gettin sneaked on , and she might just feel bad after that and start talking to you again!!
p.s. thats just my take on the thing....uz a/c 2 me if shes really pissed no amount of verbal apologies really work....(i know...ime a teenager too)
hi...it depend how ur relation with her...if it was me in your shoe.. i will create a sympathy scenario..i will pretend like i having a high fever...or met an accident...heheh...so she get closer to me...any make an opportunity to me to apologize to her...hehehe...sounds crazy...but it works for me sometimes..hehehe
I can understand how you feel, but unless she is willing to open up, there is nothing that you can do, it's down to her now.
Mike t.
Say sorry, promise never to do it again, tell her you value her friendship and you know you made a mistake.
apologize to her for betraying her trust and ask for her forgiveness
you should apologize and c how that goes.
this is what i would do 1st say how sorry you are and that you do care about her feelings and how it affected her. Then try saying that you told some one because you really were not thinking about what you were saying and before you knew it ,it came out and tell her that you are so mad at yourself for doing that and how important that her friendship is to you and you could not go on with out her being by your side, then tell her a secret about you that no one knows and how you would feel if she told someone and that's how you know that you will not ever do it again and ask her out for and friendship date the two of you to mend your friendship like to the movies and a pizza at your house and see how it goes and don't force her let it come on its own.oh by the way you can talk to her if she is your friend you cant be afraid you and her both know you mess up so you have to take the abuse but if you do the right thing it will pass over, just do it even if you feel about 1inch tall standing in front of her. make it know that she is your friend and you mess up and you are sorry who cares what others have to say. just get ya girl back on your side 4 real
jarviswrinkles beauty
Maybe try writing her a note explaining how you feel %26amp; putting it someplace she'll definitely find it. Then wait for her to come to you. I bet she will after she cools off for a bit.10 points for the best advice!?
The problem is you violated her trust. She is not going to forgive easily.
Does her secret crush know now?
If so, does he like her too?
If he does, you have a shot here.
Talk to him. Ask him to talk to her for you.
Have him tell her that you didn't mean any harm, and that if you hadn't said anything, he might not know she liked him, and they might have never gotten together.
She might still be mad, but she'll get over it faster if she knows your mistake worked out for her.
Relationships are built on trust and by telling you've lost that trust. You'll have to earn it back...and only time will tell. Keep in mind this could have been a big issue for her/him. If it's that important to you and they are not willing to talk about it. Check with the school counselor for their help.
just be all sorry and maybe you can tll her u have a crush on sum guy n let her spill it ol ova school....ok i knw this sounds lame...but it might just work, shell get the satisfaction that shes not the only one gettin sneaked on , and she might just feel bad after that and start talking to you again!!
p.s. thats just my take on the thing....uz a/c 2 me if shes really pissed no amount of verbal apologies really work....(i know...ime a teenager too)
hi...it depend how ur relation with her...if it was me in your shoe.. i will create a sympathy scenario..i will pretend like i having a high fever...or met an accident...heheh...so she get closer to me...any make an opportunity to me to apologize to her...hehehe...sounds crazy...but it works for me sometimes..hehehe
I can understand how you feel, but unless she is willing to open up, there is nothing that you can do, it's down to her now.
Mike t.
Say sorry, promise never to do it again, tell her you value her friendship and you know you made a mistake.
apologize to her for betraying her trust and ask for her forgiveness
you should apologize and c how that goes.
this is what i would do 1st say how sorry you are and that you do care about her feelings and how it affected her. Then try saying that you told some one because you really were not thinking about what you were saying and before you knew it ,it came out and tell her that you are so mad at yourself for doing that and how important that her friendship is to you and you could not go on with out her being by your side, then tell her a secret about you that no one knows and how you would feel if she told someone and that's how you know that you will not ever do it again and ask her out for and friendship date the two of you to mend your friendship like to the movies and a pizza at your house and see how it goes and don't force her let it come on its own.oh by the way you can talk to her if she is your friend you cant be afraid you and her both know you mess up so you have to take the abuse but if you do the right thing it will pass over, just do it even if you feel about 1inch tall standing in front of her. make it know that she is your friend and you mess up and you are sorry who cares what others have to say. just get ya girl back on your side 4 real
jarvis
Best homely advice for growing hair faster faster and densier....?
look up foods that encourage healthy hair growthBest homely advice for growing hair faster faster and densier....?
First and foremost, take your vitamins! If you can鈥檛 swallow the thought of popping a pill, then at least eat your way to healthy hair. A well balanced diet of foods rich in vitamin A, B, C and especially E are all essential for growing healthy hair. Don鈥檛 brush wet hair unless you want to damage it. Use a shampoo and conditioner that is specifically choosen for your hair type. Skip the heated styling tools, perms and dyes as often as you can, and avoid any unnecessary rough stuff that can cause your hair to break.
I really hope I was helpful.Best homely advice for growing hair faster faster and densier....?
There are pills meant to strengthen this type of vitamin in your system, which will make your hair stronger %26amp; longer. Plus it will help your nails out too.
At Sally's beauty supply (you can google the store) they have this stuff called ';Horse shampoo.'; It makes your hair grow a tad faster and makes it stronger as well.
good luck!
First and foremost, take your vitamins! If you can鈥檛 swallow the thought of popping a pill, then at least eat your way to healthy hair. A well balanced diet of foods rich in vitamin A, B, C and especially E are all essential for growing healthy hair. Don鈥檛 brush wet hair unless you want to damage it. Use a shampoo and conditioner that is specifically choosen for your hair type. Skip the heated styling tools, perms and dyes as often as you can, and avoid any unnecessary rough stuff that can cause your hair to break.
I really hope I was helpful.Best homely advice for growing hair faster faster and densier....?
There are pills meant to strengthen this type of vitamin in your system, which will make your hair stronger %26amp; longer. Plus it will help your nails out too.
At Sally's beauty supply (you can google the store) they have this stuff called ';Horse shampoo.'; It makes your hair grow a tad faster and makes it stronger as well.
good luck!
Where is the best website/travel agent to visit to get the best advice on going to the 2010 FIFA World Cup?
I am really looking forward to going to South Africa, even if i dont get to see many games. I am 18, and will be going with a group of other 18/19 year olds. I was just wondering if there is a travel agent i can use, or a website that offers deals and advice on where to stay and flight prices etc. Like i said im not entirely bothered on not seeing games, as just being there and watching it with thousands of other England fans on the 1000inch TV screens outside the stadium will be fine. If i could see ANY game, i would love to tho.
Also, if you know, could you please answer these questions:
a) How much about is it going to cost to stay in South Africa for a week or two, and to fly over
b) how much tickets are to games
c) best place to stay
d) best way to get to games
Cheers. Oh by the way, ive checked Fifa.com and i cant find much advice on accomodation and all that, though if you do, link me please :)
Thanks!
COME ON ENGLAND!!!Where is the best website/travel agent to visit to get the best advice on going to the 2010 FIFA World Cup?
I am by no means an expert on this but I'll offer you what I can.
a) flight return somewhere in the region of 拢400-拢600
To stay in a hotel for one week in a double room say 拢350-拢500 (I would definitely recommend booking early because there will be a lot of demand for rooms so the prices will go sky high near the start of the tournament!)
b) This is a really hard one, tickets are by no means easy to get hold of. If you buy from a ticket tout on the morning of a game you could for a group game pay anything up to 拢600 and towards the later stages if England hopefully make it you would be looking upwards from a grand really. But this is not recommended by the authorities, you have to be very wary of fakes). I would suggest buying your tickets early for all of England's group games, you can take a risk and buy tickets for further matches but this is hard because you don't know if and where they will be involved.
If you have the money I would suggest buying semi-final and final ticket early and this gives you a lot of options. If England make it, great you get to see them hopefully win it. If not you can sell your tickets on to fans from countries who have made it and make a tidy profit (however this will be frowned upon!).
c) Do your research! I have heard a number of ships are docking as places for people to stay. The number of stationary hotels are very limited, so again I would say book early if you want to make sure. (Perhaps consider buying a tent and camping in some venues). Don't forget you won't be staying in the same place all the time because you will be moving around to different venues)
d) Once you get there and have somewhere to stay getting to the games will be a piece of cake. There will be a number of organised buses taking fans around i Imagine. If worst comes to worst you can always walk if you're close or just pay for a taxi considering how much you would of already spent!
Hope this helps
Also, if you know, could you please answer these questions:
a) How much about is it going to cost to stay in South Africa for a week or two, and to fly over
b) how much tickets are to games
c) best place to stay
d) best way to get to games
Cheers. Oh by the way, ive checked Fifa.com and i cant find much advice on accomodation and all that, though if you do, link me please :)
Thanks!
COME ON ENGLAND!!!Where is the best website/travel agent to visit to get the best advice on going to the 2010 FIFA World Cup?
I am by no means an expert on this but I'll offer you what I can.
a) flight return somewhere in the region of 拢400-拢600
To stay in a hotel for one week in a double room say 拢350-拢500 (I would definitely recommend booking early because there will be a lot of demand for rooms so the prices will go sky high near the start of the tournament!)
b) This is a really hard one, tickets are by no means easy to get hold of. If you buy from a ticket tout on the morning of a game you could for a group game pay anything up to 拢600 and towards the later stages if England hopefully make it you would be looking upwards from a grand really. But this is not recommended by the authorities, you have to be very wary of fakes). I would suggest buying your tickets early for all of England's group games, you can take a risk and buy tickets for further matches but this is hard because you don't know if and where they will be involved.
If you have the money I would suggest buying semi-final and final ticket early and this gives you a lot of options. If England make it, great you get to see them hopefully win it. If not you can sell your tickets on to fans from countries who have made it and make a tidy profit (however this will be frowned upon!).
c) Do your research! I have heard a number of ships are docking as places for people to stay. The number of stationary hotels are very limited, so again I would say book early if you want to make sure. (Perhaps consider buying a tent and camping in some venues). Don't forget you won't be staying in the same place all the time because you will be moving around to different venues)
d) Once you get there and have somewhere to stay getting to the games will be a piece of cake. There will be a number of organised buses taking fans around i Imagine. If worst comes to worst you can always walk if you're close or just pay for a taxi considering how much you would of already spent!
Hope this helps
What's your best dieting advice? What's worked for you or your friends?
I dont look at it as a diet, I eat what I want but I am smart about it. Ex. have a hamburger make it a jr. than take the stairs at work or run some errands whatever to work it off. the rest of the day eat a more nutrious meal. learn to cook with alternatives; my rules I swear by: work off my meal within 30 min. of eating, and if I crave something I drink a glass of ice water, after 15 min. IF I still want it, I;ll eat it. the pounds will start to thin away, do this and people will start to notice you losing weight.What's your best dieting advice? What's worked for you or your friends?
Even if you do strict 5 days fasting, you cannot lose weight efficiently.
You have higher chances of fainting than losing weight if you go fasting directly. You will feel so weak because your body is not used for fasting. Then after several days you will end up eating more than you used to as a 'revenge' to your failure in fasting.What's your best dieting advice? What's worked for you or your friends?
When I was 15 I was really over weight, and I did nutra system and lost 50 lbs. After I got pregnant I gained it all back, and now I am taking Phentremen. This helps suppress the appetite and boost the metabolism. So far it is working great, combined with a healthy diet and lots of exercise. I have now lost 30lbs. and dropped 2 pant sizes.
Even if you do strict 5 days fasting, you cannot lose weight efficiently.
You have higher chances of fainting than losing weight if you go fasting directly. You will feel so weak because your body is not used for fasting. Then after several days you will end up eating more than you used to as a 'revenge' to your failure in fasting.What's your best dieting advice? What's worked for you or your friends?
When I was 15 I was really over weight, and I did nutra system and lost 50 lbs. After I got pregnant I gained it all back, and now I am taking Phentremen. This helps suppress the appetite and boost the metabolism. So far it is working great, combined with a healthy diet and lots of exercise. I have now lost 30lbs. and dropped 2 pant sizes.
What could be the best advice? serious answers only (:?
my dad changed a LOT. i mean we havent done anything wrong for him to change. and when it comes to financial matters, as long as he could trick us he will.. he keeps his money from us unlike bfore. and he doesnt care for our family anymore. well he didnt say that but that's how we feel. i cant even feel that he is my dad. he goes home here 2 times only in one week, then he brings all his clothes with him. oops not only clothes even blankets,towels,pillowcases etc..if you are thinkin that maybe he has business trips or something, no you are wrong..
we asked him bfore and tried to confront him if he has another family. he said no and he makes a lot of alibis. until now, my parents talked again and then he confessed already that i have a new sister. i cant accept it coz he had done so many hurtful things and he cant even provide my needs then he just added a new obligation??the hell...and now after talking about his kid, he's acting like theres nothin happend..
help me.. advice please?
thanks
xo
PS im 15 yrs old.What could be the best advice? serious answers only (:?
I am very, very sorry. The best advice that I can give you is that, in relationships, you offer your trust and respect to the other person, and if it is not returned, then there is nothing you can do about that. The relationship is over. It was the other person's choice to withhold their trust and respect, and it is not your fault in any way. It is incredibly painful when the person is your parent, but we don't get to choose our parents. What you have to do is to surround yourself with people who DO offer you trust and respect, and those are your real family.
It sounds like, for now at least, things are pretty much over with your Dad. But, I hope that in the years to come, you will get in touch with your sister. She is probably going to have some tough times with your Dad as well, over the years, and you will have that in common. One day, when you are much older, your parents will be gone, and you may actually be glad to have a sibling.
Let yourself grieve over the damage to your relationship with your father. The steps are denial, bargaining (how can I fix this?), anger, grief and acceptance. You will switch back and forth. The way to get through these stages is to talk, talk, talk. Talk to your friends. Talk to a counselor. Talk until you understand that you have no control over your father. You cannot change what he is. It is not your fault. There was nothing you could do to fix it. Your father is probably mentally ill. He may not even be able to help the way he is. He has lost a great deal, in the destruction of his relationships with your mother and with you. And, he will suffer throughout his life because he sabotages his relationships this way. But, your father has had choices. He made the choice to behave the way he did, and he made the choice not to apologize, promise to correct the behavior and then actually do it. That was his choice, and he has made his decisions known.
You can deal with your father's behavior and move on with your life. You can build strong relationships based on trust and respect, and find peace, contentment and happiness in your life. The way to do that is to make the decision that your father irrelevant to your happiness. Your life will go on. You will love and be loved. You will strive and achieve your goals. Perhaps get married and have a family of your own, who will love you the way your father failed to do.
In your heart, say goodbye to your father, and move on with your life. If he ever makes the decision to offer you trust and respect, you can deal with that when the time comes, but for now, he is not respecting you. He is not being a father to you. You cannot let him get in the way of living your life and finding happiness for yourself.
http://www.authorsden.com/visit/viewArti鈥?/a>What could be the best advice? serious answers only (:?
Have your Mom file for a divorce. Then have the courts drop child support on his head. He has to pay it or go to jail.
This is no longer a family matter.
Its one for the courts.
I am sorry you are so sad. Life is not easy.
