Whats the best piece of advice you could give?

I guess I should have been more specific :)





We're filling out Advice Cards at my sister's bridal shower so she can put them in her memory box and I'm stumped as to what to write on it. Maybe something funny or insparational, any suggestions?Whats the best piece of advice you could give?
From someone married 30 years...





Never, ever, ever go to sleep angry with each other and never sleep in separate bedrooms





Always kiss and hug each other before you separate each morning and come together after work at the end of the day and before you go to sleep each night.





Try to give each other a minimum of 12 hugs per day, EVERY DAY





Always be willing to forgive - remember - you might be the one needing forgiveness next time.





Don't compare your spouse to any previous dates, or spouses.





Never forget your spouse's birthday, or your anniversary!





Men need respect, acceptance (and sex), women need affection and acceptance, (and chocolate). EVERYONE needs love!





Men are not from Mars, women are not from Venus. We are all from planet Earth. Learn to get along and get over yourself!





Don't put the children first. Put your marriage first, and the children will be blessed because of it.





When life falls apart and everything goes wrong. Remember, this too shall pass.





Any day above ground is a good day.





True love is selfless.Whats the best piece of advice you could give?
Always kiss each other goodnight!
A wedding is a day, a marriage is a lifetime...
Don't put ';never go to bed angry';


sometimes you are pissed off, irrational and tired and going to bed solves all the problems. Go to bed angry, just kiss goodnight.
Communication between you and your spouce is the key to a long relationship. I can't emphasize this enough. Also laughter is another key to a healthy relationship.





Good luck to your sister.
tell her that she will always have a shoulder to cry on, a person to listen, and a sister to count on...you will always have her back...and you will support her..
always kiss goodbye, no matter the mood, you will always want you last words and actions to be LOVE.
Never go to bed angry.....
Never stop dating! Remain each others boyfriend and girlfriend!





Surprise each other with presents because you feel too. Don't wait for special dates! The best presents are the ones no expected, even if they're small.
Share the covers.
How about:





When you are most angry with ____, think of three reasons why you love him.





Haha, that way your sister might still want to kill him, but may regret it a little ;-]
From a person married 25 years -


1] seduce your husband once a week, wether he needs it or not [ except for medical reasons ]


ARGUING:


2] do you want to be right, or do you want to be married?


3] no yelling unless house is on fire


4] no cussing


5] no hitting, pushing etc.


6] argue next to the microwave - you talk for one minute, reset timer; then he talks for one minute


7] kiss and hug whenever one of you leaves or comes home
i heard this one today it's kinda nice even though i'm not extremely religious





Work at your marriage like it all depends on you


Pray about your marriage like it all depends on him (God)
Well, it's not very funny or inspirational but logical. WEAR COMFORTABLE SHOES!! I thought mine were comfortable and I ended up having to sit down with my feet up for half the night!