I am a foreign student. I will graduate in May. I have two plans for my future:
1.) Go back home and work
2.) Do OPT in US for a year (for experience and save my money), Then go back home next summer.
Regardless of the choice I will should. I will have to start from ZERO because I do not have anything besides little skills and knowledge, but tons of self-determination.
I am 22 years old female. I will have MPA in May. I would like to work for Non-Profit organizations. My goal is to help people and be happy with myself. Sometimes, it is hard because you have nothing right now. lol :)
Please advice. Thank you.Starting from ZERO? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
The US has a lot of opportunity in the not for profit sector. So if you can stay for a year under a practical training visa and get some experience, it sounds like a good idea! You can either then be sponsored for a visa to stay on or return to your home country with experience to help you get a job.
Many university graduates don't have a lot of experience on their resume, so don't be dissuaded. The two most important things are:
1) A good resume -- if you lack experience, highlight your educational background and any clubs or sports you participated in. Definitely mention any internships. Be sure the resume is accurate, spell-checked, and proof read by a friend or two. Include objectives so employers will know what you want. A good resume will help you get an interview.
2) Ability to articulate why you want to do this job (what your goals are, how you became interested, if you have any relevant education, etc.). It helps to research the agency so you are familiar with their mandate and objectives, so you can sound knowledgeable.
Good luck!Starting from ZERO? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
The choice is obvious. It would be of greater help for you to gain some experience that you can apply when you get home to your country.
Secondly, only when you do work will you be able to save money . You are on to a good start if you have lots of determination as that coupled with knowledge will definitely be your stepping stone to a successful career in the future.
Lastly, if your goal is to help people ..then your choice of a non profit organisation would be ideal in realising that objective.
As one spiritual leader said ';Service to Men is service to God';
All the best.
When you have something you have more options. Those options are what cause the dilemmas in life. When you have nothing you don't have to: protect it, spend it, keep it, move it, give it, or lose it. Nothing can give you more freedom then having something you don't need.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
Does he like me? 10 points to best advice!?
He and I have an AP Econ class together. He's one of the guys who slacks off, but is totally smart and would have awesome grades if he just kind of applied himself. He and I used to sit next to each other and we talked a lot. After lunch a mutual friend, him and I all walk back to class. Our friend always does stupid things by trying to make him trip, or pushing in the back of his knee to make his leg buckle. Then they guy I like always makes a comment along the lines of, ';dude, you know that it's coming,'; and then he'd wait and trip him back. It sounds very childish, but it's funny to watch. He has started to check to see if I'm laughing. He also trys to make comments that make him sound cool. For example, ';Oh my car is cool it's a Hyundai.'; Or, ';Yeah, I got a 33 on my ACT.'; I really like him and I was wondering if he was just being a guy, or he liked me. How can I really get him to like me if he already doesn't? Thanks!Does he like me? 10 points to best advice!?
What I would do is join the fun and have a quick little come back of your own! Also you can look him straight in the eyes for a min and give him the biggest smile you have...that will get things started....doesn't hurt to blush a little either! LOL!
What I would do is join the fun and have a quick little come back of your own! Also you can look him straight in the eyes for a min and give him the biggest smile you have...that will get things started....doesn't hurt to blush a little either! LOL!
G.e.d help!, please give your best advice.?
Ok this year was rough, I dropped out of high school after the 1st semester I was a senior and I felt like I was getting ripped off as far as my education went. So i decided that was that, I went on to take a few classes at a community college I took 12 credits there. Now I have the option to go to marin college near san fran and i was told you do not need a GED or high school diploma to receive a degree but for moral sake should i still get my GED over the summer? or should i blow it off? please help! im confused and my parents seem to give a crap about this issue.G.e.d help!, please give your best advice.?
I dont no of respecitble college that doesnt require a GED or DiplomaG.e.d help!, please give your best advice.?
Trust me, you should finish off highschool. I know many a person that blew off high school, and you want to what they have accomplished, nothing. Get the highschool deploma and then you will have so many more options for your future. just don't take the ';easy way out'; because that will end up biting you in the butt in the future harder then you ever knew posible
just study and take the test. it cant hurt to try. it'll help you in the long run because eventually you will want to do it.
college of marin? i go there and you should get the ged and look for another college, they will rip you off big time.
get the GED just incase this place turns out to be a real rip off.
I dont no of respecitble college that doesnt require a GED or DiplomaG.e.d help!, please give your best advice.?
Trust me, you should finish off highschool. I know many a person that blew off high school, and you want to what they have accomplished, nothing. Get the highschool deploma and then you will have so many more options for your future. just don't take the ';easy way out'; because that will end up biting you in the butt in the future harder then you ever knew posible
just study and take the test. it cant hurt to try. it'll help you in the long run because eventually you will want to do it.
college of marin? i go there and you should get the ged and look for another college, they will rip you off big time.
get the GED just incase this place turns out to be a real rip off.
10 first boyfriend questions[10 points for best advice]?
K.im 13 goin into 8th grade and i just got my first boyfriend.im also his first girlfriend.so i have a few questions.
1:when we talk on the phone i feel really nervous.Is it normal?
2.When I get a text message I hop its him.Is it normal?
3.When we talk on the phone I have butterflys in my stomach.
4.This is totally weird but i hav had the feelings for him sooo badly i want to hug and kiss him.
5.Does he probably feel the same about me?
6.Should I give him a chance?
7.Were both shy could this affect our relationship?%26gt;
8.He's stuck in my mind all day now even when im sleeping
9.Is 13 almost 14 a little old for a first boyfriend?
10.i talk about him alot to mi friends?
Please answer any u know.some are things i feel or do so i just wanna know if other peopole feel that way or whatever.10 first boyfriend questions[10 points for best advice]?
everything you described is perfectly normal. just relax and take it easy. im sure he likes you too or he wouldnt be going out with you. yes! you should give him a chance. if you are both shy, just start off talking about your day. then you can get into talking about what you each like to do during the summer...and pretty soon you'll be having conversations that you both find interesting. just dont sweat it and relax.10 first boyfriend questions[10 points for best advice]?
go watch an nsync video and/or start having sex....makeup hair good makeup
1:when we talk on the phone i feel really nervous.Is it normal?
2.When I get a text message I hop its him.Is it normal?
3.When we talk on the phone I have butterflys in my stomach.
4.This is totally weird but i hav had the feelings for him sooo badly i want to hug and kiss him.
5.Does he probably feel the same about me?
6.Should I give him a chance?
7.Were both shy could this affect our relationship?%26gt;
8.He's stuck in my mind all day now even when im sleeping
9.Is 13 almost 14 a little old for a first boyfriend?
10.i talk about him alot to mi friends?
Please answer any u know.some are things i feel or do so i just wanna know if other peopole feel that way or whatever.10 first boyfriend questions[10 points for best advice]?
everything you described is perfectly normal. just relax and take it easy. im sure he likes you too or he wouldnt be going out with you. yes! you should give him a chance. if you are both shy, just start off talking about your day. then you can get into talking about what you each like to do during the summer...and pretty soon you'll be having conversations that you both find interesting. just dont sweat it and relax.10 first boyfriend questions[10 points for best advice]?
go watch an nsync video and/or start having sex....
Looking for advice on the best way to invest $20,000 as someone in my mid-20's??
I am looking for advice on the best way to invest $20,000.00 I recently turned 25. I am not looking to purchase a home until my late 20's as I may need to travel/relocate within the next couple years for work.
I do have a 6 month emergency fund available, and I am able to pay all bills with my current income, so I will not need the $20K for at least a couple years. I don't have much credit card debt, but I do have a student loan.
I am looking for the highest rate of return, and I am open to taking investment risks. I would like to learn about investing in stocks/mutual funds, but I don't know if I have enough experience/knowledge to start myself, and wouldn't know where to begin with this sum of money.