Your dad turned out to be a disloyal jerk. But it is not your fault. Time to be very supportive of your mom. If they are not able to work things out you and her will be able to start life over without your ';dad';.
actually, i think u should directly go to ur father and tell abt ur problem.it may be difficult 4 u but it is the best solution i think.
oh sweetheart.....im so sorry you're going through this. Clearly your parents have had a break down in their marriage. This has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU!!!! Dont think you did something. He's is likely having a man-crisis......your parents will either work through it or he will go to his new family. you dont have to accept it. You're old enough to make that decision.
Horrible situation. so rotten you have been worrying about it
:( chin up sweetie
Sadly, so many fathers let their children down... I don't know what goes on in the minds of these men.
But, even though your father is letting you down, you can still have a full, positive, healthy, successful life. Don't let his mistakes cast a shadow over your life, and don't allow yourself to feel at fault or guilty. This is your father's problem and failure; it's not yours.
My sister and I have different fathers, and both of our fathers were gone as we grew up. In some ways, we are stronger people because of it; we know we can count on ourselves and each other, and that's what matters. Our relationship with our mother is very close, because she was our only parent. We had a wonderful, loving family-- even though it didn't include a dad at home. Families don't have to be the traditional mom-dad-kids thing.
I know you miss your dad and want him to be there with you... But, unfortunately, there's nothing you can do to change his behavior. He's an adult; he will either come back to your family, or he won't. That's up to him, and him alone. You can (and should) tell him exactly how his behavior makes you feel. Don't minimize the pain you're feeling, and don't hold back. Then, it's up to him to decide what he will do.
The best advice I can give you is to keep your self-esteem and strength separate from your father. No matter what he does, you will still be a strong, successful person. It's not your fault if he leaves. It will be difficult and sad, but you will get through it. You can still have a relationship with your dad if you want to. In fact, once I became an adult, I reconnected with my father, and we're now very close. It took me many years to realize that my father's leaving wasn't at all about me; it was about his and my mom's marriage falling apart.
Stay strong!!!! You'll get through this...
Please don't feel in any way that you could have caused any of this.
As a Parent myself I have had to deal with this situation with my kids, and yes my Daughter felt like her Dad didn't love her either.
But after talking to her and after a little time she now understands that it is her Dad's own personal problem.
What he has been doing is purely a selfish act and believe me when I say that he has not given any thought to how this would effect you.
Sometimes we has parents get so wrapped up in our own problems we tend to forget the total effect it has on our kids.
Bring your concerns to him alone and really talk about how it hurts you and how you feel about what he's done.
Try to think about the situation from the outside looking in and separate yourself from the fact that he is your Dad and look at him as a person. This is a problem only your parents can work out as far as their relationship goes.
But your relationship with your father needs to be brought to his attention.
By no means should he be let off the hook, he should be held accountable for his actions and be responsible for your welfare.
As far as your new sister goes...Just remember she is in the same boat as you are, he is her Dad too, it's not her fault that he is the way he is. Maybe he's doing the same thing to them.
Your Mom should step up and make sure he upholds his responsibilities to you.
Right now your Mom is probably feeling pretty Bad/confused right now and is unsure what she should really do.
But keep strong for your Mom and for yourself.
ok... first, don't listen to that matt guy that was a real jerk thing to say. second, i'm sorry to hear you're going through something like this. i've never been through something quite like this, but i do know how it feels to be abandoned by a parent.
would family counseling be an option? i know sometimes that can sound intimidating, but it really can help. it also seems like your dad is going through some sort of personal crisis and some individual counseling could help him as well. if he is totally against the counseling, even just you and your mom could go. or even just you. trust me, it helps talking to someone who is totally unbiased and doesn't judge you, your family or your situation. if money is a problem for something like this, check into options in your area..there's clinics and support groups out there for just about anything.
hope this helps a little. best of luck to you... and remember, keep your head up. (and no matter how it seems or how you feel your dad loves you! in his own weird, unconventional way. it took me a long time to realize that in my own situation.)
also - here's a website i found that might help with a little info -
http://www.iemily.com/article-378.html
Well first off I'm not really sure what your asking....
I'm 17 and my mom and dad are divorced.
My dad remarried almost automatically after the divorce between him and my mom and I basically like never hear from him, let alone see him.
So I can kind of relate to you.
But I would really like to help you out on this, I give really great advice but I just need some more information about your dad......to actually help you.....hmmm......maybe you should try emailing me, I could respond to you that way if you like?
email: kaitlyn_1992@rocketmail.com
Talk to a conciller, a really mature friend or both. This really sucks, but rember you are not alone. As far as I know my Dad has only one family but despite this my mother and father have argued fought, separated, threatened divorce and basically treated myself and my sister like **** since I have been a teenager. Think of it this way, one day you will have your own job, your own place to stay, your own car, your own money and your own boyfriend/ girlfriend. So if you family is still a mess by then you will not have to feel as alone as you do now.
Good luck with this.
we asked him bfore and tried to confront him if he has another family. he said no and he makes a lot of alibis. until now, my parents talked again and then he confessed already that i have a new sister. i cant accept it coz he had done so many hurtful things and he cant even provide my needs then he just added a new obligation??the hell...and now after talking about his kid, he's acting like theres nothin happend..
help me.. advice please?
thanks
xo
PS im 15 yrs old.What could be the best advice? serious answers only (:?
I am very, very sorry. The best advice that I can give you is that, in relationships, you offer your trust and respect to the other person, and if it is not returned, then there is nothing you can do about that. The relationship is over. It was the other person's choice to withhold their trust and respect, and it is not your fault in any way. It is incredibly painful when the person is your parent, but we don't get to choose our parents. What you have to do is to surround yourself with people who DO offer you trust and respect, and those are your real family.
It sounds like, for now at least, things are pretty much over with your Dad. But, I hope that in the years to come, you will get in touch with your sister. She is probably going to have some tough times with your Dad as well, over the years, and you will have that in common. One day, when you are much older, your parents will be gone, and you may actually be glad to have a sibling.
Let yourself grieve over the damage to your relationship with your father. The steps are denial, bargaining (how can I fix this?), anger, grief and acceptance. You will switch back and forth. The way to get through these stages is to talk, talk, talk. Talk to your friends. Talk to a counselor. Talk until you understand that you have no control over your father. You cannot change what he is. It is not your fault. There was nothing you could do to fix it. Your father is probably mentally ill. He may not even be able to help the way he is. He has lost a great deal, in the destruction of his relationships with your mother and with you. And, he will suffer throughout his life because he sabotages his relationships this way. But, your father has had choices. He made the choice to behave the way he did, and he made the choice not to apologize, promise to correct the behavior and then actually do it. That was his choice, and he has made his decisions known.
You can deal with your father's behavior and move on with your life. You can build strong relationships based on trust and respect, and find peace, contentment and happiness in your life. The way to do that is to make the decision that your father irrelevant to your happiness. Your life will go on. You will love and be loved. You will strive and achieve your goals. Perhaps get married and have a family of your own, who will love you the way your father failed to do.
In your heart, say goodbye to your father, and move on with your life. If he ever makes the decision to offer you trust and respect, you can deal with that when the time comes, but for now, he is not respecting you. He is not being a father to you. You cannot let him get in the way of living your life and finding happiness for yourself.
http://www.authorsden.com/visit/viewArti鈥?/a>What could be the best advice? serious answers only (:?
Have your Mom file for a divorce. Then have the courts drop child support on his head. He has to pay it or go to jail.
This is no longer a family matter.
Its one for the courts.
I am sorry you are so sad. Life is not easy.
Your dad turned out to be a disloyal jerk. But it is not your fault. Time to be very supportive of your mom. If they are not able to work things out you and her will be able to start life over without your ';dad';.
actually, i think u should directly go to ur father and tell abt ur problem.it may be difficult 4 u but it is the best solution i think.
oh sweetheart.....im so sorry you're going through this. Clearly your parents have had a break down in their marriage. This has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU!!!! Dont think you did something. He's is likely having a man-crisis......your parents will either work through it or he will go to his new family. you dont have to accept it. You're old enough to make that decision.
Horrible situation. so rotten you have been worrying about it
:( chin up sweetie
Sadly, so many fathers let their children down... I don't know what goes on in the minds of these men.
But, even though your father is letting you down, you can still have a full, positive, healthy, successful life. Don't let his mistakes cast a shadow over your life, and don't allow yourself to feel at fault or guilty. This is your father's problem and failure; it's not yours.
My sister and I have different fathers, and both of our fathers were gone as we grew up. In some ways, we are stronger people because of it; we know we can count on ourselves and each other, and that's what matters. Our relationship with our mother is very close, because she was our only parent. We had a wonderful, loving family-- even though it didn't include a dad at home. Families don't have to be the traditional mom-dad-kids thing.
I know you miss your dad and want him to be there with you... But, unfortunately, there's nothing you can do to change his behavior. He's an adult; he will either come back to your family, or he won't. That's up to him, and him alone. You can (and should) tell him exactly how his behavior makes you feel. Don't minimize the pain you're feeling, and don't hold back. Then, it's up to him to decide what he will do.
The best advice I can give you is to keep your self-esteem and strength separate from your father. No matter what he does, you will still be a strong, successful person. It's not your fault if he leaves. It will be difficult and sad, but you will get through it. You can still have a relationship with your dad if you want to. In fact, once I became an adult, I reconnected with my father, and we're now very close. It took me many years to realize that my father's leaving wasn't at all about me; it was about his and my mom's marriage falling apart.
Stay strong!!!! You'll get through this...
Please don't feel in any way that you could have caused any of this.
As a Parent myself I have had to deal with this situation with my kids, and yes my Daughter felt like her Dad didn't love her either.
But after talking to her and after a little time she now understands that it is her Dad's own personal problem.
What he has been doing is purely a selfish act and believe me when I say that he has not given any thought to how this would effect you.
Sometimes we has parents get so wrapped up in our own problems we tend to forget the total effect it has on our kids.
Bring your concerns to him alone and really talk about how it hurts you and how you feel about what he's done.
Try to think about the situation from the outside looking in and separate yourself from the fact that he is your Dad and look at him as a person. This is a problem only your parents can work out as far as their relationship goes.
But your relationship with your father needs to be brought to his attention.
By no means should he be let off the hook, he should be held accountable for his actions and be responsible for your welfare.
As far as your new sister goes...Just remember she is in the same boat as you are, he is her Dad too, it's not her fault that he is the way he is. Maybe he's doing the same thing to them.
Your Mom should step up and make sure he upholds his responsibilities to you.
Right now your Mom is probably feeling pretty Bad/confused right now and is unsure what she should really do.
But keep strong for your Mom and for yourself.
ok... first, don't listen to that matt guy that was a real jerk thing to say. second, i'm sorry to hear you're going through something like this. i've never been through something quite like this, but i do know how it feels to be abandoned by a parent.
would family counseling be an option? i know sometimes that can sound intimidating, but it really can help. it also seems like your dad is going through some sort of personal crisis and some individual counseling could help him as well. if he is totally against the counseling, even just you and your mom could go. or even just you. trust me, it helps talking to someone who is totally unbiased and doesn't judge you, your family or your situation. if money is a problem for something like this, check into options in your area..there's clinics and support groups out there for just about anything.
hope this helps a little. best of luck to you... and remember, keep your head up. (and no matter how it seems or how you feel your dad loves you! in his own weird, unconventional way. it took me a long time to realize that in my own situation.)
also - here's a website i found that might help with a little info -
http://www.iemily.com/article-378.html
Well first off I'm not really sure what your asking....
I'm 17 and my mom and dad are divorced.
My dad remarried almost automatically after the divorce between him and my mom and I basically like never hear from him, let alone see him.
So I can kind of relate to you.
But I would really like to help you out on this, I give really great advice but I just need some more information about your dad......to actually help you.....hmmm......maybe you should try emailing me, I could respond to you that way if you like?
email: kaitlyn_1992@rocketmail.com
Talk to a conciller, a really mature friend or both. This really sucks, but rember you are not alone. As far as I know my Dad has only one family but despite this my mother and father have argued fought, separated, threatened divorce and basically treated myself and my sister like **** since I have been a teenager. Think of it this way, one day you will have your own job, your own place to stay, your own car, your own money and your own boyfriend/ girlfriend. So if you family is still a mess by then you will not have to feel as alone as you do now.
Good luck with this.
10 points for the best advice ;)?
OKAY so here is what i look like:http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c188/sarebear5/CIMG0834.jpg
and i need new hair ideas. I'm so bored with it! Also i have 100 % human hair ext. that i can use to create longer styles but i go there for a last resort. SO if you find pics, or videos {even better} of things i can use i'd be forever in your favor! Last thing, i can never seem to make my liquid eyeliner look just right- please help :)10 points for the best advice ;)?
hair http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HXFbExCfz鈥?/a>
eyeliner http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sdp_UAvA1鈥?/a>
hope i helped :)10 points for the best advice ;)?
Okay so your hair is naturally short...go with a pixie style but not too short....feather it out around your face and cut your bangs a little shorter so you can see your eyes.
Maybe die you hair a cleaner blond and put light black streaks in it...or maybe a chocolate color....very pretty face! It would help bring out the features..... :)
http://www.hairstylestalk.com/images/sho鈥?/a>
maybe longer..if u prefer but it looks good short
well liquid eyeliner is terrible buy the stick kind and about your hair i love it but maybe if you gave it more of a dirty blonde look get some lighter highlights and some darker highlights but i love the cut and i would stick with it!!
wow your really pretty, your hair looks fine.
i wouldn't get hair exts.wrinkles beauty
and i need new hair ideas. I'm so bored with it! Also i have 100 % human hair ext. that i can use to create longer styles but i go there for a last resort. SO if you find pics, or videos {even better} of things i can use i'd be forever in your favor! Last thing, i can never seem to make my liquid eyeliner look just right- please help :)10 points for the best advice ;)?
hair http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HXFbExCfz鈥?/a>
eyeliner http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sdp_UAvA1鈥?/a>
hope i helped :)10 points for the best advice ;)?
Okay so your hair is naturally short...go with a pixie style but not too short....feather it out around your face and cut your bangs a little shorter so you can see your eyes.
Maybe die you hair a cleaner blond and put light black streaks in it...or maybe a chocolate color....very pretty face! It would help bring out the features..... :)
http://www.hairstylestalk.com/images/sho鈥?/a>
maybe longer..if u prefer but it looks good short
well liquid eyeliner is terrible buy the stick kind and about your hair i love it but maybe if you gave it more of a dirty blonde look get some lighter highlights and some darker highlights but i love the cut and i would stick with it!!
wow your really pretty, your hair looks fine.
i wouldn't get hair exts.
What would be the best advice to give a woman whose ex punched her in her stomach when she was pregnant?
What advice would you give to a woman who when she was three months pregnant her ex-husband / child father got bad and punched her in her stomach. He was mad and said how she wanted to mess things up between him and his new fiance. He told her to have an abortion which she said no she wasn't going to.He got mad and punched her in her stomach. After he left she began throwing up blood. She went to the emergency room and thankfully the baby survived.She tried to have him charged but because of lack of evidence charges were dropped. A few months later she had a healthy baby girl. Her ex/baby's father had no contact with her for a few months. Now when his daughter is six months he wants to be a part of her life and sad he is sorry for what he did to her.He do this because his father found out.She doesn't want him to be because of what he did to her but she believes that should have nothing to do with their child.Would you advise her to allow him back into the child's life or tell him no?What would be the best advice to give a woman whose ex punched her in her stomach when she was pregnant?
