My question is this: Does anyone know any ways to help me get over him? I need to lose my strong feelings for him before they hurt me anymore..
Any advice at all on how to deal with this would be much appreciated!
ThanksAny advice for dealing with best friends who you've fallen in love with?
You don't need advice you already know the answer...
The fact you have doughtbs shows you are decent person and sooner or later it will clear itself... And it is honourable that you respect his relationship... If you see he is available don't let a chance go by... But don't wait either...
Don't try to get rid of your feelings - years later you will realise that they are precious even if you don't share therm with him you will be happy to have had them yourself...
situation like that usually sorts out itself just wait and see wht happens.Any advice for dealing with best friends who you've fallen in love with?
tell him and see what he says
Man, have I been in your situation ALL THE DAMN TIME.
I know how you feel, it sucks, so much.
These are the two approaches I would consider:
*Tell him. Get it off your chest, if it's bugging you that much. Say something like, ';I completely understand if you don't like me but I just feel that I have to tell you that I like you more as a friend. I'd understand if you want to just stay friends. I just had to tell you.'; And let it sizzle on him for a little while. Either stay friends with him, stop being friends, or be a couple. Once you've told him you've done your share and he just basically has to make the decision.
*Don't tell him. If you don't want to risk your friendship, then don't. I don't suggest telling your friends either, man did I get hurt by doing that. Talk to a diary. It helps. Maybe wait until the bf/gf break up? If you were his ';rebound'; I understand that makes you feel weird, but once he gets over her, he'll love you even more for helping him get over people.
You could also just start being nice to him more and see if he catches on. But don't hurt the girlfriend if they're really close. She doesn't deserve being hurt either.
Hope this helps! :D
well a heart that is broken can only be mend by one thin, CHOCOLATE!!
it wont cure it but dose help and sorry for ur ';lose';
Stop letting him do things for you ! - Look for some one else to go out with and become friendly with other men - If this continues you are going to get in trouble - It is wrong to interfere in the love life of others specially if they are friends -
even though you've talked to him before of your feelings for him, you might want to have a talk with him again, this time.. more deeply. tell him exactly how you feel and you guys can work things out.
in a meanwhile, just be as casual as you can around him, and be yourself. if you can't seem to get over him, that's perfectly fine. just wait for him %26amp; maybe, someday, you guys will be together. for now, remain as friends and keep in contact.
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