Any input/suggestions appreciated!Looking for advice on the best way to invest $20,000 as someone in my mid-20's??
GET OUT OF DEBT... STAY OUT OF DEBT!! USE THE MONEY TO PAY OFF YOUR DEBTS, AND THEN INVEST THE REST IN A ROTH IRA (A long-term retirement fund with investement options). YOU ARE VERY LUCKY TO HAVE THAT MONEY, BUT DEBT IS NO FUN... PAY YOUR DEBT!Looking for advice on the best way to invest $20,000 as someone in my mid-20's??
first of all pay off your credit card debt- whatever rate you get on any investment probably wont match what you are losing on the interest from your credit card debts
I would diversify through mutual funds at scottrade.com.
I would also look into emigrantdirect.com, ingdirect.com, hsbc.com and open a high yield savings account for all of your emergency funds and whatever you dont invest- i use emigrantdirect.com and they pay a little over 5% interest.
Open a brokerage account at Zecco and invest in the Vice Fund.
You might $5K each into a domestic equities small-cap fund, a domestic equities large-cap fund, an ';emerging markets'; fund, and then a broad-market tracking ';ETF'; like SPY, DIA, or even IWB (if you are ';conservative';).
In your 20's you have a 40-50 year investment horizon for retirement, you can very reasonably expect $20, 000 dollars to become about $350,000 at retirement even if you never saved another penny!
Congratulations on making a great start.
There are few things that you should consider before investing.How long you want to invest for? what kind of return you are looking for income or growth.If you are looking for high returns then invest in shares.To achieve excellent returns on your investments it is important to adopt the right investing strategies. To Learn more about shares and stock trading check the website link below.
http://www.smart-investments.org/Best-St鈥?/a>
http://money-review-site.com/shares.html
although you say you don't want to buy a home, real estate is still one of the best investments you can make. consider buying land in a fast growing area, such as tourism communities, commercial development areas, and any where there is steady rapid growth over a number of years. or maybe consider investing in real estate investment trusts(reits) .... good luck.
PUT 5K IN DANS 5K IN ALT SELL EACH AS THEY HIT $2
WITHIN 3 MO
ROTH IRA. You don't pay a dime for any interest earned.
I'm in a similar situation- mid 20s, no house, no debt, and a decent chunk of money to throw around. Since you are new to investing, I would not recommend purchasing individual stocks. This is not a game for novices. Even professionals may get lucky with a few good picks, but very few people can make picks that beat the market over the long term. For most investors, index funds provide the greatest long-term return of any type of investment. An index fund is similar to a mutual fund, but they charge much lower management fees and almost always perform better over the long-term because of the lower fees.
Some people have mentioned a ROTH-IRA. This is a good idea, as it allows your money to grow tax-free, but be aware that you will incur penalties if you take it out before retirement age and that you can only put 4k per year into a ROTH-IRA.
Hi, I'm Faizal. I can guide you on this. Kindly email or YM me at aj_log@yahoo.com.sg, YM id: aj_log for further info.
Invest in the forex market! But for starters only invest 10k if your are satisfied with the profits invest more! And from personal experience you will invest more and more! Of course there is always the chance of losing some of your money, but with a experienced trader you could also increase your 10k substantially. I am a forex trader for a firm located in Texas and if you want more info contact me. There are a lot of ways to make a profit of off your 20K, I see it happen 6 days a week. The market is closed on Saturday! lol
I do have a 6 month emergency fund available, and I am able to pay all bills with my current income, so I will not need the $20K for at least a couple years. I don't have much credit card debt, but I do have a student loan.
I am looking for the highest rate of return, and I am open to taking investment risks. I would like to learn about investing in stocks/mutual funds, but I don't know if I have enough experience/knowledge to start myself, and wouldn't know where to begin with this sum of money.
Any input/suggestions appreciated!Looking for advice on the best way to invest $20,000 as someone in my mid-20's??
GET OUT OF DEBT... STAY OUT OF DEBT!! USE THE MONEY TO PAY OFF YOUR DEBTS, AND THEN INVEST THE REST IN A ROTH IRA (A long-term retirement fund with investement options). YOU ARE VERY LUCKY TO HAVE THAT MONEY, BUT DEBT IS NO FUN... PAY YOUR DEBT!Looking for advice on the best way to invest $20,000 as someone in my mid-20's??
first of all pay off your credit card debt- whatever rate you get on any investment probably wont match what you are losing on the interest from your credit card debts
I would diversify through mutual funds at scottrade.com.
I would also look into emigrantdirect.com, ingdirect.com, hsbc.com and open a high yield savings account for all of your emergency funds and whatever you dont invest- i use emigrantdirect.com and they pay a little over 5% interest.
Open a brokerage account at Zecco and invest in the Vice Fund.
You might $5K each into a domestic equities small-cap fund, a domestic equities large-cap fund, an ';emerging markets'; fund, and then a broad-market tracking ';ETF'; like SPY, DIA, or even IWB (if you are ';conservative';).
In your 20's you have a 40-50 year investment horizon for retirement, you can very reasonably expect $20, 000 dollars to become about $350,000 at retirement even if you never saved another penny!
Congratulations on making a great start.
There are few things that you should consider before investing.How long you want to invest for? what kind of return you are looking for income or growth.If you are looking for high returns then invest in shares.To achieve excellent returns on your investments it is important to adopt the right investing strategies. To Learn more about shares and stock trading check the website link below.
http://www.smart-investments.org/Best-St鈥?/a>
http://money-review-site.com/shares.html
although you say you don't want to buy a home, real estate is still one of the best investments you can make. consider buying land in a fast growing area, such as tourism communities, commercial development areas, and any where there is steady rapid growth over a number of years. or maybe consider investing in real estate investment trusts(reits) .... good luck.
PUT 5K IN DANS 5K IN ALT SELL EACH AS THEY HIT $2
WITHIN 3 MO
ROTH IRA. You don't pay a dime for any interest earned.
I'm in a similar situation- mid 20s, no house, no debt, and a decent chunk of money to throw around. Since you are new to investing, I would not recommend purchasing individual stocks. This is not a game for novices. Even professionals may get lucky with a few good picks, but very few people can make picks that beat the market over the long term. For most investors, index funds provide the greatest long-term return of any type of investment. An index fund is similar to a mutual fund, but they charge much lower management fees and almost always perform better over the long-term because of the lower fees.
Some people have mentioned a ROTH-IRA. This is a good idea, as it allows your money to grow tax-free, but be aware that you will incur penalties if you take it out before retirement age and that you can only put 4k per year into a ROTH-IRA.
Hi, I'm Faizal. I can guide you on this. Kindly email or YM me at aj_log@yahoo.com.sg, YM id: aj_log for further info.
Invest in the forex market! But for starters only invest 10k if your are satisfied with the profits invest more! And from personal experience you will invest more and more! Of course there is always the chance of losing some of your money, but with a experienced trader you could also increase your 10k substantially. I am a forex trader for a firm located in Texas and if you want more info contact me. There are a lot of ways to make a profit of off your 20K, I see it happen 6 days a week. The market is closed on Saturday! lol
I did something dumb. What is the best advice to give me?
Hey all...I really did something dumb that is really out of my nature. I stole sumthin under $10 from Wal-mart....and it was me and my friends. Obviously we got caught but neither of us was arrested. We jus went to the back and follow what they were saying. When the police came they had talked to each of us and ask why. I replied no reason jus being a follower. We was talking about their experience of dealing with situations as such. This is my first offense and they pulled up my record and saw that it was clear. However,I am not allowed to go back to the store. what i dont understand why they wrote a summon to appear in front of the judge. They said its not a big offense and they said do not do it again. I went to court and the judge jus called the names and asked do i want a public offender or what? i said yes (i guess). and i got to go back in July. I mean, whats up? What do you think i should do? I called the public offender and she said waive it but how? what do you think?I did something dumb. What is the best advice to give me?