My husband punched me in the stomach when l was pregnant with our third....l lost his twin through this action. No, she should most definitely NOT ever let such a man into her daughters' life. Would she let a stranger with the same history near her daughter? Well ,that man is a stranger to her daughter - and shouldn't be allowed near her.What would be the best advice to give a woman whose ex punched her in her stomach when she was pregnant?
you should contact a lawyer or something to get a restraining order, if that's possible...even though he wants to be a part of the child's life, it's great that he realizes he should be, but there is no reason he should be due to the way he acted towards the mother of the child. he should have realized when it was first discovered that he needed to handle the situation differently, it's a little late now and it's best he just back off.
Your answer should be totally obvious! Get a restraining order! Stay away from him!? Was the baby his? Omg that is just awful! Why would any do that to a woman, his baby or not! He sounds psycho, best advice anyone could give you is get away now, and stay away! Don鈥檛 you dare let an innocent life be exposed to such ignorance and selfishness!
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She should file abuse when he hit her. press charge against him.
Doesn't matter how bad this SOB by law he in tittle to see his little girl.
With out or with supervision.
every thing have to be done by court.
Hope she is not stupid enough to listen to the sweet talk and spread her legs for him again.
i think that this woman should NOT let this man come back into her life. This man committed a federal crime! this lady should talk to this guys father and tell him that his son hurt her physically and emotionally, and that it would be best for her to not have him in her life.
Absolutely NOT!!! Any man capable of doing that to a pregnant woman wouldn't think twice at harming a defenceless child in anger. She should get a restraining order against him - seriously!
RESTRAINING ORDER!!!
first of all is he paying child support/does she have his last name/does the name of the father appear on the birth certificate if all your questions to this is NO and she does not care for her to know who he is and then she does not need to let him see her until she decides to let her daughter know what happened or secondly when he takes him to court-when that happens you order child support w/back pay+that his visitation is supervised because the child is small and does not know him. Hope this helps.
what lack of evidence? the woman went to the ER puking blood! i would invest in a voice recorder that you use with a telephone (check state laws - some states do not require that the baby mama would have to inform the baby daddy she is recording their call) and make him apologize for punching her in the stomach. make him say it! then, turn the tape over to the cops along with the hospital report. even if the cops still won't charge, get a copy of the complaint report %26amp; keep a copy of the tape. then, take the b@$tard to court.
My husband punched me in the stomach when l was pregnant with our third....l lost his twin through this action. No, she should most definitely NOT ever let such a man into her daughters' life. Would she let a stranger with the same history near her daughter? Well ,that man is a stranger to her daughter - and shouldn't be allowed near her.What would be the best advice to give a woman whose ex punched her in her stomach when she was pregnant?
you should contact a lawyer or something to get a restraining order, if that's possible...even though he wants to be a part of the child's life, it's great that he realizes he should be, but there is no reason he should be due to the way he acted towards the mother of the child. he should have realized when it was first discovered that he needed to handle the situation differently, it's a little late now and it's best he just back off.
Your answer should be totally obvious! Get a restraining order! Stay away from him!? Was the baby his? Omg that is just awful! Why would any do that to a woman, his baby or not! He sounds psycho, best advice anyone could give you is get away now, and stay away! Don鈥檛 you dare let an innocent life be exposed to such ignorance and selfishness!
Well
She should file abuse when he hit her. press charge against him.
Doesn't matter how bad this SOB by law he in tittle to see his little girl.
With out or with supervision.
every thing have to be done by court.
Hope she is not stupid enough to listen to the sweet talk and spread her legs for him again.
i think that this woman should NOT let this man come back into her life. This man committed a federal crime! this lady should talk to this guys father and tell him that his son hurt her physically and emotionally, and that it would be best for her to not have him in her life.
Absolutely NOT!!! Any man capable of doing that to a pregnant woman wouldn't think twice at harming a defenceless child in anger. She should get a restraining order against him - seriously!
RESTRAINING ORDER!!!
first of all is he paying child support/does she have his last name/does the name of the father appear on the birth certificate if all your questions to this is NO and she does not care for her to know who he is and then she does not need to let him see her until she decides to let her daughter know what happened or secondly when he takes him to court-when that happens you order child support w/back pay+that his visitation is supervised because the child is small and does not know him. Hope this helps.
what lack of evidence? the woman went to the ER puking blood! i would invest in a voice recorder that you use with a telephone (check state laws - some states do not require that the baby mama would have to inform the baby daddy she is recording their call) and make him apologize for punching her in the stomach. make him say it! then, turn the tape over to the cops along with the hospital report. even if the cops still won't charge, get a copy of the complaint report %26amp; keep a copy of the tape. then, take the b@$tard to court.
MEN:WOULD U DO THIS JUST TO BE ROMANTIC??10 points for best advice!?
This guy I am seeing asked me like '; Do you want me to miss you?';
Does it mean he start to have feelings for me now? or would you say that to someone just because you want to be romantic?
we are both in our 25s
He spent the night at my place and we spent the entire day together the next day. But no sex yet. We went out for like 5 dates.
I posted this before but i need more answers.
Thanks for the advices.MEN:WOULD U DO THIS JUST TO BE ROMANTIC??10 points for best advice!?
I don't see why this is romantic. Seems like a sarcastic thing to say ';do you want me to miss you?';
I am really confused with your question. why do girls seem so clueless. If he is dating you than he obviously likes you.MEN:WOULD U DO THIS JUST TO BE ROMANTIC??10 points for best advice!?
It's a yes or no question. Wow that's really not romantic!? Flowers and candle lit dinner is and thats NOT!
I hardly consider that romantic. It would be sweet if he actually said ';I miss you'; instead of asking you. It almost seems like he's uncertain yet.
idk...i usually dont ask the chick back out if we dont **** on the 2nd date...so...im not much help.
He is being both romantic and he is getting new feelings for you.
Does it mean he start to have feelings for me now? or would you say that to someone just because you want to be romantic?
we are both in our 25s
He spent the night at my place and we spent the entire day together the next day. But no sex yet. We went out for like 5 dates.
I posted this before but i need more answers.
Thanks for the advices.MEN:WOULD U DO THIS JUST TO BE ROMANTIC??10 points for best advice!?
I don't see why this is romantic. Seems like a sarcastic thing to say ';do you want me to miss you?';
I am really confused with your question. why do girls seem so clueless. If he is dating you than he obviously likes you.MEN:WOULD U DO THIS JUST TO BE ROMANTIC??10 points for best advice!?
It's a yes or no question. Wow that's really not romantic!? Flowers and candle lit dinner is and thats NOT!
I hardly consider that romantic. It would be sweet if he actually said ';I miss you'; instead of asking you. It almost seems like he's uncertain yet.
idk...i usually dont ask the chick back out if we dont **** on the 2nd date...so...im not much help.
He is being both romantic and he is getting new feelings for you.
Give me your best advice for a natural childbirth?
I'm due in 9 days with my third child but he will be my first singleton baby and my first vaginal birth.
My twins were born via c-section and I have no regrets because they weren't positioned safely for a vaginal birth.
I'm going for a VBAC and I am more than a little anxious as I get closer! It's foreign to me not to have a scheduled date to have a baby and having twins at home who are 20 months old is sort of making it a bit more stressful and complicated for me... worrying about them at home while their daddy and I are in the hospital having a baby! Then the whole idea of having a natural and unmedicated birth. I want the opposite experience that I had with twins... although they might want to give me pitocin if it's taking too long. I'll try to resist them but the thing is, we all have to be on the same team. AAAHHHHH! I'm stressing! What's your best advice to me?Give me your best advice for a natural childbirth?
My best advice is ... Calm down!!!
You can predict or shape what will happena quote i like, by john lennon...
It's fear of the unknown. The unknown is what it is. And to be frightened of it is what sends everybody scurrying around chasing dreams, illusions, wars, peace, love, hate, all that--it's all illusion. Unknown is what it is. Accept that it's unknown and it's plain sailing. Everything is unknown--then you're ahead of the game. That's what it is. Right?
Good Luck! xxxGive me your best advice for a natural childbirth?
well if your in a hospital you will most likely get drugs for the pain and you can take the kids in with you.if your at home the birth is better but it hurts SO bad but it will always hurt i don't know what you will do but ones you hold that beautiful baby all the pain goes away trust me
Ouch... vagina.. OUCH.....
I would not get the pitocin, it's the start of too much intervention and make the contractions really painful. If they need to break your waters to speed things up that's better but it's best to just go with the flow. Deep long breaths through the contractions so you don't hyperventilate. Best of luck to you Mama!
Keep active and upright. Let gravity help your baby move into position and through the birth canal. If you lay on a bed while giving labour your pelvis tilts upwards and it's like pushing up a hill.
Research different positions and if it isn't working during labour try another. Different techniques like rocking back and forth give something you something else to concentrate on and can help some women with the pain.
Research different relaxation techniques eg labour massage, aromatherapy, music therapy. Have your husband learn a little about labour massage too. Warm water works great so if you can labour in a bath or under a warm shower.
Let your husband know that you may say things you don't mean and that he shouldn't take it personally.
Take each contraction as it comes and just remember that at the end you'll have a beautiful baby.
hey there Im due in June congrats! I want a natural birth also I would say the best thing to do is not think that everything will go as planned because it may not as far as trying to stay medicated FREE. Since this is your first vaginal birth you really wont know how much pain you can tolerate until that day and moment arrives! Everyone keeps asking are you getting a epidural and I just say I wont know until that day comes but my intentions is to try and hang out as long as I can w/o anything. But of course you do not want to be in so much pain that you wont enjoy your birth either. But you dont want to be so drugged up where you dont remember anything either. Its like can you win? but whatever you choose to make sure you keep your interest and most importantly the babies best interest at heart to have a wonderful birthing experience.
Many people also try all kinds of breathing techniques. so stay calm and do not worry about the twins Im sure they will be in great hands.The last thing you want to do is have extra stress while in labor because being in labor is hard enough. Do what you think feels best, ask questions, and stick to your guns! Some docs will keep pushing the idea of having an epidural when you may not even need one.
ok it is not so bad ok and it is the right way to have all babies God designed it that way!!!!!!
First, make your last days as calm as possible. See whether your husband can watch your twins while you take a *quiet* bath, or even talk on the phone with a friend or go shopping.
Second, read up on the subject. Talk to your pediatrician about the precautions you can take to make your son's birth a smooth one. If you know people who have gone through natural birth before, talk to them. Did they have any complications? And is there something you can do to prevent against those problems?
Third, make sure that you are familiar with the environment you will be giving birth in. If it is different than the one that your twins were born in, talk to your pediatrician/midwife about it. This will make you calmer during the actual birth.
Good luck and I hoped this helped!
They should not be giving you pitocin with a VBAC. Pitocin induced contractions can stress your uterine scar. I'm surprised that they would even suggest that. http://www.childbirth.org/section/VBACFA鈥?/a>
My best advice would be to take some empowering childbirth classes. (Bradley, Hypnobirthing, Birthing from within) Do not take the classes offered by your hospital. Also, hire a doula.
I would type more, but I'm holding a sleeping baby right now. Good luck.
My twins were born via c-section and I have no regrets because they weren't positioned safely for a vaginal birth.
I'm going for a VBAC and I am more than a little anxious as I get closer! It's foreign to me not to have a scheduled date to have a baby and having twins at home who are 20 months old is sort of making it a bit more stressful and complicated for me... worrying about them at home while their daddy and I are in the hospital having a baby! Then the whole idea of having a natural and unmedicated birth. I want the opposite experience that I had with twins... although they might want to give me pitocin if it's taking too long. I'll try to resist them but the thing is, we all have to be on the same team. AAAHHHHH! I'm stressing! What's your best advice to me?Give me your best advice for a natural childbirth?
My best advice is ... Calm down!!!
You can predict or shape what will happena quote i like, by john lennon...
It's fear of the unknown. The unknown is what it is. And to be frightened of it is what sends everybody scurrying around chasing dreams, illusions, wars, peace, love, hate, all that--it's all illusion. Unknown is what it is. Accept that it's unknown and it's plain sailing. Everything is unknown--then you're ahead of the game. That's what it is. Right?
Good Luck! xxxGive me your best advice for a natural childbirth?
well if your in a hospital you will most likely get drugs for the pain and you can take the kids in with you.if your at home the birth is better but it hurts SO bad but it will always hurt i don't know what you will do but ones you hold that beautiful baby all the pain goes away trust me
Ouch... vagina.. OUCH.....
I would not get the pitocin, it's the start of too much intervention and make the contractions really painful. If they need to break your waters to speed things up that's better but it's best to just go with the flow. Deep long breaths through the contractions so you don't hyperventilate. Best of luck to you Mama!
Keep active and upright. Let gravity help your baby move into position and through the birth canal. If you lay on a bed while giving labour your pelvis tilts upwards and it's like pushing up a hill.
Research different positions and if it isn't working during labour try another. Different techniques like rocking back and forth give something you something else to concentrate on and can help some women with the pain.
Research different relaxation techniques eg labour massage, aromatherapy, music therapy. Have your husband learn a little about labour massage too. Warm water works great so if you can labour in a bath or under a warm shower.
Let your husband know that you may say things you don't mean and that he shouldn't take it personally.
Take each contraction as it comes and just remember that at the end you'll have a beautiful baby.
hey there Im due in June congrats! I want a natural birth also I would say the best thing to do is not think that everything will go as planned because it may not as far as trying to stay medicated FREE. Since this is your first vaginal birth you really wont know how much pain you can tolerate until that day and moment arrives! Everyone keeps asking are you getting a epidural and I just say I wont know until that day comes but my intentions is to try and hang out as long as I can w/o anything. But of course you do not want to be in so much pain that you wont enjoy your birth either. But you dont want to be so drugged up where you dont remember anything either. Its like can you win? but whatever you choose to make sure you keep your interest and most importantly the babies best interest at heart to have a wonderful birthing experience.
Many people also try all kinds of breathing techniques. so stay calm and do not worry about the twins Im sure they will be in great hands.The last thing you want to do is have extra stress while in labor because being in labor is hard enough. Do what you think feels best, ask questions, and stick to your guns! Some docs will keep pushing the idea of having an epidural when you may not even need one.
ok it is not so bad ok and it is the right way to have all babies God designed it that way!!!!!!
First, make your last days as calm as possible. See whether your husband can watch your twins while you take a *quiet* bath, or even talk on the phone with a friend or go shopping.
Second, read up on the subject. Talk to your pediatrician about the precautions you can take to make your son's birth a smooth one. If you know people who have gone through natural birth before, talk to them. Did they have any complications? And is there something you can do to prevent against those problems?
Third, make sure that you are familiar with the environment you will be giving birth in. If it is different than the one that your twins were born in, talk to your pediatrician/midwife about it. This will make you calmer during the actual birth.
Good luck and I hoped this helped!
They should not be giving you pitocin with a VBAC. Pitocin induced contractions can stress your uterine scar. I'm surprised that they would even suggest that. http://www.childbirth.org/section/VBACFA鈥?/a>
My best advice would be to take some empowering childbirth classes. (Bradley, Hypnobirthing, Birthing from within) Do not take the classes offered by your hospital. Also, hire a doula.
I would type more, but I'm holding a sleeping baby right now. Good luck.
10 points for best advice..i really need it?
Well my friends keep telling me that this guy i knew in 6th grade is staring at me(we r n 8th grade) and he pointed me out to his friends. Well today at lunch i was sitting with my friends so to see if he was staring at me i got my backpack and looked through it i got my phone and made it seem like i was texting. then my friends were freaking out telling me he stood up real quick to see what i was doing.
-so do u think he likes me?
-why would he point at me anyway?
-why did he want to see what i was doing?
-should i have my friend ask him if he likes me? i told her list other peoples names then say my mine as the 3rd one?
-what would u do?
-should she suggest he make a move?
*thanks soo much* 10pts for best answer!
(please don't say your 2 young)10 points for best advice..i really need it?
I think it's great that you are interested in guys. My neighbors who are like little sisters to me are a little older than you but were interested in guys at that age. They are smart girls and I'm sure you are too. Don't get in over your head. If you are interested in him try to find out if he's interested in you back. If so ask him out. If not then that's his loss. If you do go out cool just make sure you watch your back and remember that you are young and it may not last forever. Be prepared to get your heart broken a few times. I know my sisters have. As you grow you learn more and more. Have faith and have fun, just not too much fun lol. Good Luck!
-so do u think he likes me?
-why would he point at me anyway?
-why did he want to see what i was doing?
-should i have my friend ask him if he likes me? i told her list other peoples names then say my mine as the 3rd one?
-what would u do?
-should she suggest he make a move?
*thanks soo much* 10pts for best answer!
(please don't say your 2 young)10 points for best advice..i really need it?
I think it's great that you are interested in guys. My neighbors who are like little sisters to me are a little older than you but were interested in guys at that age. They are smart girls and I'm sure you are too. Don't get in over your head. If you are interested in him try to find out if he's interested in you back. If so ask him out. If not then that's his loss. If you do go out cool just make sure you watch your back and remember that you are young and it may not last forever. Be prepared to get your heart broken a few times. I know my sisters have. As you grow you learn more and more. Have faith and have fun, just not too much fun lol. Good Luck!
What is your best advice to someone born in the US who hates everything this country stands for?
A person cannot help where he/she is born, it is not in a person's control. Suppose this person is the minister of Obama's church or something.
So what if an American-born person dreams of a Socialist Utopian system or some other system besides the American system?
And he says ';Gosh I HATE America, I wish I could just pack up and leave and move to Canada, France, the Middle East, Africa, anywhere but America.
Would you show this person the way out? Or would you feel like as an American we have an obligation to look after our fellow citizens and make them happier people?
What would you suggest for this person?What is your best advice to someone born in the US who hates everything this country stands for?
I would show that person the positive sides of America and ask them if it麓s worth it to leave their friends and family just because they hate the people ruling the country. They should rather do something to make America a better place than running away leaving the work for others to do. When that person then is not satisfied with what others are doing they will complain again. That person shouldn麓t leave because of other people, they should take things into their own hands and at least try to make a difference.What is your best advice to someone born in the US who hates everything this country stands for?
respect their wishes. except if they hate I wouldnt help them. they need to dislike, not hate.
Move to Pakistan and start a Madrassa he would fit right in with those hate filled teachings.
Move to another country...
Get out.
If you don't like it, there's the door.
No one will miss you if you left. So don't let us hold you here against your will.
i would suggest that this person spend just one month in another country, then return to the usa. my guess is it won't look nearly as bad as it did prior to that experience.
That Reverend was a US Marine FYI. I don't agree with his opinions, but he has a right to speak them. This is something America stands for that you and your ilk seem to be against. Perhaps you should move to China, where nasty speech against the government isn't tolerated.
I didn't hear him say anything about socialist utopia, and he didn't say he hated America. This is a tempest in a teacup.
Also, a princple of Democracy is that the people can CHANGE the government's policies. So you love it or leave it clowns are far more unamerican than the reverend.
Move I'll help you pack
Take your hypocritical rear end to the nearest airport board the plane and land somewhere in Iraq or Africa we have enough non patriots here we can afford to lose a few and since you hate America so much go to a country where you do not have the freedom to voice such things from of all places a pulpit
You're free to leave any time.
if someone doesn't like America, they can get out. their is nothing stopping anyone from leaving, except their own fear of leaving
I say....That's why it's America...and as Americans we have that very right to make decisions up to AND including where we decide to call home.
Use that very freedom and find somewhere else to hang your hat if you think America is so bad. You'll soon learn that America isn't as bad as you think once you've got a belly full of what any of those other countries have to offer.
Move to another country.
Isn't Rev Wright's church based on the teachings of DuBois and wasn't he the leader of the ';Back to Africa'; movement that started the country of Liberia?
So don't let the door hitcha on the way out, and make sure it's a one way ticket!
boat, plane, bus
bye bye
you still here
then quit your whining
Every day somewhere in there are people who leave their home countries in search of something better. If someone is not happy with the US then they should go and try to find something better.
Move to another country, or at least to someplace like Berkeley where they'll feel right at home.
get out , im not gonna miss ya..
Get to steppin'! If they want back in, they should have to go through the process that a real immigrant goes through when entering the US.
In this day and age. I would kindly take up a collection to help him move to another country preferably to Africa.
move to canada.
The person can't help where they are born you are right. The beauty of living in America is the fact that you have the choice to move. So if you truly feel you hate your country why don't you try moving someplace else. I hear Iraq really loves us Americans you could try there.
move
TELL THEM TO MOVE TO IRAN THEN
Maybe move to Africa and set up a state of freed slaves and with in a few years you can own slaves of your own Life is so interesting don't you think
I would suggest that person gets involved and tries to make a difference instead of just complaining.
So what if an American-born person dreams of a Socialist Utopian system or some other system besides the American system?
And he says ';Gosh I HATE America, I wish I could just pack up and leave and move to Canada, France, the Middle East, Africa, anywhere but America.
Would you show this person the way out? Or would you feel like as an American we have an obligation to look after our fellow citizens and make them happier people?
What would you suggest for this person?What is your best advice to someone born in the US who hates everything this country stands for?
I would show that person the positive sides of America and ask them if it麓s worth it to leave their friends and family just because they hate the people ruling the country. They should rather do something to make America a better place than running away leaving the work for others to do. When that person then is not satisfied with what others are doing they will complain again. That person shouldn麓t leave because of other people, they should take things into their own hands and at least try to make a difference.What is your best advice to someone born in the US who hates everything this country stands for?
respect their wishes. except if they hate I wouldnt help them. they need to dislike, not hate.
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Move to Pakistan and start a Madrassa he would fit right in with those hate filled teachings.
Move to another country...
Get out.
If you don't like it, there's the door.
No one will miss you if you left. So don't let us hold you here against your will.
i would suggest that this person spend just one month in another country, then return to the usa. my guess is it won't look nearly as bad as it did prior to that experience.
That Reverend was a US Marine FYI. I don't agree with his opinions, but he has a right to speak them. This is something America stands for that you and your ilk seem to be against. Perhaps you should move to China, where nasty speech against the government isn't tolerated.
I didn't hear him say anything about socialist utopia, and he didn't say he hated America. This is a tempest in a teacup.
Also, a princple of Democracy is that the people can CHANGE the government's policies. So you love it or leave it clowns are far more unamerican than the reverend.
Move I'll help you pack
Take your hypocritical rear end to the nearest airport board the plane and land somewhere in Iraq or Africa we have enough non patriots here we can afford to lose a few and since you hate America so much go to a country where you do not have the freedom to voice such things from of all places a pulpit
You're free to leave any time.
if someone doesn't like America, they can get out. their is nothing stopping anyone from leaving, except their own fear of leaving
I say....That's why it's America...and as Americans we have that very right to make decisions up to AND including where we decide to call home.
Use that very freedom and find somewhere else to hang your hat if you think America is so bad. You'll soon learn that America isn't as bad as you think once you've got a belly full of what any of those other countries have to offer.
Move to another country.
Isn't Rev Wright's church based on the teachings of DuBois and wasn't he the leader of the ';Back to Africa'; movement that started the country of Liberia?
So don't let the door hitcha on the way out, and make sure it's a one way ticket!
boat, plane, bus
bye bye
you still here
then quit your whining
Every day somewhere in there are people who leave their home countries in search of something better. If someone is not happy with the US then they should go and try to find something better.
Move to another country, or at least to someplace like Berkeley where they'll feel right at home.
get out , im not gonna miss ya..
Get to steppin'! If they want back in, they should have to go through the process that a real immigrant goes through when entering the US.
In this day and age. I would kindly take up a collection to help him move to another country preferably to Africa.
move to canada.
The person can't help where they are born you are right. The beauty of living in America is the fact that you have the choice to move. So if you truly feel you hate your country why don't you try moving someplace else. I hear Iraq really loves us Americans you could try there.
move
TELL THEM TO MOVE TO IRAN THEN
Maybe move to Africa and set up a state of freed slaves and with in a few years you can own slaves of your own Life is so interesting don't you think
I would suggest that person gets involved and tries to make a difference instead of just complaining.
What is the BEST advice you have ever been given/heard?
its just something I want to know what people think can you give me advice people have given you concerning
relationships,
success,
religion/spirituality
world issues
I just thought it would be interestingWhat is the BEST advice you have ever been given/heard?
Everything you need you already posses. If you can think it then you have the capabilities to manifest it. Be kind with your words, slow to judge and remember every action begins with a thought. You are what you think, do and say. That is truly who you are and whom you are becoming. Only you can change.What is the BEST advice you have ever been given/heard?
Mind is your ship, the Adjuster is your pilot, the human will is captain. The master of the mortal vessel should have the wisdom to trust the divine pilot to guide the ascending soul into the morontia harbors of eternal survival. Only by selfishness, slothfulness, and sinfulness can the will of man reject the guidance of such a loving pilot and eventually wreck the mortal career upon the evil shoals of rejected mercy and upon the rocks of embraced sin. With your consent, this faithful pilot will safely carry you across the barriers of time and the handicaps of space to the very source of the divine mind and on beyond, even to the Paradise Father of Adjusters.
Hi :)
Sorry, but can you help me translate these sentences?
1. Can you bring the menu?
2. What do you recommend for an appetizer?
3. I want the cream of mushroom soup, the pork chops and beans as the main course, and strawberry pie as dessert
4. Can I get a glass of red wine and a bottle of mineral water?
5. Aren't you too young?
6. Yes, but let's keep this a secret.
7. Thank you so much. This restaurant is great.
relationships: always treat SO's the best, be the kindest and most patient with them.
success: dont let it get into your head, keep grounded
religion: believe in goodness
world issues: help not to worsen it
it came from a person who hated me; take care of yourself , be selfish with your future, do not sacrifice for others b/c at the end they will be happy and you won't be
';If a woman wants to be the Queen of my castle she had better treat me like a King';wrinkles beauty
relationships,
success,
religion/spirituality
world issues
I just thought it would be interestingWhat is the BEST advice you have ever been given/heard?
Everything you need you already posses. If you can think it then you have the capabilities to manifest it. Be kind with your words, slow to judge and remember every action begins with a thought. You are what you think, do and say. That is truly who you are and whom you are becoming. Only you can change.What is the BEST advice you have ever been given/heard?
Mind is your ship, the Adjuster is your pilot, the human will is captain. The master of the mortal vessel should have the wisdom to trust the divine pilot to guide the ascending soul into the morontia harbors of eternal survival. Only by selfishness, slothfulness, and sinfulness can the will of man reject the guidance of such a loving pilot and eventually wreck the mortal career upon the evil shoals of rejected mercy and upon the rocks of embraced sin. With your consent, this faithful pilot will safely carry you across the barriers of time and the handicaps of space to the very source of the divine mind and on beyond, even to the Paradise Father of Adjusters.
Hi :)
Sorry, but can you help me translate these sentences?
1. Can you bring the menu?
2. What do you recommend for an appetizer?
3. I want the cream of mushroom soup, the pork chops and beans as the main course, and strawberry pie as dessert
4. Can I get a glass of red wine and a bottle of mineral water?
5. Aren't you too young?
6. Yes, but let's keep this a secret.
7. Thank you so much. This restaurant is great.
relationships: always treat SO's the best, be the kindest and most patient with them.
success: dont let it get into your head, keep grounded
religion: believe in goodness
world issues: help not to worsen it
it came from a person who hated me; take care of yourself , be selfish with your future, do not sacrifice for others b/c at the end they will be happy and you won't be
';If a woman wants to be the Queen of my castle she had better treat me like a King';
I need the best advice possible!!!!?
Hi, i have a friend who now lives in Jordan. thats across seas. Anyways she used to live in Kansas but someone told her parents that she was sleeping around and the got mad and abused her and sent her to live in Jordan with her Grandparents. They are worse. Always putting her down, hitting her, pushing her to the floor. The Grandma told her that the only reason i love you is cuz your my sons daughter. I want to get her help and get her away from her family. She is on the break of suicide. Can anyone help me get a number or something to child protective services. Thanks.I need the best advice possible!!!!?
Laws, customs and rules are very different in Jordan. There is nothing you can do. Worry about your own life and be glad to live in america.I need the best advice possible!!!!?
If your friend is a minor, and her parents know where she is, there isn't a thing you can do for her. In Jordan, people beat their kids, put them to work 12 hour days at age 12 and under, and do what they want to do with them. There are no child protective laws. I lived there for about 4 months one time, and I came back to the USA because I couldn't stand the cultural differences. Your friend needs to change her ways and be a better person. He parents aren't going to get off this tr
Travel to her and rescue her. Seriously- think how awesome it would be to be on the run, haha! It could make a movie. Gather up what money you can- get as much a spossible. Speak to her on the phone, and tell her your plan. Get a cheap flight- they're really not that expensive. If you can, get your parents in on this- let them know how you feel about it, they might even help you out financially, or they may let her stay with you. At least ask their advice on the situation.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en%26amp;q=chi鈥?/a>
All you have to do.
I would also suggest talking to your guidance counselor they are good with this stuff.
However since this in Jordan its unlikely anyone will do anything since its not in the US. Also you could go to her but you couldnt do anything assuming she is below the age of 18. She is still in custody of her parents or g-parents.
well its going to be harder since she is in jordan because thats just how they treat women but you could contact your local child protective services agent or whatever they are called and ask for advice and/or a number for national child protective services the number should be in the phonebook i would guess
Good Luck
You would have to inquire about international laws. Most likely, a country like Jordan would support her gran parents actions.
1. They are elders
2. She is a Female
SHe may have other rights due to the fact that she is from America, but since her parent's aren't getting involved I don't know.
ok not sure if this is best advice as not usa citizen ,we recently had case similar to that in uk ,her friend got in touch with home office not sure what department that is usa and they pursued the matter rescued her from abusive family in India repatriated her back to uk with the help of the host country who also didn't condone abuse .. perhaps if she is usa citizen contacting embassy in Jordan and give breakdown of the abuse they may investigate good luck
http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/4363/鈥?/a>
Has plenty of good numbers
i dont no the number so just look it up
911. duh
travel to her
Laws, customs and rules are very different in Jordan. There is nothing you can do. Worry about your own life and be glad to live in america.I need the best advice possible!!!!?