Whats Up? Wanna take a guess?
What is up, is that you were caught shoplifting, were issued a criminal summons to appear in court, and will face trial unless you plead guilty. Your court appointed attorney likely waived your ';prelim'; and in July you will face the judge. Furthermore you have been ';trespassed'; from not only this Walmart, but from every Wlamart in the country. You return and you will be arrested or cited.
Although you were not physically arrested and booked, this will show on your criminal history.
As for what I think, you made a stupid mistake. Choose your friends better in the future. You are not going to be found not guilty...so when you go to court in July take a plea, and let this be the last time you see the inside of a courtroom.I did something dumb. What is the best advice to give me?
you stole an item. without a reason to do so.
public defender is your lawyer.
You plead guilty as charged.
you have a record - get a REAL lawyer!
You do not say how old you are, but I am assuming you are a teenager (from the way that your question is composed). If so, you should talk this over with either of your parents (which ever you are closer to). They are only interested in what will be best for your future. If you have any legal questions about going to court in July, you should contact the public defender again and make sure that he/she answers all of your questions until you fully understand what is best for you and what the consequences will be .
Well, sounds like you are being charged with a misdemeanor. The public defender probably means to waive the court date because she intends on having you plead guilty. That is normally why they waive a court date, usually a pre-trial. An attorney will waive a pre-trial date if the defendant is going to plead guilty. If you plead guilty, why have a pre-trial? They may give you a break if you are a minor. No, it isn't a huge crime, but it will go on your record. Sometimes they can work things out with the prosecutor to have the charge cleared from your record if you complete probation successfully. A Public defender is a lawyer assigned to you by the state. It is a lawyer you do not have to pay for, athough they still might make you pay something when this is all said and done. Don't do this again.
Whats Up? Wanna take a guess?
What is up, is that you were caught shoplifting, were issued a criminal summons to appear in court, and will face trial unless you plead guilty. Your court appointed attorney likely waived your ';prelim'; and in July you will face the judge. Furthermore you have been ';trespassed'; from not only this Walmart, but from every Wlamart in the country. You return and you will be arrested or cited.
Although you were not physically arrested and booked, this will show on your criminal history.
As for what I think, you made a stupid mistake. Choose your friends better in the future. You are not going to be found not guilty...so when you go to court in July take a plea, and let this be the last time you see the inside of a courtroom.I did something dumb. What is the best advice to give me?
you stole an item. without a reason to do so.
public defender is your lawyer.
You plead guilty as charged.
you have a record - get a REAL lawyer!
You do not say how old you are, but I am assuming you are a teenager (from the way that your question is composed). If so, you should talk this over with either of your parents (which ever you are closer to). They are only interested in what will be best for your future. If you have any legal questions about going to court in July, you should contact the public defender again and make sure that he/she answers all of your questions until you fully understand what is best for you and what the consequences will be .
Well, sounds like you are being charged with a misdemeanor. The public defender probably means to waive the court date because she intends on having you plead guilty. That is normally why they waive a court date, usually a pre-trial. An attorney will waive a pre-trial date if the defendant is going to plead guilty. If you plead guilty, why have a pre-trial? They may give you a break if you are a minor. No, it isn't a huge crime, but it will go on your record. Sometimes they can work things out with the prosecutor to have the charge cleared from your record if you complete probation successfully. A Public defender is a lawyer assigned to you by the state. It is a lawyer you do not have to pay for, athough they still might make you pay something when this is all said and done. Don't do this again.
Does he like me 10 points to best advice?
Im 15 and he is 17. He works at the grocery store my mom goes too alot. I went to his school then i got kicked out for doing stuff. He is freaking gorgeous. When im not there he asks where meanie is. he always calls me names like brat and meanie. He is really friendly and sweet. He hugs my mom and they talk ALOT. He always is playing with me. When i went to school my teacher introduced us and he said yeah i know her that;s meanie and he patted my head. When me and my mom are in the grocery store and its not busy he will come and talk to us and he hugs my mom. He was mad the other day because his school gave him a demerit for eating breakfast in his car. HE seen my brother once and he is 10 and he said stay away from meanie.
The other day me and my friend were talking about my brother and me fighting and he was like come here and i didn't go to him and he patted my head again like hit it not patted lol
once he was mocking me im from London and he was talking British and he sounded so cute :DDoes he like me 10 points to best advice?
He does like you. He is immature and acts that way to get your attention.
The other day me and my friend were talking about my brother and me fighting and he was like come here and i didn't go to him and he patted my head again like hit it not patted lol
once he was mocking me im from London and he was talking British and he sounded so cute :DDoes he like me 10 points to best advice?
He does like you. He is immature and acts that way to get your attention.
Question for girls only please I need some honest advice. Best advice gets 10 points!?
Ok never before have i really had any problem approaching girls because ive normally either been approached by them or i just feel confident enough. THere is this really cute girl with an awesome personality and i have had a total of 1 conversation with her. Im one year older than her and she is always looking at me, sometimes with a smile and sometime she kinda looks at me out of the corner of her eye but it looks like she is looking at me in a wierd way. I am not ugly or anything so what do you think may be the problem and how should i approach her so we can have a actual conversation.
Oh and by an apporach i dont mean a normal old hello. Best advice gets 10 points!Question for girls only please I need some honest advice. Best advice gets 10 points!?
Ok, what I would do in your situation is you should first start just by saying hey when you pass her in the halls. Then see if one of your friends is siting near her at lunch and sit next to your friend. You don't have to start a conversation but if you can, just say so you got the chicken. Or something lol. Then you might feel embarrassed but go on, and talk about stuff. Be yourself, make jokes, seem funny. Girls love funny. Or sit near her on the bus if she rides yours. If she drops her books help her pick them up. Every little thing you do counts. Then if there is a dance or something coming up in school. Ask her. Don't let your shyness prevent you from happiness with a great girl! Practice in your bedroom what you'll say to her to ask her out. Example: So Jamie (whatever) How it going. Im fine. Hey do you like coffe? Oh really, well I'm going to starbucks on friday, umm wanna come. Something like that. You'll figure something out.
~MakeUpChickQuestion for girls only please I need some honest advice. Best advice gets 10 points!?
if shes looking at you so much she is probably just waiting for the moment when you walk up and talk to her.
she obviously is interested, so just find something cool about her and stirke up a conversation.
if you cant think of anything just walk up and say something funny like
';hey, so ive noticed youve been looking at me, is there something on my face?'; and then laugh, its an ice breaker and it gets her talking.
She likes you. She's just shy about it. She wouldn't smile at you if not. And she knows you like her most likely and is hoping you'll come to her. But she won't wait forever. So good luck.
Get to know the girl more. Find out what she likes to see what you two have in common. Then ask her out, laugh and have a good time. GOOD LUCK
Just walk up and ask her about school or something. Start a casual conversation and see where it leads. Don't make it so tough :)
just go up to her and introduce ur self and see if she cont. the conversation. Or just go up to her say i like youre shoes or something and then walk away it will work
okay... you slowly need to enter this relationship. the best way for you to do this (this has worked in my personal experience) is to go up to her and ask her for her number. how you do this you may ask... well try striking up a friendly conversation with her.
this may sound cheezy but go up and say hello to her. ask her what she did that summer. and than ask if you can get her number. 99% chance she will give it to you.
than call or text her as much as you can without seeming to clingy or desperate. she will feel more eager to talk to you and thats how you can get your relationship with her going. i really hope this helps! :)
Oh and by an apporach i dont mean a normal old hello. Best advice gets 10 points!Question for girls only please I need some honest advice. Best advice gets 10 points!?