If your friend is a minor, and her parents know where she is, there isn't a thing you can do for her. In Jordan, people beat their kids, put them to work 12 hour days at age 12 and under, and do what they want to do with them. There are no child protective laws. I lived there for about 4 months one time, and I came back to the USA because I couldn't stand the cultural differences. Your friend needs to change her ways and be a better person. He parents aren't going to get off this tr
Travel to her and rescue her. Seriously- think how awesome it would be to be on the run, haha! It could make a movie. Gather up what money you can- get as much a spossible. Speak to her on the phone, and tell her your plan. Get a cheap flight- they're really not that expensive. If you can, get your parents in on this- let them know how you feel about it, they might even help you out financially, or they may let her stay with you. At least ask their advice on the situation.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en%26amp;q=chi鈥?/a>
All you have to do.
I would also suggest talking to your guidance counselor they are good with this stuff.
However since this in Jordan its unlikely anyone will do anything since its not in the US. Also you could go to her but you couldnt do anything assuming she is below the age of 18. She is still in custody of her parents or g-parents.
well its going to be harder since she is in jordan because thats just how they treat women but you could contact your local child protective services agent or whatever they are called and ask for advice and/or a number for national child protective services the number should be in the phonebook i would guess
Good Luck
You would have to inquire about international laws. Most likely, a country like Jordan would support her gran parents actions.
1. They are elders
2. She is a Female
SHe may have other rights due to the fact that she is from America, but since her parent's aren't getting involved I don't know.
ok not sure if this is best advice as not usa citizen ,we recently had case similar to that in uk ,her friend got in touch with home office not sure what department that is usa and they pursued the matter rescued her from abusive family in India repatriated her back to uk with the help of the host country who also didn't condone abuse .. perhaps if she is usa citizen contacting embassy in Jordan and give breakdown of the abuse they may investigate good luck
http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/4363/鈥?/a>
Has plenty of good numbers
i dont no the number so just look it up
911. duh
travel to her
10 points for best ADVICE from you sluts out there!!!!!!?
im a guy that is using my friends account!
Okay well I went out with a lovly girl. She is just perfect in my eyes. She would bake me cookies tell me that i was the best guy she has ever met and get me stuff for christmas. She would even surprise me to go to the movies and put on her fav love song in the car. She even made me this poem ,and i have to admit i didnt say thank you for anything. She is also very very pretty and perfect body.
I never got her anything nor hugged her or told her how much i cared for her. I avoided her sometimes when she wanted to give me hug when she saw me. ONE time she wanted to see me at my wrestling turnaments and I said NO! She would never get mad at me because she is soo nice and humble. I would even get mad at her because she would come up to me and wanted to eat lunch with me IN FRONT OF MY FRIENDS!
so would also do ramantic things for me... ugh
so i dumped her
now theres like tons of guys after her and want her to go out with her...
she still has feelings for me and asked me if we wanted to start over and asked me if i liked her still and i said NO!
but now i feel like a moron because i said that i didnt like her and i really do
now she might go out with a guy that said he was ';going to apreciate her';
I WANT HER BACK AND HOW CAN I GET HER BACK!!!!!!!!10 points for best ADVICE from you sluts out there!!!!!!?
well, calling all the girls on here sluts isn't going to get you anywhere. you are such a rude disrespectful guy, honestly. SO immature. from what you've said, you don't deserve anyone right now. you don't know what you've got till its gone. you really took her for granted. if it bugs you when she comes up to you in front of your friends, then you're ashamed of her and you shouldn't have her. you'll find someone else soon enough... if you're lucky. move on, get over it. you don't deserve her. honestly, acting like that won't get you anywhere.
respect, a$$hole.
edit - go on and tell her how you feel, if she's smart she'll laugh in your face. you'll most likely get rejected because you really treated her like crap. you're still a little boy.
if the guy is going to appreciate her, then let her be with him. because you definitely can't appreciate her.10 points for best ADVICE from you sluts out there!!!!!!?
If she's so nice and lovely, you should have appreciated her in the first place and treated her well! But you are young and will make these mistakes, like all guys do. If you want a girlfriend, you have to be nice to girls. Sounds to me like you don't deserve her. Especially starting this question off with the word SLUTS.
why is your name Jessica C?
You only want her back because you can't have her back, she's clearly over you if she's going out with someone else. Move on and treat people better in future.
you dont deserve her. u shud forget her. u need a kind of girl who can throw tantrums and want u to spend money on her and pamper her.
really if u cant appreciate pure love then thats wat u shud have.
just forget her
nah...no advice for you A$$hole because you don't deserve anyone but yourself
You didn't deserve her in the first place, don't drag her back to a sucky relationship.
you sound like a tool, i hope she doesn't let you win her back, she sounds way too good for you
wow why are you usin ma question to post this question? sluts???u mean girls
sounds like you screwed the pooch on this one, pal
All I can say UR A JERK
and you don't know what you have until it's gone.
this is too long
this is sooo fake
haha i dont believe this
its a buncha bs
May I suggest that you're a complete moron ?
...and if your whole thing here is true, then she's better off without you!
Okay well I went out with a lovly girl. She is just perfect in my eyes. She would bake me cookies tell me that i was the best guy she has ever met and get me stuff for christmas. She would even surprise me to go to the movies and put on her fav love song in the car. She even made me this poem ,and i have to admit i didnt say thank you for anything. She is also very very pretty and perfect body.
I never got her anything nor hugged her or told her how much i cared for her. I avoided her sometimes when she wanted to give me hug when she saw me. ONE time she wanted to see me at my wrestling turnaments and I said NO! She would never get mad at me because she is soo nice and humble. I would even get mad at her because she would come up to me and wanted to eat lunch with me IN FRONT OF MY FRIENDS!
so would also do ramantic things for me... ugh
so i dumped her
now theres like tons of guys after her and want her to go out with her...
she still has feelings for me and asked me if we wanted to start over and asked me if i liked her still and i said NO!
but now i feel like a moron because i said that i didnt like her and i really do
now she might go out with a guy that said he was ';going to apreciate her';
I WANT HER BACK AND HOW CAN I GET HER BACK!!!!!!!!10 points for best ADVICE from you sluts out there!!!!!!?
well, calling all the girls on here sluts isn't going to get you anywhere. you are such a rude disrespectful guy, honestly. SO immature. from what you've said, you don't deserve anyone right now. you don't know what you've got till its gone. you really took her for granted. if it bugs you when she comes up to you in front of your friends, then you're ashamed of her and you shouldn't have her. you'll find someone else soon enough... if you're lucky. move on, get over it. you don't deserve her. honestly, acting like that won't get you anywhere.
respect, a$$hole.
edit - go on and tell her how you feel, if she's smart she'll laugh in your face. you'll most likely get rejected because you really treated her like crap. you're still a little boy.
if the guy is going to appreciate her, then let her be with him. because you definitely can't appreciate her.10 points for best ADVICE from you sluts out there!!!!!!?
If she's so nice and lovely, you should have appreciated her in the first place and treated her well! But you are young and will make these mistakes, like all guys do. If you want a girlfriend, you have to be nice to girls. Sounds to me like you don't deserve her. Especially starting this question off with the word SLUTS.
why is your name Jessica C?
You only want her back because you can't have her back, she's clearly over you if she's going out with someone else. Move on and treat people better in future.
you dont deserve her. u shud forget her. u need a kind of girl who can throw tantrums and want u to spend money on her and pamper her.
really if u cant appreciate pure love then thats wat u shud have.
just forget her
nah...no advice for you A$$hole because you don't deserve anyone but yourself
You didn't deserve her in the first place, don't drag her back to a sucky relationship.
you sound like a tool, i hope she doesn't let you win her back, she sounds way too good for you
wow why are you usin ma question to post this question? sluts???u mean girls
sounds like you screwed the pooch on this one, pal
All I can say UR A JERK
and you don't know what you have until it's gone.
this is too long
this is sooo fake
haha i dont believe this
its a buncha bs
May I suggest that you're a complete moron ?
...and if your whole thing here is true, then she's better off without you!
Help 10 points best advice?
well i met a friend of a friend ill call him mr x a while ago and we hit it off mr x was askin me for my number but i didnt cop this and so mr x left wit out it a few nites later i was out wit a group of mr x's friends one of them i had been on and off wit a while before hand and he mentioned that the mr x liked me but he had a girl friend ne way i got over it cuz it was nothin against me and prob cuz of a bit two much drink kissed the friend ne way the next day the mr x txt me and we wer txten for a few day wen i said do u never go out wit this girlfriend of urs and mr x then told me that he didnt hav one....and then he found out that i had been wit his friend..so we wer all out a few nites after and alot was said about me and the friend bein tgether infront of mr x ...ne way me and mr x r still txten and it seems lik he liks me but how can i get him t just tell me r ask me on a date with out askin him?Help 10 points best advice?
give him time. lol god that was long theese people r douches .. overtop of my comment yeah i dunno he msut rly like you, but give it time he might not it might just be that hes sick of his gf but there jsut havin a fight or sumthing.... only time will tellHelp 10 points best advice?
Try flirting with him. Guys love te chase, so just flirt but be mysterious. Get one of your friends to talk to him and see what he is interested in. If all else fails, try to get together at his house for a movie or something. It can be a great way to bond and him o think about you as a girlfriend more.
I really wanted to help, but I couldn't read this. Sorry. Good Luck though.
. %26lt;--- thats a period. try using it sometime!
HUH?? i didnt understand anythingg!
suggest a great restaurant that's just opened or you've been dying to dine at
hmm this is a duzy! anyway just ask him out, no big deal
huh? use the enter bar and some real words
have you ever heard of a full stop?
or a paragraph?!?!?!
this hurts my brain to read
There could be different explanations. For starters Mr. X really could have a girlfriend and could be a player. Or, Mr. X's friend might have just really wanted to hook up with you and he could have lied about him having a girlfriend. Either way if you like Mr. X and you two seem to have a bond then just ask him out, maybe in a casual way to start, and then see where it goes from there. But I would say becareful in case he is a player and really does have a girlfriend, guys can be tricky about little things like that.
ok, its called a full stop, maybe try it some time. I didn't get most of what you said, but something about him txtin each other, and you wanting him to ask you out without you askin him because you dont want to damage your pride. am I right?
If so, complement him, and if he complements you back, he likes you, you're good to go. Then ask him what he's doing [WUU2 etc] , and if he asks back, or just asks you, say ';txtin this hot/cute/sxc etc guy, if he txts back using same sort of language, ask what happens to them, and then it'll probablyy lead to an ask out. If not, or if this is too cheesy, say a bunch of you are going out, does he want to come, which is almost an ask out, but not quite.
hope its a help
PS- USE PUNCTUATION!!!!!!
give him time. lol god that was long theese people r douches .. overtop of my comment yeah i dunno he msut rly like you, but give it time he might not it might just be that hes sick of his gf but there jsut havin a fight or sumthing.... only time will tellHelp 10 points best advice?
Try flirting with him. Guys love te chase, so just flirt but be mysterious. Get one of your friends to talk to him and see what he is interested in. If all else fails, try to get together at his house for a movie or something. It can be a great way to bond and him o think about you as a girlfriend more.
I really wanted to help, but I couldn't read this. Sorry. Good Luck though.
. %26lt;--- thats a period. try using it sometime!
HUH?? i didnt understand anythingg!
suggest a great restaurant that's just opened or you've been dying to dine at
hmm this is a duzy! anyway just ask him out, no big deal
huh? use the enter bar and some real words
have you ever heard of a full stop?
or a paragraph?!?!?!
this hurts my brain to read
There could be different explanations. For starters Mr. X really could have a girlfriend and could be a player. Or, Mr. X's friend might have just really wanted to hook up with you and he could have lied about him having a girlfriend. Either way if you like Mr. X and you two seem to have a bond then just ask him out, maybe in a casual way to start, and then see where it goes from there. But I would say becareful in case he is a player and really does have a girlfriend, guys can be tricky about little things like that.
ok, its called a full stop, maybe try it some time. I didn't get most of what you said, but something about him txtin each other, and you wanting him to ask you out without you askin him because you dont want to damage your pride. am I right?
If so, complement him, and if he complements you back, he likes you, you're good to go. Then ask him what he's doing [WUU2 etc] , and if he asks back, or just asks you, say ';txtin this hot/cute/sxc etc guy, if he txts back using same sort of language, ask what happens to them, and then it'll probablyy lead to an ask out. If not, or if this is too cheesy, say a bunch of you are going out, does he want to come, which is almost an ask out, but not quite.
hope its a help
PS- USE PUNCTUATION!!!!!!
10 points for best advice (:?
Okay so i had sex for the first time last tuesday so its been a week today. I bled cause he popped my cherry, obviously. but the next few days i bled REAL bad. then the next few days it was REAL light. i started feeling real sick today. and i keep getting dizzy. I didnt use protection( i know i know) but im not sure if he came or not. either way.. i have been peeing a whole lot latley and i dont know why. me and my friend are gonna take a test tomorrow. but i am scared. could i possibly be pregnant.? and i need good advice, if you would be willing to really talk to me about it leave your aim screen name, if not well needed advice please?10 points for best advice (:?
I think you are definitely pregnant, all of the signs and symptoms that you just explained are pregnancy symptoms. The only way to tell for sure is to take a pregnancy test. I hope you are not, but the possibilities are very great that you are. You CAN get pregnant the very first time! It has happened before. Good luck, I will leave my IM name for you if you need to talk.
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EDIT: Wow girl, you have asked this same question at least 5 times, haven't you gotten an answer yet???? If you want to know you NEED TO GO TO THE DOCTOR! That is unless you just want to keep asking over and over again!10 points for best advice (:?
Well after only a week you wouldn't be getting signs of being pregnant anyway. I was at week 6 before I got any symptoms (about 2 weeks late on my period).
When was your last period? When is your next period supposed to start? If you haven't missed a period yet I wouldn't worry at all.
However, USE A CONDOM ALWAYS!!! Seriously, be smart.
you could be pregnant , but ive heard a lot of people bleed heavy for a few days after they first had sex and it went away. If you are pregnant the bleeding has nothing to do with it though.
and you can email me for my aim if you want to talk
my email addres iss : fob_chk@yahoo.com
Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa鈥?too early to test for pregnancy, you need to wait at least until the day before your expected period to test. The rest of it is probably just your mind making you have symptoms.
Nope you are not pregnant. You might want to see a doctor. But its just some aftermath of sex. You'll be fine. Be sure to take your pregnancy test just to be sure.
well their is something called pre-*** where sperm is released without knowing it and usually happens in the beginning when no one knows. tsk tsk tsk..
You have the FLU esspecially if you JUST did it last tuesday?....yeah
Ummm, ok well you will not be able to find out if you were pregnant so soon first of all, it usually takes about 3 days for the egg to even implant, and the baby would be the size of a grain of rice at this stage if you were, so having to pee would not be an issue. I think you are convincing yourself that you are, that can happen. And most people don't continue to bleed if they are pregnant, it can happen, but is not common. Also when you are bleeding, period or not you can feel sick and dizzy. If you are concerned about being pregnant wait 2 more weeks and then go to the doctor and take a pregnancy test, it's better. For now, just try to forget about it and please wear protection next time, not only so you won't have to worry about getting pregnant, but so you limit your chance of getting an STD!!!!!