Ok, what I would do in your situation is you should first start just by saying hey when you pass her in the halls. Then see if one of your friends is siting near her at lunch and sit next to your friend. You don't have to start a conversation but if you can, just say so you got the chicken. Or something lol. Then you might feel embarrassed but go on, and talk about stuff. Be yourself, make jokes, seem funny. Girls love funny. Or sit near her on the bus if she rides yours. If she drops her books help her pick them up. Every little thing you do counts. Then if there is a dance or something coming up in school. Ask her. Don't let your shyness prevent you from happiness with a great girl! Practice in your bedroom what you'll say to her to ask her out. Example: So Jamie (whatever) How it going. Im fine. Hey do you like coffe? Oh really, well I'm going to starbucks on friday, umm wanna come. Something like that. You'll figure something out.
~MakeUpChickQuestion for girls only please I need some honest advice. Best advice gets 10 points!?
if shes looking at you so much she is probably just waiting for the moment when you walk up and talk to her.
she obviously is interested, so just find something cool about her and stirke up a conversation.
if you cant think of anything just walk up and say something funny like
';hey, so ive noticed youve been looking at me, is there something on my face?'; and then laugh, its an ice breaker and it gets her talking.
She likes you. She's just shy about it. She wouldn't smile at you if not. And she knows you like her most likely and is hoping you'll come to her. But she won't wait forever. So good luck.
Get to know the girl more. Find out what she likes to see what you two have in common. Then ask her out, laugh and have a good time. GOOD LUCK
Just walk up and ask her about school or something. Start a casual conversation and see where it leads. Don't make it so tough :)
just go up to her and introduce ur self and see if she cont. the conversation. Or just go up to her say i like youre shoes or something and then walk away it will work
okay... you slowly need to enter this relationship. the best way for you to do this (this has worked in my personal experience) is to go up to her and ask her for her number. how you do this you may ask... well try striking up a friendly conversation with her.
this may sound cheezy but go up and say hello to her. ask her what she did that summer. and than ask if you can get her number. 99% chance she will give it to you.
than call or text her as much as you can without seeming to clingy or desperate. she will feel more eager to talk to you and thats how you can get your relationship with her going. i really hope this helps! :)
Please critique my yahoo fantasy football roster and give me advice. Whoever gives best advice gets 10 points?
NOTE: I am in a ten team league
MY ROSTER:
QB- Tony Romo, Jay Cutler
RB- Ryan Grant, Ronnie Brown, Darren McFadden, Deuce McAllister, Ahman Green
WR- Donald Driver, Jerry Porter, Derrick Mason, Steve Smith
TE- Kellen Winslow
K- David Ackers
DEFENSE - Indianapolis, Tampa Bay
Roster Positions:
QB, WR, WR, RB, RB, TE, W/R, K, DEF, BN, BN, BN, BN, BN, BN
Stat Categories:
Passing Yards (25 yards per point)
Passing Touchdowns (4)
Interceptions (-1)
Rushing Yards (10 yards per point)
Rushing Touchdowns (6)
Reception Yards (10 yards per point)
Reception Touchdowns (6)
Return Touchdowns (6)
2-Point Conversions (2)
Fumbles Lost (-2)
Offensive Fumble Return TD (6)
Field Goals 0-19 Yards (3)
Field Goals 20-29 Yards (3)
Field Goals 30-39 Yards (3)
Field Goals 40-49 Yards (4)
Field Goals 50+ Yards (5)
Point After Attempt Made (1)
Sack (1)
Interception (2)
Fumble Recovery (2)
Touchdown (6)
Safety (2)
Block Kick (2)
Points Allowed 0 points (10)
Points Allowed 1-6 points (7)
Points Allowed 7-13 points (4)
Points Allowed 14-20 points (1)
Points Allowed 21-27 points (0)
Points Allowed 28-34 points (-1)
Points Allowed 35+ points (-4)Please critique my yahoo fantasy football roster and give me advice. Whoever gives best advice gets 10 points?
I wouldnt make any changes to the QBs. RB needs some work because ryan grant may not be as great as everyone thought, and the only potentially good rb i see is ronnie brown but only idf he doesnt lose a lot of carries to williams. Mcfadden may not be as productive if the raiders go with fargas as the stareter. So some improvement may be needed there. The wr also worry me a little bit. there arent any strong wr except maybe driver but that is only if rodgers can step up and fill the role of favre. smith is out two weeks but should come back and be great after week 3. You have a great TE in winslow and your kicker is hard to judge because they can go any way. the kicker position is hard to judge. Your d is average in the colts. Other then that i hate to say this but your team doesnt look to good right now. Id say your more on the 5-10th place side right now. but i could be wrong especially if injuries hurt other teams. anyways this is only my opinion buit good luck and I hope you winPlease critique my yahoo fantasy football roster and give me advice. Whoever gives best advice gets 10 points?
QB: 9/10 (Romo is very good, and Cutler is a great backup)
RB 3/10 Grant could be a 1-hit wonder and relying on him as a #1 is risky. Ronnie Brown still has injury issues and a very likely timeshare with Ricky. McFadden probably wont come into his own until later in the season, if at all, and who knows what kind of contribution McAllister or Green will provide if anything.
WR: 3/10 Other than Smith, all of these guys don't really pose consistent scoring threats nor do their passers move the ball all that well. You're leaning on Smith returning to form with Delhomme.
TE: 9/10 Top 3 TE, with chance to compete for #1
Overall I'd give this team a 5. In a PPR league you'd be a little better off.
MY ROSTER:
QB- Tony Romo, Jay Cutler
RB- Ryan Grant, Ronnie Brown, Darren McFadden, Deuce McAllister, Ahman Green
WR- Donald Driver, Jerry Porter, Derrick Mason, Steve Smith
TE- Kellen Winslow
K- David Ackers
DEFENSE - Indianapolis, Tampa Bay
Roster Positions:
QB, WR, WR, RB, RB, TE, W/R, K, DEF, BN, BN, BN, BN, BN, BN
Stat Categories:
Passing Yards (25 yards per point)
Passing Touchdowns (4)
Interceptions (-1)
Rushing Yards (10 yards per point)
Rushing Touchdowns (6)
Reception Yards (10 yards per point)
Reception Touchdowns (6)
Return Touchdowns (6)
2-Point Conversions (2)
Fumbles Lost (-2)
Offensive Fumble Return TD (6)
Field Goals 0-19 Yards (3)
Field Goals 20-29 Yards (3)
Field Goals 30-39 Yards (3)
Field Goals 40-49 Yards (4)
Field Goals 50+ Yards (5)
Point After Attempt Made (1)
Sack (1)
Interception (2)
Fumble Recovery (2)
Touchdown (6)
Safety (2)
Block Kick (2)
Points Allowed 0 points (10)
Points Allowed 1-6 points (7)
Points Allowed 7-13 points (4)
Points Allowed 14-20 points (1)
Points Allowed 21-27 points (0)
Points Allowed 28-34 points (-1)
Points Allowed 35+ points (-4)Please critique my yahoo fantasy football roster and give me advice. Whoever gives best advice gets 10 points?
I wouldnt make any changes to the QBs. RB needs some work because ryan grant may not be as great as everyone thought, and the only potentially good rb i see is ronnie brown but only idf he doesnt lose a lot of carries to williams. Mcfadden may not be as productive if the raiders go with fargas as the stareter. So some improvement may be needed there. The wr also worry me a little bit. there arent any strong wr except maybe driver but that is only if rodgers can step up and fill the role of favre. smith is out two weeks but should come back and be great after week 3. You have a great TE in winslow and your kicker is hard to judge because they can go any way. the kicker position is hard to judge. Your d is average in the colts. Other then that i hate to say this but your team doesnt look to good right now. Id say your more on the 5-10th place side right now. but i could be wrong especially if injuries hurt other teams. anyways this is only my opinion buit good luck and I hope you winPlease critique my yahoo fantasy football roster and give me advice. Whoever gives best advice gets 10 points?