If you bled ';really heavy'; followed by ';really light';, then is this your period?
If it is your period, then no - you don't need to worry about pregnancy occuring - as it is very unlikely.
If it wasn't your period and was just unexplained bleeding - then taking a pregnancy test tomorrow is worthless. It is too soon. You need to wait until your period is expected (and it didn't come) to take a test. If your period comes on time, then pregnancy is basically out of the question.
All in all - you also should learn a lesson here. You say ';i know, i know'; regarding unprotected sex and the chance of pregnancy - but you have no idea how common STDs are. Unprotected sex, even if it is with someone you ';know well'; is extremely risky. Most of the time men don't LOOK like they have an STD - their penis can look fine - but they can carry viruses for genital warts and herpes without you even being able to tell - not to mention chlymadia, gonorrhea, and HIV.
Please - don't do the ';i know, i know'; thing. JUST DO the RIGHT thing - always bring protection with you.
I think you are definitely pregnant, all of the signs and symptoms that you just explained are pregnancy symptoms. The only way to tell for sure is to take a pregnancy test. I hope you are not, but the possibilities are very great that you are. You CAN get pregnant the very first time! It has happened before. Good luck, I will leave my IM name for you if you need to talk.
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EDIT: Wow girl, you have asked this same question at least 5 times, haven't you gotten an answer yet???? If you want to know you NEED TO GO TO THE DOCTOR! That is unless you just want to keep asking over and over again!10 points for best advice (:?
Well after only a week you wouldn't be getting signs of being pregnant anyway. I was at week 6 before I got any symptoms (about 2 weeks late on my period).
When was your last period? When is your next period supposed to start? If you haven't missed a period yet I wouldn't worry at all.
However, USE A CONDOM ALWAYS!!! Seriously, be smart.
you could be pregnant , but ive heard a lot of people bleed heavy for a few days after they first had sex and it went away. If you are pregnant the bleeding has nothing to do with it though.
and you can email me for my aim if you want to talk
my email addres iss : fob_chk@yahoo.com
Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa鈥?too early to test for pregnancy, you need to wait at least until the day before your expected period to test. The rest of it is probably just your mind making you have symptoms.
Nope you are not pregnant. You might want to see a doctor. But its just some aftermath of sex. You'll be fine. Be sure to take your pregnancy test just to be sure.
well their is something called pre-*** where sperm is released without knowing it and usually happens in the beginning when no one knows. tsk tsk tsk..
You have the FLU esspecially if you JUST did it last tuesday?....yeah
Ummm, ok well you will not be able to find out if you were pregnant so soon first of all, it usually takes about 3 days for the egg to even implant, and the baby would be the size of a grain of rice at this stage if you were, so having to pee would not be an issue. I think you are convincing yourself that you are, that can happen. And most people don't continue to bleed if they are pregnant, it can happen, but is not common. Also when you are bleeding, period or not you can feel sick and dizzy. If you are concerned about being pregnant wait 2 more weeks and then go to the doctor and take a pregnancy test, it's better. For now, just try to forget about it and please wear protection next time, not only so you won't have to worry about getting pregnant, but so you limit your chance of getting an STD!!!!!
If you bled ';really heavy'; followed by ';really light';, then is this your period?
If it is your period, then no - you don't need to worry about pregnancy occuring - as it is very unlikely.
If it wasn't your period and was just unexplained bleeding - then taking a pregnancy test tomorrow is worthless. It is too soon. You need to wait until your period is expected (and it didn't come) to take a test. If your period comes on time, then pregnancy is basically out of the question.
All in all - you also should learn a lesson here. You say ';i know, i know'; regarding unprotected sex and the chance of pregnancy - but you have no idea how common STDs are. Unprotected sex, even if it is with someone you ';know well'; is extremely risky. Most of the time men don't LOOK like they have an STD - their penis can look fine - but they can carry viruses for genital warts and herpes without you even being able to tell - not to mention chlymadia, gonorrhea, and HIV.
Please - don't do the ';i know, i know'; thing. JUST DO the RIGHT thing - always bring protection with you.
What is the best advice to give a 16 year old that is expecting a baby? what are some ways to get by?
Don't be rude! i just want to know some ways to get by with a low income. i know babies are not cheap at all. but there must be a few ways to save cash. Like breast feeding is cheaper and better for the baby, so i could envest in a breast pump. Also i was told cotton and warm water to take the place of wipes. And the obv. answer is never go for the ';Name Brand'; But what other advice could you give a new mother, who is just 16. And i am currently looking for a job, im not even a full month pregnant so i want to get as much done now as i can. Buying in Bundles
I want to keep my baby. I mean it's my baby. A baby needs their mother and that's me. I want to live up to my choice to have sex and make the best life i can for my child. So please don't say abortion or adoption
I plan on following through with school even college for early education.What is the best advice to give a 16 year old that is expecting a baby? what are some ways to get by?
Hi and congratulations.
You should look for a pregnancy center in your area with something called an ';Earn While You Learn'; program or similar. Basically, you would attend classes for lamaze, basic child care, infant CPR, etc, etc and earn ';money'; for each class you take. You can then use the ';money'; to purchase items which are donated. Many of these centers are volunteer non-profit and work from donations, and many will take special requests for items you need for the baby. Some will even have Maternity clothes available. And maternity clothes can be very expensive for something you will only wear for a short time.
Also, when the baby gets older, there are many websites out there which will tell you how to make your own baby food. Very healthy.
You can also save money by purchasing Flintstones Vitamins rather than prenatals which are expensive. However, most prenatals in the past year to two years contain something called DHA which can help the baby's brain develop. So you may want to swing the extra money for the real prenatals.
Look for a job with good health insurance that will cover a good amount of the baby's birth as well as your prenatal visits. And don't be shy about asking for used items from people with kids who are growing out of them.
If you know how to use a sewing machine, or can learn, there are some very easy patterns out there for baby items like blankets, crib bumpers, sheets, caps and booties on the internet. I've found a few myself and have already made some things for my unborn baby.
Also, look into government programs such as WIC, Medicaid, and housing if you are going to need a place to live. WIC will provide many of the nutritious foods you will need during your pregnancy, and also while you are breastfeeding your child. Things like nutritious cereals, milk, bread, eggs, etc. Between that and food stamps, that is a big chunk of money you can save.What is the best advice to give a 16 year old that is expecting a baby? what are some ways to get by?
I'm glad you mentioned college. A good education is the best thing you can do for a baby. Other than that, go to yard sales and get used items like strollers, cribs, carseats, even clothes. Don't be too proud to accept hand-me-downs either. If you have older cousins or friends who have had babies and they offer to give you something, take it.
Honestly, don't have a baby. If you're pro-life, don't have sex unless you want a baby.
check advertisements in newspapers for secondhand buggies and stuff (: they can be good quality at reasonable prices.
You sound sensible, and i wish you and your baby the best (:
Bx
cut down on stuff you buy yourself like new shoes and hair appointments and all that
use cloth diapers instead of expensive disposable ones
register at target and babies r us and invite a ton of people to your shower
dont buy baby toys, they can have fun with anything you give them
go to a grace house where they can give you bottles and clothes and stuff for free in exchange for you going there and learning about parenthood
Those are good ideas. Eventually the child will need clothes, doctors, food etc. I am hoping that you have a plan who will care for the baby when you are at work. Best advice I can give you is always have someone around for emergencies like your parents etc. Dont try to do it all alone. Its still very early in your pregnancy and it will be hard to find someone to hire you if you are pregnant. Good luck.
I think it is very adult of you to make the choices you are. It's very brave to be only 16 and take the responsibility.
My suggestion would be clip coupons! They can always help you save. Go online and get free samples. Never be afraid to take a handout. Second hand stores are WONDERFUL and you will grow to love them. Go to garage sales also.
Good luck and have fun shopping!
Follow through with your plans to go to college. There are a lot of programs to help single parents go to school. Take advantage of that.
Buy everything used. Go to Goodwill or Salvation Army. Check Craigslist for things you need. You really don't need that much in term of supplies. Keep up with your prenatal appointments.
You sound like you'll be a good mom. So good luck. And definitely stay in school. That's probably the best thing you can do for yourself and your child.
ok well first of all i would apply for government assistance, such as food stamps, medical assistance, family planning waiver, and cash assistance. since you are pregnant you should get it. you can apply for the wic program if you chose to bottle feed. they give you milk, juice, cheese, and cereal while you are pregnant and 10 cans of formula a month one the baby is born. wal mart sells a brand of diapers called parent's choice, which is what i use and i pay 14 dollars for 104 diapers. and 7 dollars every 2 months on 420 wipes. you can try. www.graigslist.com to find locals in your area giving away and selling baby stuff cheap and sometimes free. sometimes churches will help you. pregnancy resource center's can help you as well. there are plenty of jobs that you can do at 16 that you would still qualify for the assistance. trust me i'm 24 and still need the help sometimes. i have a 1 year old and my second on the way. my bf works full time and we still need help sometimes. so i know the situation you are in. but those should help you out.
Most towns have programs for low income expecting mothers. Google it in your town and see if they do. The one here you read articles and answer questions and earn points you can cash in for diapers, clothes, and anything else you may need for the baby.
Another idea is to see if any friends or family have a baby that is out growing clothes. If so ask if they can donate some to you for your little one. Don't be ashamed of hand me downs! There is no sense in buying a whole lot of clothes for a little person that grows so fast.
Ask your local health department for a list of human resource programs. There is help out there. It's up to you to find it.
Local churches generally have diaper programs. They receive diapers by the cases and give them to low income families with children.
Also check into getting food stamps and WIC, as well as a medicaid card.
Hope this helps. It will be okay, despite how hard it seems right now. Keep your head up and good luck with your little one.
Go you :D
I had loads of pressure of the father's mum to abort but I'm keeping mine too.
Best thing to do is go to places like Asda for the clothes because they are REALLY cheap there but also really decent, I know it's hard to not buy loads of brand name or expensive clothes for the baby but it's the best way to save money because the clothes and toys are really the most expensive things when it comes to buying for your baby.
Also you'll probably find that in most places neutral colours, like white that would be suitable for either a girl OR a boy, are cheaper, so go for a lot more neutral colours and buy the slightly more expensive stuff when you have a bit extra money.
One thing though, when buying things like the pram, car seat, cot, etc, DON'T go for second hand stuff because you don't know how safe they are and if it cost more to buy new still buy new because what's more important? Saving money or your baby's safety?
Anyway hope I helped a bit and good luck and best wishes for you and your baby x
You start off with don't be rude... I like that...
Um well you just told us you have low income so that is to be expected as you are only 16. Which means you will go on welfare and get WiC. Yay! Some way to get by... give the child up for adoption would be your best bet, but no.... that's too smart..... seriously think about this..... YOU PLAN on following thru with school and college, but you that's only a plan... i planned on being a news anchor and ended up a microbiologist... adoption... that's how to get by.
What's the best advice you've ever received in your entire life?
There's got to be something sticking out in your head right now. Advice you're probably going to remember for the rest of your life.
Well if you're wondering, my advice was given to me by my stepfather. It was about a month ago when I was really depressed about a lot of different things. He was driving me to school and he looked over at me and said:
';Whatever is bothering you right now probably seems really important. And you might think that life sucks. But sometimes you just have to pick up the pieces and move on, no matter how hard it is.';
So that's my good advice. Anyone else want to share?What's the best advice you've ever received in your entire life?
Through out my whole life, i've been given alot of advice about life.
There were a couple that have always stuck with me, like..
';Watch your words,once it's out of your mouth..you can't take it back';
Also, another one my mum told me..which is actually one of my best :
';It's your life and your responsibility to find your own happiness';
You can really learn alot from people, which also reminds me of another one ';treat people like you'd want to be treated';.What's the best advice you've ever received in your entire life?
My older sister told me never to watch soap operas since they are depressing and waste of time. That was many years ago. I dint. I thank her for that. Always stayed with me. Nothing great but it helped.There are other things that stayed with me that I wont go into now. Your grandfather is such a wonderful person to give that type of advice.
The best advice I have ever received is not to take advice from complete strangers on the internet!
trust no one, and you'll live.wrinkles beauty
Well if you're wondering, my advice was given to me by my stepfather. It was about a month ago when I was really depressed about a lot of different things. He was driving me to school and he looked over at me and said:
';Whatever is bothering you right now probably seems really important. And you might think that life sucks. But sometimes you just have to pick up the pieces and move on, no matter how hard it is.';
So that's my good advice. Anyone else want to share?What's the best advice you've ever received in your entire life?
Through out my whole life, i've been given alot of advice about life.
There were a couple that have always stuck with me, like..
';Watch your words,once it's out of your mouth..you can't take it back';
Also, another one my mum told me..which is actually one of my best :
';It's your life and your responsibility to find your own happiness';
You can really learn alot from people, which also reminds me of another one ';treat people like you'd want to be treated';.What's the best advice you've ever received in your entire life?
My older sister told me never to watch soap operas since they are depressing and waste of time. That was many years ago. I dint. I thank her for that. Always stayed with me. Nothing great but it helped.There are other things that stayed with me that I wont go into now. Your grandfather is such a wonderful person to give that type of advice.
The best advice I have ever received is not to take advice from complete strangers on the internet!
trust no one, and you'll live.
What is the best advice you can give for a teenager about school?
Okay, I am in the 9th grade, and this year, I went to a prep high school. I am switching back to public school, and ive realized that EVERYONE has changed. Whether is was sending nude pictures around school, having sex in the bathroom, drinking, or doing drugs. I was shocked to realize what was happening. I deffinetly think this year has changed me a lot, but in a good way. It has taught me a lot about life, but im still kind of nervous for 10th grade at the other school. Im afraid that I wont stay true to myself and end up having sex and doing drugs? Help, I need advice! By the way, im 14. OH, and im sorry that this doesn't belong in womens health, but I thought a lot of girls that have been through high school would be on here, so I thought this was the best place to post. :)What is the best advice you can give for a teenager about school?
Every school has its cliques (popular kids, jocks, nerds, druggies, etc). That's an unavoidable fact no matter where you are. High schools are not bad teen Lifetime movies... Everywhere has some kids who are into experimenting, and partying. As you should already know, choose your friends wisely. If someone starts leading you down a road you don't want to go down, stop being friends with him/her. You'll be fine.What is the best advice you can give for a teenager about school?
It's alright to be nervous but stick up for yourself. If you don't want to have sex, don't do it and don't let anyone pressure you into it. If you don't want to experiment with drugs or drinking, don't. Tell your friends your not into that sort of thing, they should understand. If they don't, and your uncomfortable, maybe you should try meeting new friends...
High school is a great experience, just know going in, if you don't want to do something, you don't have to. It looks a lot better if you say no and really mean it, than if you say no and do it anyway, because you were pressured, then people think they can take advantage of that...just try to be confident in yourself.
Okay honestly high schools are not that bad! Grow a back bone dear. If you stick to your morals and your ethics first and foremost you will do well. You do learn a lot about this life in high school, where else would you learn. High school is not the place to experiment. Work hard now and when you are older it will pay off.
In all honesty, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do.
My group of friends do have wild parties, but they don't care if you don't want to do something.
It's all good.
Make friends that don't care if you refuse to do something...because they're actually real friends.
If you're going to experiment with stuff...
don't do too much, or do it smart.
Good luck, I'm sure you'll be fine!
Well I had of that experience to in my middle school.Try to make friend who are not doing drugs,and sex in the bathroom.Stay out of trouble.Alot of people have party's at there house check it out because usally end's up drug's and sex.My advice would stay away from those people.
do whatever you want to dont let peer pressure effect u.
i go to private
well I'm 19 and graduated in may and i spent three years in a public high school it was a small school but still had the drinking and sex going on and i never did drugs or was drinking or had sex cuz i wanted to be a roll model for my nephews to look up to and others kids or teenagers to see that it is possible to stay a virgin though high school and not drink or do drugs so just stand ur ground and if u don't want to do something just say no and stick to it no matter what cuz later in life it's what u think of urself as that matters and not what ppl think so as long as u stand for ur beliefs ur'll be fine and don't do something just becuz everyone is doing it be different and most of all be urself and if ppl don't like it then u don't need them as Friends cuz ur true friends won't try and talk u into doing something u don't want or not ready to do yet so be strong and ur life is just beginning so good luck and make good choices. and if u ever need to talk just e-mail me, i have the e-mail thing open for ppl to e-mail me so i wish u luck.:)
Well I left high school a long time ago but I know it is difficult cause you may feel the need to fit in but in all your efforts remain true to yourself don't change to be popular or do what everybody else is doing I know it is not easy but for me it worked I never did what the rest were doing believe me being popular does not determine how you will turn out in life but be focused on your school work at all times remember ';time lost can never be regained';. If you have any further troubles talk to your parent/parents you are young and smart take care of yourself and make the best out of your life.
don't give in to peer pressure.
the only drug i'd ever recommend is weed, but even that you should wait until you're a little bit older. if anyone offers you anything, simply say no. i'm an upcoming junior in high school.. all my friends are seniors, and neither me nor my friends could care less if someone doesn't wanna smoke or drink with us. we'll still chill with them. and i know a lot of the kids around here are the same (they won't mind if you decline 'partying' with them) so i doubt you have anything to worry about. high school really isn't how movies make it out to be... although yours seems like it might be, because i can't say i know anyone whos had sex in the bathroom.. that's kind of gross.
anyway, don't even worry. just be you. if you don't wanna do anything that you have to second-guess, don't. it's that simple. if anyone has a problem with that, fxck them.
Hang out with people who mainly don't do these things. And if some of your friends do try these things then you just don't do it with them. I was very focussed in high school and really got good marks, etc., but never felt left out or unpopular. It is possible :)
When you stand by your own ideals and morals for yourself, people respect that and anyone who doesn't respect that isn't really someone you want to be around.
Also, I think you will find that it is only a small group that does all this stuff you mentioned. It just seems like everyone.
Every school has its cliques (popular kids, jocks, nerds, druggies, etc). That's an unavoidable fact no matter where you are. High schools are not bad teen Lifetime movies... Everywhere has some kids who are into experimenting, and partying. As you should already know, choose your friends wisely. If someone starts leading you down a road you don't want to go down, stop being friends with him/her. You'll be fine.What is the best advice you can give for a teenager about school?
It's alright to be nervous but stick up for yourself. If you don't want to have sex, don't do it and don't let anyone pressure you into it. If you don't want to experiment with drugs or drinking, don't. Tell your friends your not into that sort of thing, they should understand. If they don't, and your uncomfortable, maybe you should try meeting new friends...
High school is a great experience, just know going in, if you don't want to do something, you don't have to. It looks a lot better if you say no and really mean it, than if you say no and do it anyway, because you were pressured, then people think they can take advantage of that...just try to be confident in yourself.
Okay honestly high schools are not that bad! Grow a back bone dear. If you stick to your morals and your ethics first and foremost you will do well. You do learn a lot about this life in high school, where else would you learn. High school is not the place to experiment. Work hard now and when you are older it will pay off.
In all honesty, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do.
My group of friends do have wild parties, but they don't care if you don't want to do something.
It's all good.
Make friends that don't care if you refuse to do something...because they're actually real friends.
If you're going to experiment with stuff...
don't do too much, or do it smart.
Good luck, I'm sure you'll be fine!
Well I had of that experience to in my middle school.Try to make friend who are not doing drugs,and sex in the bathroom.Stay out of trouble.Alot of people have party's at there house check it out because usally end's up drug's and sex.My advice would stay away from those people.
do whatever you want to dont let peer pressure effect u.
i go to private
well I'm 19 and graduated in may and i spent three years in a public high school it was a small school but still had the drinking and sex going on and i never did drugs or was drinking or had sex cuz i wanted to be a roll model for my nephews to look up to and others kids or teenagers to see that it is possible to stay a virgin though high school and not drink or do drugs so just stand ur ground and if u don't want to do something just say no and stick to it no matter what cuz later in life it's what u think of urself as that matters and not what ppl think so as long as u stand for ur beliefs ur'll be fine and don't do something just becuz everyone is doing it be different and most of all be urself and if ppl don't like it then u don't need them as Friends cuz ur true friends won't try and talk u into doing something u don't want or not ready to do yet so be strong and ur life is just beginning so good luck and make good choices. and if u ever need to talk just e-mail me, i have the e-mail thing open for ppl to e-mail me so i wish u luck.:)
Well I left high school a long time ago but I know it is difficult cause you may feel the need to fit in but in all your efforts remain true to yourself don't change to be popular or do what everybody else is doing I know it is not easy but for me it worked I never did what the rest were doing believe me being popular does not determine how you will turn out in life but be focused on your school work at all times remember ';time lost can never be regained';. If you have any further troubles talk to your parent/parents you are young and smart take care of yourself and make the best out of your life.
don't give in to peer pressure.
the only drug i'd ever recommend is weed, but even that you should wait until you're a little bit older. if anyone offers you anything, simply say no. i'm an upcoming junior in high school.. all my friends are seniors, and neither me nor my friends could care less if someone doesn't wanna smoke or drink with us. we'll still chill with them. and i know a lot of the kids around here are the same (they won't mind if you decline 'partying' with them) so i doubt you have anything to worry about. high school really isn't how movies make it out to be... although yours seems like it might be, because i can't say i know anyone whos had sex in the bathroom.. that's kind of gross.
anyway, don't even worry. just be you. if you don't wanna do anything that you have to second-guess, don't. it's that simple. if anyone has a problem with that, fxck them.
Hang out with people who mainly don't do these things. And if some of your friends do try these things then you just don't do it with them. I was very focussed in high school and really got good marks, etc., but never felt left out or unpopular. It is possible :)
When you stand by your own ideals and morals for yourself, people respect that and anyone who doesn't respect that isn't really someone you want to be around.
Also, I think you will find that it is only a small group that does all this stuff you mentioned. It just seems like everyone.
What is the best advice you can give for a teenager about school?
Okay, I am in the 9th grade, and this year, I went to a prep high school. I am switching back to public school, and ive realized that EVERYONE has changed. Whether is was sending nude pictures around school, having sex in the bathroom, drinking, or doing drugs. I was shocked to realize what was happening. I deffinetly think this year has changed me a lot, but in a good way. It has taught me a lot about life, but im still kind of nervous for 10th grade at the other school. Im afraid that I wont stay true to myself and end up having sex and doing drugs? Help, I need advice! By the way, im 14. OH, and im sorry that this doesn't belong in womens health, but I thought a lot of girls that have been through high school would be on here, so I thought this was the best place to post. :)What is the best advice you can give for a teenager about school?
Every school has its cliques (popular kids, jocks, nerds, druggies, etc). That's an unavoidable fact no matter where you are. High schools are not bad teen Lifetime movies... Everywhere has some kids who are into experimenting, and partying. As you should already know, choose your friends wisely. If someone starts leading you down a road you don't want to go down, stop being friends with him/her. You'll be fine.What is the best advice you can give for a teenager about school?
It's alright to be nervous but stick up for yourself. If you don't want to have sex, don't do it and don't let anyone pressure you into it. If you don't want to experiment with drugs or drinking, don't. Tell your friends your not into that sort of thing, they should understand. If they don't, and your uncomfortable, maybe you should try meeting new friends...
High school is a great experience, just know going in, if you don't want to do something, you don't have to. It looks a lot better if you say no and really mean it, than if you say no and do it anyway, because you were pressured, then people think they can take advantage of that...just try to be confident in yourself.
Okay honestly high schools are not that bad! Grow a back bone dear. If you stick to your morals and your ethics first and foremost you will do well. You do learn a lot about this life in high school, where else would you learn. High school is not the place to experiment. Work hard now and when you are older it will pay off.
In all honesty, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do.
My group of friends do have wild parties, but they don't care if you don't want to do something.
It's all good.
Make friends that don't care if you refuse to do something...because they're actually real friends.
If you're going to experiment with stuff...
don't do too much, or do it smart.
Good luck, I'm sure you'll be fine!
Well I had of that experience to in my middle school.Try to make friend who are not doing drugs,and sex in the bathroom.Stay out of trouble.Alot of people have party's at there house check it out because usally end's up drug's and sex.My advice would stay away from those people.
do whatever you want to dont let peer pressure effect u.
i go to private
well I'm 19 and graduated in may and i spent three years in a public high school it was a small school but still had the drinking and sex going on and i never did drugs or was drinking or had sex cuz i wanted to be a roll model for my nephews to look up to and others kids or teenagers to see that it is possible to stay a virgin though high school and not drink or do drugs so just stand ur ground and if u don't want to do something just say no and stick to it no matter what cuz later in life it's what u think of urself as that matters and not what ppl think so as long as u stand for ur beliefs ur'll be fine and don't do something just becuz everyone is doing it be different and most of all be urself and if ppl don't like it then u don't need them as Friends cuz ur true friends won't try and talk u into doing something u don't want or not ready to do yet so be strong and ur life is just beginning so good luck and make good choices. and if u ever need to talk just e-mail me, i have the e-mail thing open for ppl to e-mail me so i wish u luck.:)
Well I left high school a long time ago but I know it is difficult cause you may feel the need to fit in but in all your efforts remain true to yourself don't change to be popular or do what everybody else is doing I know it is not easy but for me it worked I never did what the rest were doing believe me being popular does not determine how you will turn out in life but be focused on your school work at all times remember ';time lost can never be regained';. If you have any further troubles talk to your parent/parents you are young and smart take care of yourself and make the best out of your life.
don't give in to peer pressure.
the only drug i'd ever recommend is weed, but even that you should wait until you're a little bit older. if anyone offers you anything, simply say no. i'm an upcoming junior in high school.. all my friends are seniors, and neither me nor my friends could care less if someone doesn't wanna smoke or drink with us. we'll still chill with them. and i know a lot of the kids around here are the same (they won't mind if you decline 'partying' with them) so i doubt you have anything to worry about. high school really isn't how movies make it out to be... although yours seems like it might be, because i can't say i know anyone whos had sex in the bathroom.. that's kind of gross.
anyway, don't even worry. just be you. if you don't wanna do anything that you have to second-guess, don't. it's that simple. if anyone has a problem with that, fxck them.
Hang out with people who mainly don't do these things. And if some of your friends do try these things then you just don't do it with them. I was very focussed in high school and really got good marks, etc., but never felt left out or unpopular. It is possible :)
When you stand by your own ideals and morals for yourself, people respect that and anyone who doesn't respect that isn't really someone you want to be around.
Also, I think you will find that it is only a small group that does all this stuff you mentioned. It just seems like everyone.
Every school has its cliques (popular kids, jocks, nerds, druggies, etc). That's an unavoidable fact no matter where you are. High schools are not bad teen Lifetime movies... Everywhere has some kids who are into experimenting, and partying. As you should already know, choose your friends wisely. If someone starts leading you down a road you don't want to go down, stop being friends with him/her. You'll be fine.What is the best advice you can give for a teenager about school?
It's alright to be nervous but stick up for yourself. If you don't want to have sex, don't do it and don't let anyone pressure you into it. If you don't want to experiment with drugs or drinking, don't. Tell your friends your not into that sort of thing, they should understand. If they don't, and your uncomfortable, maybe you should try meeting new friends...
High school is a great experience, just know going in, if you don't want to do something, you don't have to. It looks a lot better if you say no and really mean it, than if you say no and do it anyway, because you were pressured, then people think they can take advantage of that...just try to be confident in yourself.
Okay honestly high schools are not that bad! Grow a back bone dear. If you stick to your morals and your ethics first and foremost you will do well. You do learn a lot about this life in high school, where else would you learn. High school is not the place to experiment. Work hard now and when you are older it will pay off.
In all honesty, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do.
My group of friends do have wild parties, but they don't care if you don't want to do something.
It's all good.
Make friends that don't care if you refuse to do something...because they're actually real friends.
If you're going to experiment with stuff...
don't do too much, or do it smart.
Good luck, I'm sure you'll be fine!
Well I had of that experience to in my middle school.Try to make friend who are not doing drugs,and sex in the bathroom.Stay out of trouble.Alot of people have party's at there house check it out because usally end's up drug's and sex.My advice would stay away from those people.
do whatever you want to dont let peer pressure effect u.
i go to private
well I'm 19 and graduated in may and i spent three years in a public high school it was a small school but still had the drinking and sex going on and i never did drugs or was drinking or had sex cuz i wanted to be a roll model for my nephews to look up to and others kids or teenagers to see that it is possible to stay a virgin though high school and not drink or do drugs so just stand ur ground and if u don't want to do something just say no and stick to it no matter what cuz later in life it's what u think of urself as that matters and not what ppl think so as long as u stand for ur beliefs ur'll be fine and don't do something just becuz everyone is doing it be different and most of all be urself and if ppl don't like it then u don't need them as Friends cuz ur true friends won't try and talk u into doing something u don't want or not ready to do yet so be strong and ur life is just beginning so good luck and make good choices. and if u ever need to talk just e-mail me, i have the e-mail thing open for ppl to e-mail me so i wish u luck.:)
Well I left high school a long time ago but I know it is difficult cause you may feel the need to fit in but in all your efforts remain true to yourself don't change to be popular or do what everybody else is doing I know it is not easy but for me it worked I never did what the rest were doing believe me being popular does not determine how you will turn out in life but be focused on your school work at all times remember ';time lost can never be regained';. If you have any further troubles talk to your parent/parents you are young and smart take care of yourself and make the best out of your life.
don't give in to peer pressure.
the only drug i'd ever recommend is weed, but even that you should wait until you're a little bit older. if anyone offers you anything, simply say no. i'm an upcoming junior in high school.. all my friends are seniors, and neither me nor my friends could care less if someone doesn't wanna smoke or drink with us. we'll still chill with them. and i know a lot of the kids around here are the same (they won't mind if you decline 'partying' with them) so i doubt you have anything to worry about. high school really isn't how movies make it out to be... although yours seems like it might be, because i can't say i know anyone whos had sex in the bathroom.. that's kind of gross.
anyway, don't even worry. just be you. if you don't wanna do anything that you have to second-guess, don't. it's that simple. if anyone has a problem with that, fxck them.
Hang out with people who mainly don't do these things. And if some of your friends do try these things then you just don't do it with them. I was very focussed in high school and really got good marks, etc., but never felt left out or unpopular. It is possible :)
When you stand by your own ideals and morals for yourself, people respect that and anyone who doesn't respect that isn't really someone you want to be around.