QB: 9/10 (Romo is very good, and Cutler is a great backup)
RB 3/10 Grant could be a 1-hit wonder and relying on him as a #1 is risky. Ronnie Brown still has injury issues and a very likely timeshare with Ricky. McFadden probably wont come into his own until later in the season, if at all, and who knows what kind of contribution McAllister or Green will provide if anything.
WR: 3/10 Other than Smith, all of these guys don't really pose consistent scoring threats nor do their passers move the ball all that well. You're leaning on Smith returning to form with Delhomme.
TE: 9/10 Top 3 TE, with chance to compete for #1
Overall I'd give this team a 5. In a PPR league you'd be a little better off.
My wife left me will she come back?please help me ladies ,give me the best advice you can stir up PLEASE!!!!!!
My wife of 9 years left me 2 weeks ago we have 4 children together and we argue all the time,we try not to do it in front of the kids and I know it is terrable,I say hurtful things to her and she says hurtful things to me,we dont live in a big fancy house but its nice when she left me she said if I loved her i would have move her into something bigger.I love her with all my heart but she say she doesnt want me back ,people tell me im not giving her enough time to miss me because I call her everyday and that she feels she has power over me so she plays games is this true? the thing is I love her and my kids more than life itself .I havent even let a day go by with out calling her and telling her I love her and want her back.I have lost 15lbs in the last week and cant sleep or think.She says she still loves me but doesnt ever want to be back with me,this really hurts me more than anything ive ever been through ,what do I do I know I should move on but my heart aches for her.PLEASE HELP!!My wife left me will she come back?please help me ladies ,give me the best advice you can stir up PLEASE!!!!!!
I'm not a ';lady,'; but I'll bet she has someone else in mind. If you really love her and want things to be right between you, suggest the two of you get counseling from a professional. She, as well as you, has nine years invested and four children who are affected by her leaving. There are clergymen who are trained in counseling who won't cost you a dime or perhaps your church offers some counselors at little or not cost.
That's what I would do. If she will not agree to such a plan, then I think you would be better off to get some individual counseling to help you deal with this.My wife left me will she come back?please help me ladies ,give me the best advice you can stir up PLEASE!!!!!!
Im thinking that with 4 kids the pressure is too much. Maybe she needs a break its like a holiday away from the kids. I reckon she will come back but maybe u should consider taking her away once a month on a romantic weekend away.
Not an easy situation at all, but this is a fixable I will tell you why from what I am reading. I don't think there are other people involved, what the bottom line is. it's about the constant arguing and saying hurtful things back and forth, this type of thing can take it's toll bad and hard on a relationship to the point it becomes unbearable. You need to let her know that you will work on addressing the fighting and arguing, and saying hurtful things, then do something nice things , example like take the kids while she goes out shopping, or buy her a little something just to let her know she is special, write her a poem, send her a custom made CD of your favorite love songs that make you think of her, little nice deeds go a long way. Invite her out on a date so you can rekindle pleasant moments from your past. She most likely needs to be reassured that life as a married couple again is going to have sweeter days with less friction, if you can make her see that tomorrow will be brighter for her, she may come around. She will need about a year to be convinced that all is well, so don't expect her to to just come around quick, but this is fixable talk to a counselor yourself and work on addressing things you know could be worked upon. Best Wishes. good luck.
.miss a couple of days of calling her as long as she knows you need her she will play that card to the hilt. find someone else to spend time with, you don't have to be in love with them but you need someone to fill that gap right now. i bet the children are bugging her about you and that's a good thing in your favor. the main thing is to stop calling for a couple of days let the kids miss you and work through the kids to try and get your marriage back[that is if she has no other man] let me know how it comes out i hope this will help and remember this...... you don't miss your water until the well runs dry[that goes for her]
start dating other people to make her jealous. Don't act needy act like you dont need her anymore.makeup hair good makeup
I'm not a ';lady,'; but I'll bet she has someone else in mind. If you really love her and want things to be right between you, suggest the two of you get counseling from a professional. She, as well as you, has nine years invested and four children who are affected by her leaving. There are clergymen who are trained in counseling who won't cost you a dime or perhaps your church offers some counselors at little or not cost.
That's what I would do. If she will not agree to such a plan, then I think you would be better off to get some individual counseling to help you deal with this.My wife left me will she come back?please help me ladies ,give me the best advice you can stir up PLEASE!!!!!!
Im thinking that with 4 kids the pressure is too much. Maybe she needs a break its like a holiday away from the kids. I reckon she will come back but maybe u should consider taking her away once a month on a romantic weekend away.
Not an easy situation at all, but this is a fixable I will tell you why from what I am reading. I don't think there are other people involved, what the bottom line is. it's about the constant arguing and saying hurtful things back and forth, this type of thing can take it's toll bad and hard on a relationship to the point it becomes unbearable. You need to let her know that you will work on addressing the fighting and arguing, and saying hurtful things, then do something nice things , example like take the kids while she goes out shopping, or buy her a little something just to let her know she is special, write her a poem, send her a custom made CD of your favorite love songs that make you think of her, little nice deeds go a long way. Invite her out on a date so you can rekindle pleasant moments from your past. She most likely needs to be reassured that life as a married couple again is going to have sweeter days with less friction, if you can make her see that tomorrow will be brighter for her, she may come around. She will need about a year to be convinced that all is well, so don't expect her to to just come around quick, but this is fixable talk to a counselor yourself and work on addressing things you know could be worked upon. Best Wishes. good luck.
.miss a couple of days of calling her as long as she knows you need her she will play that card to the hilt. find someone else to spend time with, you don't have to be in love with them but you need someone to fill that gap right now. i bet the children are bugging her about you and that's a good thing in your favor. the main thing is to stop calling for a couple of days let the kids miss you and work through the kids to try and get your marriage back[that is if she has no other man] let me know how it comes out i hope this will help and remember this...... you don't miss your water until the well runs dry[that goes for her]
start dating other people to make her jealous. Don't act needy act like you dont need her anymore.
I need some advice on what me and my boyfriends should do......please help me......10pts for the best advice !?
Can someone please give me advice on what to do with my bf? 10pts for the best answer?
okay, well im 15 and me and my bf have been dating for 3-4 months now. this is my first relationship but i am his 11th girlfriend. well, he has fingered girls before and has even had sex once. this bugged me at first, but then i found out that one of my close friends had been fingered before, so it doesnt bug me now. okay, so sometimes we makeout after school in one of the empty study rooms, and when we do, he will take his hand and rub my vagina on the outside of my uniform. i like it, but he asked me if i wanted to go any farther with him, and i told him yes, because i do. we both agree that we dont want to have sex for a long time, until we are both ready. well, i brought up sex and fingering in one of our conversations, and asked him if he like girls shaved or trimmed down there, he said shaved, so that night i shaved even though i didnt plan on him being down there for at least another month or two (fingering not sex). so, what i am asking is, do you think that i am moving too fast, or any suggestions on things we could do besides sex...please, no bullshyt answers, if you are not mature enough to answer this without being b*tches, then dont answer
thanks to all of you
xoxoxoxo emyI need some advice on what me and my boyfriends should do......please help me......10pts for the best advice !?