Also, I think you will find that it is only a small group that does all this stuff you mentioned. It just seems like everyone.
What is the best advice you've ever been given? ?
and, also, why does no one ever answer my questions? i am very stressed, and i still hav no answeres for my question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a> it would probly be easy to get the ten points, because no one is answernig. What is the best advice you've ever been given? ?
The golden rule... Treat others as you would like to be treatedWhat is the best advice you've ever been given? ?
The best advice, was pretty much encouragement; even though i wasnt thrilled about my brother joining the marines i wasnt going to hate him for doing it. Hes so happy we all support him, but god i can not wait until his term is over!
';When someone compliments you, just say thank you.';
I used to unintentionally deflect the compliment with some off-hand comment.
Stay away from that cheat - he will eventually hurt you!
I didn't
and
yes he hurt me very badly.
Be yourself...
Dont sweat the small stuff.
Never go to bed mad at your wife
To be a leader, and not a follower.
Drop A-Level maths.
to let go..
and u're question has been deleted ..sorry..
The golden rule... Treat others as you would like to be treatedWhat is the best advice you've ever been given? ?
The best advice, was pretty much encouragement; even though i wasnt thrilled about my brother joining the marines i wasnt going to hate him for doing it. Hes so happy we all support him, but god i can not wait until his term is over!
';When someone compliments you, just say thank you.';
I used to unintentionally deflect the compliment with some off-hand comment.
Stay away from that cheat - he will eventually hurt you!
I didn't
and
yes he hurt me very badly.
Be yourself...
Dont sweat the small stuff.
Never go to bed mad at your wife
To be a leader, and not a follower.
Drop A-Level maths.
to let go..
and u're question has been deleted ..sorry..
What is the best advice to give your friend about her boyfriend getting help from other females with tasks?
Okay here's the skinny. My friend has a boyfriend and they have been together for a little over three years now. They have a long distance relationship which, due to the fact that the he is always in and out of the country on business. Right now he is working on a project so he has not been able to come home as much as he likes. While he has been gone he asked a neighbor to look after his house for him because the last time he was home he had a new roof put on his house, and he wasn't happy with the job so he had the company come out and redo the job while he is out of the country. He happens to find out from another neighbor in the neighborhood that the neighbor that was watching his house was talking bad about him. So he asks his friend, who is a female, who has been picking up his mail to get the keys from the neighbor and take care of the roof job.
Well the boyfriend gets a email from a ex girlfriend that she found some stuff that belonged to him. So she shoots him and email to tell him that she wants to give him his stuff. Well he then tells the ex to drop the stuff at the neighbors house who suppose to be watching the house. Anyways the friend that is now looking after the roof and getting his mail and the ex girlfriend meet up at the same time. To make it a little shorter they pretty much start telling lies that the other was engaged or going together. And then they both start posting stuff on his page because both of them are friends on a certain soical website and they even emailed each other about him. Its a mess.
My friend is upset because is like he didn't trust her enough to ask her to get his mail or even have his mail sent to her house. He wasn't going to tell her about it. They live in the same state but about 2 hours away. She feels as though he doesn't trust her, but she trust him full.
how do I help my friendWhat is the best advice to give your friend about her boyfriend getting help from other females with tasks?
First of all , there is not much YOU can do for her but she can do for herself.
She has to take a time and have serious talk with him about this Trust issue. and then the boyfriend, who I believe is out oif his mind to get help from such jerks, has to stop all this mess by not giving any permission or ask any help from such assholes.
Good LuckWhat is the best advice to give your friend about her boyfriend getting help from other females with tasks?
i understand how she may feel however honestly I would not have a romantic partner handling my house keys just in case she decided to bring another love interest over my house or if she decided to break up with me while i was away and then the security of my house and belongings would be in jeopardy until I got back. I also understand how thats messed up because they have been together for 3 years, if there is no talk of engagement then she should move oon, and I would be verry irritated that he had female friends doing all his chores and then lying about being with him on a social network. She should probably end the relationship because she might be getting played since she at first didnt even know about the whole roofing drama and the scenario. Yea in short there r trust issues communicayion issues and she should probably move on
Well the boyfriend gets a email from a ex girlfriend that she found some stuff that belonged to him. So she shoots him and email to tell him that she wants to give him his stuff. Well he then tells the ex to drop the stuff at the neighbors house who suppose to be watching the house. Anyways the friend that is now looking after the roof and getting his mail and the ex girlfriend meet up at the same time. To make it a little shorter they pretty much start telling lies that the other was engaged or going together. And then they both start posting stuff on his page because both of them are friends on a certain soical website and they even emailed each other about him. Its a mess.
My friend is upset because is like he didn't trust her enough to ask her to get his mail or even have his mail sent to her house. He wasn't going to tell her about it. They live in the same state but about 2 hours away. She feels as though he doesn't trust her, but she trust him full.
how do I help my friendWhat is the best advice to give your friend about her boyfriend getting help from other females with tasks?
First of all , there is not much YOU can do for her but she can do for herself.
She has to take a time and have serious talk with him about this Trust issue. and then the boyfriend, who I believe is out oif his mind to get help from such jerks, has to stop all this mess by not giving any permission or ask any help from such assholes.
Good LuckWhat is the best advice to give your friend about her boyfriend getting help from other females with tasks?
i understand how she may feel however honestly I would not have a romantic partner handling my house keys just in case she decided to bring another love interest over my house or if she decided to break up with me while i was away and then the security of my house and belongings would be in jeopardy until I got back. I also understand how thats messed up because they have been together for 3 years, if there is no talk of engagement then she should move oon, and I would be verry irritated that he had female friends doing all his chores and then lying about being with him on a social network. She should probably end the relationship because she might be getting played since she at first didnt even know about the whole roofing drama and the scenario. Yea in short there r trust issues communicayion issues and she should probably move on
What's your best advice on ruling out the negativity...?
that was instilled in you as a child. Limiting beliefs, low self esteem, not feeling enough. Even you realize that these are not true, sometimes I get so tire of the negative voice popping in my head. I feel like I have to shut it up.
I've always been told I was not enough sadly. I was verbally abused....etc. Sometimes I get so jealous of people who are naturally positive who have postive upbringing. Its inevitable that negativity happens, but they somehow handle it easier and more lighthearted. For me, its a war in my mind. =(What's your best advice on ruling out the negativity...?
words can be poison. i love this video...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GpkfCZPbl鈥?/a>What's your best advice on ruling out the negativity...?
Joyce Meyer wrote a book called Battlefield of the Mind. She says when you get stinking thinking, you have to trade negative thoughts for positive ones and you have to practice this on purpose. So when the negative thoughts start, just think of your favorite song, poem, Bible verse, joke. I think of a song in the morning, and if I get bummed out, I just think of that song. You could get a notebook and write down three good things that happen to you everyday. Then you will notice more good things happening because you focus on the good things each day instead of the bad things.
there are things that they don't have that you do.
don't let those things get you down.
it happens to us everyday.
just thank the Lord that it was all you endured.
Some people have worse situations.
Jealous of postive people?
Me too. It's good to know I'm not the only one with that problem.
And I wish I had an answer to your question. But I don't.
Hi Dear
Don't think about yourself. Just keep helping people who need it.
Giving gives great satisfaction
omg, i totally know where you're coming from! i grew up dealing with more negativity than love, and it's just like you said, a war in your mind involving all the voices that you heard in the past. it sucks.
the first thing that i came to realize is that i chose to be involved with negative people, even if unconsciously. these people reflected the way that my parents and so-called friends treated me before, and since i'm so familiar with that kind of treatment, i think it's the only option for me. instead of being so jealous of positive people, i'm trying to surround myself with more of them so they can serve as a role model for me. i can learn their secrets and use them for myself. =]
also, i looked into hypnotherapy to change the negative messages implanted in my subconscious mind. i'm not going to get into any boring details here, but i'm pretty sure that you can benefit tons from self-hypnosis and guided meditations that help reprogramming your subconscious. please consider looking into them.
i wish you a lot of luck in everything! i hope this helps!
xoxoxoxox
I've always been told I was not enough sadly. I was verbally abused....etc. Sometimes I get so jealous of people who are naturally positive who have postive upbringing. Its inevitable that negativity happens, but they somehow handle it easier and more lighthearted. For me, its a war in my mind. =(What's your best advice on ruling out the negativity...?
words can be poison. i love this video...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GpkfCZPbl鈥?/a>What's your best advice on ruling out the negativity...?
Joyce Meyer wrote a book called Battlefield of the Mind. She says when you get stinking thinking, you have to trade negative thoughts for positive ones and you have to practice this on purpose. So when the negative thoughts start, just think of your favorite song, poem, Bible verse, joke. I think of a song in the morning, and if I get bummed out, I just think of that song. You could get a notebook and write down three good things that happen to you everyday. Then you will notice more good things happening because you focus on the good things each day instead of the bad things.
there are things that they don't have that you do.
don't let those things get you down.
it happens to us everyday.
just thank the Lord that it was all you endured.
Some people have worse situations.
Jealous of postive people?
Me too. It's good to know I'm not the only one with that problem.
And I wish I had an answer to your question. But I don't.
Hi Dear
Don't think about yourself. Just keep helping people who need it.
Giving gives great satisfaction
omg, i totally know where you're coming from! i grew up dealing with more negativity than love, and it's just like you said, a war in your mind involving all the voices that you heard in the past. it sucks.
the first thing that i came to realize is that i chose to be involved with negative people, even if unconsciously. these people reflected the way that my parents and so-called friends treated me before, and since i'm so familiar with that kind of treatment, i think it's the only option for me. instead of being so jealous of positive people, i'm trying to surround myself with more of them so they can serve as a role model for me. i can learn their secrets and use them for myself. =]
also, i looked into hypnotherapy to change the negative messages implanted in my subconscious mind. i'm not going to get into any boring details here, but i'm pretty sure that you can benefit tons from self-hypnosis and guided meditations that help reprogramming your subconscious. please consider looking into them.
i wish you a lot of luck in everything! i hope this helps!
xoxoxoxox
What's the best advice you can give to a young couple moving in together for the first time.?
My boyfriend and I are a young couple, I'm almost out of high school and he has been for a year. We are both attending post-secondary education in the fall and will be moving in together. We have been dating for 3 years, all through high school, and haven't taken a break or had any real issues. We have handled a lot of stresses together and I like to think we're a really strong couple, and mature for our ages. I'm not nervous about moving together, I'm excited, and I think we'll do well. But since we have never been in this kind of situation, I'm just wondering if there are any tricks of the trade to ensure a healthy, maintained relationship for a couple experiencing stress from school, work, family, and other issues. Thanks! =)What's the best advice you can give to a young couple moving in together for the first time.?
kiss each other every morning before you start your day and each night before you fall asleep. be respectful of the other persons needs. both should help with cleaning, cooking, and other chores. remember you dont have to be each others shadow because you live together. spend time alone or with other friends. always talk about any issues you have. dont ignore them. be pleasant and not in a bad mood alot. that is a real bummer. most important trust each other and dont be jealous. i think its the number one relationship killer. good luck. i have been married thirty five years. this works,What's the best advice you can give to a young couple moving in together for the first time.?
Living with a boy can be very... trying. I'm newly in this situation myself. I think success depends a lot on the fact that you guys will NOT do things the same way and you'll get irritated at little things because you both come from completely separate backgrounds. But if you're fully aware that these things are going to happen and you're both open to talking things out and coping in an adult manner, you'll be fine.
Get an eduction first. If you what a good relationship. the tow of you need to be able to talk about ever thing and any thing with out getting mad.Talking and under standing is the key. Remember that things will change as you grow older. That is what life is about.Change.
Share the responsibilities of cooking, cleaning, shopping and split the bills. Also, don't act like you own each other, just because you live together.
-give him his space
-don't call him too often
***basically, don't act like his mom is the best advice i can give u. be sexy, cute, n chill.
it won't last. it never does
i agree with that dude
be willing to give... and take... thats all...
ok first... REALLY think about wat ur doing. REAL HARD!!! if ur 100% sure tat u wanna move in wit each other then go right ahead. just make sure to love each other the same or more when u werent in the same house. dnt fight cuz tats wat makes couples separate(usually). when ur BF is stressed out, talk to him and make him feel comfortable. he should do the same if ur stressed. when u have ideas bout ur future talk to him about it and dnt just do it witout him knowing. Do stuff for each other, have sex once in a while(if u do tat) if u dnt then dnt do it till u think ur ready. dnt push him and dnt let him push u. Say I Love You to him(if u say tat to each other). spend time wit each other. go out and have fun. kiss him randomly (I personally like tat). Kiss him passionately. hug him a lot(i like tat too, makes me feel cared for). when he cries, cry wit him, share each others pain. if u cook cook his favorite dish, he should do something in return as well. and finnaly... care for each other each day as if it were ur last. and do other stuff u can think of ok. I wish u two the best of luck . stay strong and kool. Hope u enjoy ur lives togheter. Bye Byewrinkles beauty
kiss each other every morning before you start your day and each night before you fall asleep. be respectful of the other persons needs. both should help with cleaning, cooking, and other chores. remember you dont have to be each others shadow because you live together. spend time alone or with other friends. always talk about any issues you have. dont ignore them. be pleasant and not in a bad mood alot. that is a real bummer. most important trust each other and dont be jealous. i think its the number one relationship killer. good luck. i have been married thirty five years. this works,What's the best advice you can give to a young couple moving in together for the first time.?
Living with a boy can be very... trying. I'm newly in this situation myself. I think success depends a lot on the fact that you guys will NOT do things the same way and you'll get irritated at little things because you both come from completely separate backgrounds. But if you're fully aware that these things are going to happen and you're both open to talking things out and coping in an adult manner, you'll be fine.
Get an eduction first. If you what a good relationship. the tow of you need to be able to talk about ever thing and any thing with out getting mad.Talking and under standing is the key. Remember that things will change as you grow older. That is what life is about.Change.
Share the responsibilities of cooking, cleaning, shopping and split the bills. Also, don't act like you own each other, just because you live together.
-give him his space
-don't call him too often
***basically, don't act like his mom is the best advice i can give u. be sexy, cute, n chill.
it won't last. it never does
i agree with that dude
be willing to give... and take... thats all...
ok first... REALLY think about wat ur doing. REAL HARD!!! if ur 100% sure tat u wanna move in wit each other then go right ahead. just make sure to love each other the same or more when u werent in the same house. dnt fight cuz tats wat makes couples separate(usually). when ur BF is stressed out, talk to him and make him feel comfortable. he should do the same if ur stressed. when u have ideas bout ur future talk to him about it and dnt just do it witout him knowing. Do stuff for each other, have sex once in a while(if u do tat) if u dnt then dnt do it till u think ur ready. dnt push him and dnt let him push u. Say I Love You to him(if u say tat to each other). spend time wit each other. go out and have fun. kiss him randomly (I personally like tat). Kiss him passionately. hug him a lot(i like tat too, makes me feel cared for). when he cries, cry wit him, share each others pain. if u cook cook his favorite dish, he should do something in return as well. and finnaly... care for each other each day as if it were ur last. and do other stuff u can think of ok. I wish u two the best of luck . stay strong and kool. Hope u enjoy ur lives togheter. Bye Bye
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