well i dont think u should have sex at this age maybe hes just using u since u said hes been with 11 girls maybe hes just trying to **** u then leave u but i could be wrong so i guess just use condoms if u have sex just in case. and fingering is ok it feels good haha well good luckk
okay, well im 15 and me and my bf have been dating for 3-4 months now. this is my first relationship but i am his 11th girlfriend. well, he has fingered girls before and has even had sex once. this bugged me at first, but then i found out that one of my close friends had been fingered before, so it doesnt bug me now. okay, so sometimes we makeout after school in one of the empty study rooms, and when we do, he will take his hand and rub my vagina on the outside of my uniform. i like it, but he asked me if i wanted to go any farther with him, and i told him yes, because i do. we both agree that we dont want to have sex for a long time, until we are both ready. well, i brought up sex and fingering in one of our conversations, and asked him if he like girls shaved or trimmed down there, he said shaved, so that night i shaved even though i didnt plan on him being down there for at least another month or two (fingering not sex). so, what i am asking is, do you think that i am moving too fast, or any suggestions on things we could do besides sex...please, no bullshyt answers, if you are not mature enough to answer this without being b*tches, then dont answer
thanks to all of you
xoxoxoxo emyI need some advice on what me and my boyfriends should do......please help me......10pts for the best advice !?
well i dont think u should have sex at this age maybe hes just using u since u said hes been with 11 girls maybe hes just trying to **** u then leave u but i could be wrong so i guess just use condoms if u have sex just in case. and fingering is ok it feels good haha well good luckk
Does anyone watch ';THE HILLS';??? (on mtv.)10 pts. awarded to the person with the best advice..?
well.. Heidi's boyfriend spencer, acts EXACTLY like this guy i like.. He is such a player!! how should i get over him?? i love him sooooo much... I need help!! plz give me some advice, on how i should either stop or pursue this relationship. (if you would like to know more details about this guy, then plz read my other questions.) he acts like he really, really, really.. likes me alot.. Sometimes.. and then ten minutes later he is flirting with other girls and trying to get in their pants. PLZ HELP!!Does anyone watch ';THE HILLS';??? (on mtv.)10 pts. awarded to the person with the best advice..?
You want the truth?
If you love him... you wont get over him. No matter who takes his place.. I dont watch the show but I know a player when I see one.
The girls he's flirting with 10 mins later, probably feel the same way that you do. They probably like him alot and want to be with him, meanwhile he's having a ball having different dialects of flirting. Dont pursue a relationship with him, because if he acts as if he likes you sooo much but then flirts right away after you, He'll do just that with you two having a label or relation. Dont hurt your hear over a confused boy. There are much better out there waiting to worship the ground you walk on. Good luck sweet girl.Does anyone watch ';THE HILLS';??? (on mtv.)10 pts. awarded to the person with the best advice..?
Never seen it
LOVE YOUR SELF FIRST AND THEN LOVE OTHERS HAVE PRIDE. NO MEN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS DON'T WASTE TEARS ON SPOIL BEANS.
IF YOUR DREAM BOY TURNS TO DUST ........ VACUUM
ok what you need to do is tell him that you don't want nothing to do with him. Then to get over him. invite a few people over and have a girls night out. Do something fun to get your mind off of this guy. You don't need a guy that flirts around with other girls.
You want the truth?
If you love him... you wont get over him. No matter who takes his place.. I dont watch the show but I know a player when I see one.
The girls he's flirting with 10 mins later, probably feel the same way that you do. They probably like him alot and want to be with him, meanwhile he's having a ball having different dialects of flirting. Dont pursue a relationship with him, because if he acts as if he likes you sooo much but then flirts right away after you, He'll do just that with you two having a label or relation. Dont hurt your hear over a confused boy. There are much better out there waiting to worship the ground you walk on. Good luck sweet girl.Does anyone watch ';THE HILLS';??? (on mtv.)10 pts. awarded to the person with the best advice..?
Never seen it
LOVE YOUR SELF FIRST AND THEN LOVE OTHERS HAVE PRIDE. NO MEN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS DON'T WASTE TEARS ON SPOIL BEANS.
IF YOUR DREAM BOY TURNS TO DUST ........ VACUUM
ok what you need to do is tell him that you don't want nothing to do with him. Then to get over him. invite a few people over and have a girls night out. Do something fun to get your mind off of this guy. You don't need a guy that flirts around with other girls.
Please I need your advice, which are the best food to eat?
They said:
Salty food - not good for kidney
Meat 鈥?not good, has cholesterol
Seafoods 鈥?not good, too hot for sex
Vegetable 鈥?not good, boasting to high blood
Rice 鈥?not good, it has more carbohydrates
Please I need your advice, which are the best food to eat?
a little bit of everything..
Salty food- our cells need it, it is used for electrical signals in our body. It regulates water in our body
Meat- protein (not all meat contains high cholesterol infact shrimp has more cholesterol than chicken just avoid the skins),they are used in movement (muscles), mechanical support (bones) anti body, hormones, they mediate cell responses, etc.
Seafood- decrease your risk of heart attack, stroke, and hypertension, contains OMEGA 3 lowers our cholesterol.
Vegetable- brings PH into balance (acid/alkaline),help maintains blood pressure (potassium), reduce blood cholesterol (fiber), helps the body form red blood cells(folic acid), it has vitamins that are essential to our diet.
Rice- Carbs are the main source of fuel. Carbs is energy. Our brain requires carbs to function, and our muscles require carbs to support intense physical activity, such as bodybuilding. Getting enough carbs throughout the day is very important, as the liver glycogen is used up in about 18hrs when carbs aren't consumed.
The best thing to eat is little of everything. Balance diet. We need all those food to maintain good health.
Goodluck.Please I need your advice, which are the best food to eat?
Whatever your tastebuds like is generally good for you.
If your tastebuds reject everything you mentioned, may I recommend you take ambrosia, panacea, waglangsia, butisia, samasia, sakinsia, sayosia, etc.
Boring.
Chicken fried steak with creamed potatoes with melted cheese in it covered with white cream gravy. Fried Okra on the side battered in corn mill cherry pie for desert with big scoop of vanilla ice cream melting on top.
BELCH! Scuse me . More pie please.
filipino foods like kare-kare, pakbet (w/ bagnet syempre), palabok, halu-halo, sisig, chicken and pork adobo - maraming sarsa, litson manok, lumpiang sariwa, rellenong bangus, nilagang talong at kangkong w/ bagoong.
Drink water. 0 calories.
sizzling sisig, chicharon, lechon, crispy pata, ham (esp. chinese), balat ng manok, utak ng baboy, yagb*ls ng baka.
with the negative effects of the food you mentioned above, i think it's best not to eat anymore...
You've answered your own question. The best food to eat... is a well balanced diet.
you should eat a well-balanced diet...
Salty food - not good for kidney
Meat 鈥?not good, has cholesterol
Seafoods 鈥?not good, too hot for sex
Vegetable 鈥?not good, boasting to high blood
Rice 鈥?not good, it has more carbohydrates
Please I need your advice, which are the best food to eat?
a little bit of everything..
Salty food- our cells need it, it is used for electrical signals in our body. It regulates water in our body
Meat- protein (not all meat contains high cholesterol infact shrimp has more cholesterol than chicken just avoid the skins),they are used in movement (muscles), mechanical support (bones) anti body, hormones, they mediate cell responses, etc.
Seafood- decrease your risk of heart attack, stroke, and hypertension, contains OMEGA 3 lowers our cholesterol.
Vegetable- brings PH into balance (acid/alkaline),help maintains blood pressure (potassium), reduce blood cholesterol (fiber), helps the body form red blood cells(folic acid), it has vitamins that are essential to our diet.
Rice- Carbs are the main source of fuel. Carbs is energy. Our brain requires carbs to function, and our muscles require carbs to support intense physical activity, such as bodybuilding. Getting enough carbs throughout the day is very important, as the liver glycogen is used up in about 18hrs when carbs aren't consumed.
The best thing to eat is little of everything. Balance diet. We need all those food to maintain good health.
Goodluck.Please I need your advice, which are the best food to eat?
Whatever your tastebuds like is generally good for you.
If your tastebuds reject everything you mentioned, may I recommend you take ambrosia, panacea, waglangsia, butisia, samasia, sakinsia, sayosia, etc.
Boring.
Chicken fried steak with creamed potatoes with melted cheese in it covered with white cream gravy. Fried Okra on the side battered in corn mill cherry pie for desert with big scoop of vanilla ice cream melting on top.
BELCH! Scuse me . More pie please.
filipino foods like kare-kare, pakbet (w/ bagnet syempre), palabok, halu-halo, sisig, chicken and pork adobo - maraming sarsa, litson manok, lumpiang sariwa, rellenong bangus, nilagang talong at kangkong w/ bagoong.
Drink water. 0 calories.
sizzling sisig, chicharon, lechon, crispy pata, ham (esp. chinese), balat ng manok, utak ng baboy, yagb*ls ng baka.
with the negative effects of the food you mentioned above, i think it's best not to eat anymore...
You've answered your own question. The best food to eat... is a well balanced diet.
you should eat a well-balanced diet...
Why is he acting like this? Guys advice needed please!! 10pts for best advice!?
I've recently been dating this guy for about 3 weeks now... We are both adults (He's 28 and i'm 23). On our first date we had a great date, but both drank a little too much and started making out... but then the next couple of times that we hung out we didn't kiss at all. Sunday night was really our first ';sober'; kiss, and it wasn't anything lewd, just a sweet goodnight kiss. He's really nice and sweet to me when hes hanging out with me, but then i get these risque texts from him.
For Example:
';Hows your day, you sex pistol';
';You have an amazing body';
';Are we at that point in our relationship where you will send me a naked pic (lol jk)';
Normally i would think that all he wants is sex, but when he comes over he tells me intimate things about his life, like about his mom dying 3 months ago, what it was like in the Navy... how things ended badly with him and the girl he was with for 12 years.
I don't know what his deal is.... He tells me that he really likes me, he will barely make a move to kiss me on our dates, but then i get these random texts.... WTF?? I would really appreciate your help!Why is he acting like this? Guys advice needed please!! 10pts for best advice!?
He doesn`t know what to do
these are signs of men who don`t know what to say, he is very inexperienced whit other girls and doesn`t feel well.
He was too long whit his girlfrend and that made him close his eyes for other girls.
Try to make him feel comfortable and make the first steps.
He is just traumatized of all that happenned.with his mother and gf.
Don`t think he is a pervert or somthing, just guide him and you will do fine at the end.Why is he acting like this? Guys advice needed please!! 10pts for best advice!?
guys been in a 12yr relationship, did you do the math, the guy is child when it comes to relationships. Apparently he is spineless, yes drinking to loosen someone up is perty pathetic in my opinion. But if your looking for a guy you can control, manipulate, and can deal with whimp, then have at it.
Textbook inexperienced... Can only make the moves when under the influence... He probably thinks you'll get closer to him if he shares emotional baggage with you, most guys who are clueless think its the pre-requisite for sex... next time he texts, reply '' r u retarded''
he's probably to scared to kiss you in person maybe you should make the move and tell him to stop saying those things , its ugh -_-
Im not a guy but...
*ahem*
I think that he is jjust sending them because he's horny. lol.
Their might be another explination, but i think thats the one. He is hornyyy.
the guy is scared to make the move
i say help him out a lil bit make feel its okay to touch
hes looking for sex.
Ignore him for a while. If You are going to send any naked pics...its gonna end up on the net. Don't agree for sex, at any cost. It will make him think. Think..about You. That, You aren't that sex pistol, but a sensible girl with real affection. Its my point of view only. You should know better about him. Any decisions, You make, should come from Your head...not heart.
i sugest u to chk dat guy from any other source ask any of ur frend who is gurl 2 become frank wid her u would know from dat is he flirt n only want s ur body etc or he does like u or wat u can do is stop meting wid him n see after sometimes the result there is a saying if u want 2 check any person check his company n frends dat how r they it would help u
You know girl you might misunderstand it. First problem: You said after ';a couple times that you hung out, both of you didn't kiss. That was because the guy want to respect who you are. Kiss is not the main key to have a good relationship. He was just showing you that he didn't ask you out just for a kiss. He just wanna show you that that's how much he loves you. You're lucky girl!
Second problem: You said you recently get those risque texts from him. First of all, my advice is: Have a good conversation to him about those risque text. Ask him if it was him. Conversation is the best solution!
My opinion about the risque texts. Think it over again. Do you think he really is the one who send you those risque text? It might be one of his family member or peers that is making fun of you. Or maybe he got a stalker and trying to split you up. Or did he lost his mobile and someone found it and make fun of you.
Don't just judge him up that he is after your body. Think it! And deep in your heart do you think he will do it to you? Have a talk with him about it. GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!
I think that when he's alone he thinks back on your date and he realizes he wasn't the macho most girls like so he sends you a message complimenting your looks so you wouldn't think he's some kind of a sweet guy,although he is.He just might be confused about what you want from him and kind of wants to let you know you're sexy to him,but he can't tell you in the face?
I think you should just tell him what you like about him so he should stop worrying.
For Example:
';Hows your day, you sex pistol';
';You have an amazing body';
';Are we at that point in our relationship where you will send me a naked pic (lol jk)';
Normally i would think that all he wants is sex, but when he comes over he tells me intimate things about his life, like about his mom dying 3 months ago, what it was like in the Navy... how things ended badly with him and the girl he was with for 12 years.
I don't know what his deal is.... He tells me that he really likes me, he will barely make a move to kiss me on our dates, but then i get these random texts.... WTF?? I would really appreciate your help!Why is he acting like this? Guys advice needed please!! 10pts for best advice!?
He doesn`t know what to do
these are signs of men who don`t know what to say, he is very inexperienced whit other girls and doesn`t feel well.
He was too long whit his girlfrend and that made him close his eyes for other girls.
Try to make him feel comfortable and make the first steps.
He is just traumatized of all that happenned.with his mother and gf.
Don`t think he is a pervert or somthing, just guide him and you will do fine at the end.Why is he acting like this? Guys advice needed please!! 10pts for best advice!?
guys been in a 12yr relationship, did you do the math, the guy is child when it comes to relationships. Apparently he is spineless, yes drinking to loosen someone up is perty pathetic in my opinion. But if your looking for a guy you can control, manipulate, and can deal with whimp, then have at it.
Textbook inexperienced... Can only make the moves when under the influence... He probably thinks you'll get closer to him if he shares emotional baggage with you, most guys who are clueless think its the pre-requisite for sex... next time he texts, reply '' r u retarded''
he's probably to scared to kiss you in person maybe you should make the move and tell him to stop saying those things , its ugh -_-
Im not a guy but...
*ahem*
I think that he is jjust sending them because he's horny. lol.
Their might be another explination, but i think thats the one. He is hornyyy.
the guy is scared to make the move
i say help him out a lil bit make feel its okay to touch
hes looking for sex.
Ignore him for a while. If You are going to send any naked pics...its gonna end up on the net. Don't agree for sex, at any cost. It will make him think. Think..about You. That, You aren't that sex pistol, but a sensible girl with real affection. Its my point of view only. You should know better about him. Any decisions, You make, should come from Your head...not heart.
i sugest u to chk dat guy from any other source ask any of ur frend who is gurl 2 become frank wid her u would know from dat is he flirt n only want s ur body etc or he does like u or wat u can do is stop meting wid him n see after sometimes the result there is a saying if u want 2 check any person check his company n frends dat how r they it would help u
You know girl you might misunderstand it. First problem: You said after ';a couple times that you hung out, both of you didn't kiss. That was because the guy want to respect who you are. Kiss is not the main key to have a good relationship. He was just showing you that he didn't ask you out just for a kiss. He just wanna show you that that's how much he loves you. You're lucky girl!
Second problem: You said you recently get those risque texts from him. First of all, my advice is: Have a good conversation to him about those risque text. Ask him if it was him. Conversation is the best solution!
My opinion about the risque texts. Think it over again. Do you think he really is the one who send you those risque text? It might be one of his family member or peers that is making fun of you. Or maybe he got a stalker and trying to split you up. Or did he lost his mobile and someone found it and make fun of you.
Don't just judge him up that he is after your body. Think it! And deep in your heart do you think he will do it to you? Have a talk with him about it. GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!
I think that when he's alone he thinks back on your date and he realizes he wasn't the macho most girls like so he sends you a message complimenting your looks so you wouldn't think he's some kind of a sweet guy,although he is.He just might be confused about what you want from him and kind of wants to let you know you're sexy to him,but he can't tell you in the face?
I think you should just tell him what you like about him so he should stop worrying.
Guy problem... will give points for best advice!?
There's this guy I like named Brian, and I think he's into me too. We've gone to the movies twice and been to a few parties together. It seems as if he likes me when we're together..he cuddles with me at the movies and we talk about so many things, and he's kissed me. Also I've noticed that he looks into my eyes often which is supposed to be a sign of liking someone? But then it seems like when we're not hanging out I'm not so sure about his feelings because he doesn't call me and he barely texts me. I was thinking this might be because he works M-F nights and days at 2 jobs but I still don't know because if he liked me I'd think he'd find time to call. Well today he came by to say hi before work and he said he wanted to hang out tonight. He told me to text him and that he'd write back but he hasn't texted me back yet. Maybe I'm expecting too much. I just need to know if I should try calling him when he's supposed to get out (if you think he likes me) or if you think theres no chance..Guy problem... will give points for best advice!?
It's not a chance he so likes you! It's so cute its obvious he likes you but you should understand that people get busy and you need to cop with it.
Last month I was busy for 2 whole weeks with rehearsals at school and didn't talk to my bf at all. I bet he'll feel bad if you give up on him cause of his job. I felt guilty for not spending time with my bf and I'm sure this guy feels bad too.
Just be patient he's trying his best to spend time with you and it really seems like he likes you!Guy problem... will give points for best advice!?
Maybe he's just really busy, if he kisses you and does all that its obvious he likes you. You should call him and ask why he hasn't been talking to you much.
It's not a chance he so likes you! It's so cute its obvious he likes you but you should understand that people get busy and you need to cop with it.
Last month I was busy for 2 whole weeks with rehearsals at school and didn't talk to my bf at all. I bet he'll feel bad if you give up on him cause of his job. I felt guilty for not spending time with my bf and I'm sure this guy feels bad too.
Just be patient he's trying his best to spend time with you and it really seems like he likes you!Guy problem... will give points for best advice!?
Maybe he's just really busy, if he kisses you and does all that its obvious he likes you. You should call him and ask why he hasn't been talking to you much.
Making out for the first time please advice! points for the best advice !?
okay i am 14 and yesterday i was talking to one of my best friends who is a boy that i really like, about making out. i think he likes me to. and he said that because we have both never made out before and cuz we r both good friends we should be the ones to make out with eachother first. we both agreed and r going to on friday night. we have both said to eachother that we have never made out before and that we really both dont know how. he even told me he was nervous lol but we both really want to. the problem is i really dont know how and i dont want to look like a complete idiot infront of him so can someone tell me what do i do when i get there and what are some good things to do while making out that he will like. and ya just details on the whole situation. and what do i say to him when i get there to start the whole making out situation how do i start the convo like into it. thanks ! (L)Making out for the first time please advice! points for the best advice !?
Act like you do normally, don't be stiff or tense. Just go with the flow I guess.. Seeing that you're both doing this for the first time mistakes won't matter to him not like he will no either. Just do what feels right and things should hopefully go well. There really isn't a ';correct'; way to do it.wrinkles good makeup
Act like you do normally, don't be stiff or tense. Just go with the flow I guess.. Seeing that you're both doing this for the first time mistakes won't matter to him not like he will no either. Just do what feels right and things should hopefully go well. There really isn't a ';correct'; way to do it.
Business tactics..10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am a billingual. I don't speak good English. I don't like interviewing process because I am very nervous. I have been practice and prepare for interview--but still do poorly. I am a hard working, honest, ambitious, and determined person. I am qualified for most job. All my former employers think I am a great worker. I don't want my poor communication skills (ESL) blocks me from moving forward.
I am changing my new strategy. I think I am going to sell myself through profolio
I made a career portfolio. It is a-30-pages book include: 1 letter of introduction,1 resume, 2 college transcripts, 3 references, 3 letters of recommendation, 5 work samples, and 1 writing sample.
What do you think?
Thank youBusiness tactics..10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
It looks like you're on the right track.
You didn't mention what type of job you were seeking. If it involves interacting with customers, then poor English can kill you in an interview.
Perhaps you should take a public speaking class to improve your English.Business tactics..10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Good to hear that you're trying hard. But on a practical level, communication in business can not be avoided. It's extremely important.
Also, if I had a stack of 15 one-page resume's and a 30-page portfolio, I would briefly skim through each resume and wouldn't even open the portfolio. I don't like to sound negative, but managers just don't have that kind of time.
I suggest you focus more on your communication and interview skills. Mock interviews are helpful. Good luck!
I think that would depend on your field....sales/marketing and very customer service oriented fields will value the interview moreso than the portfolio however
Use your biliuguil ability to your advantage. The face to face you will work on.
Your working on improving so thats always good.
I am changing my new strategy. I think I am going to sell myself through profolio
I made a career portfolio. It is a-30-pages book include: 1 letter of introduction,1 resume, 2 college transcripts, 3 references, 3 letters of recommendation, 5 work samples, and 1 writing sample.
What do you think?
Thank youBusiness tactics..10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
It looks like you're on the right track.
You didn't mention what type of job you were seeking. If it involves interacting with customers, then poor English can kill you in an interview.
Perhaps you should take a public speaking class to improve your English.Business tactics..10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Good to hear that you're trying hard. But on a practical level, communication in business can not be avoided. It's extremely important.
Also, if I had a stack of 15 one-page resume's and a 30-page portfolio, I would briefly skim through each resume and wouldn't even open the portfolio. I don't like to sound negative, but managers just don't have that kind of time.
I suggest you focus more on your communication and interview skills. Mock interviews are helpful. Good luck!
I think that would depend on your field....sales/marketing and very customer service oriented fields will value the interview moreso than the portfolio however
Use your biliuguil ability to your advantage. The face to face you will work on.
Your working on improving so thats always good.
Very nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Sorry, English is my second language.
I am 22 years old. I will have a Master degree in May. Recently, I have applied for a Program Officer position in an NGO. Everything went well. I will have an interview soon.
I just studied more about the job. It makes me very nervous because my duties are to assist the director of the program. I also found out that most people who applied for my position are in their 30s who already have experiences in the fields..
How can I sell myself during the interview? I really want the job, but I am not sure that I will do good because I have ';NO'; experience..
Please advice.
Thank youVery nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
There is the idea that because you are inexperienced you know no boundary on what is possible and what is not. You could play up on this concept.Very nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Realize that even though you have no experience they still fell you are qualified enough to be considered for an interview. Sometimes employers look for people with little experience because they want to train from the ground up instead of undoing bad habits. Also, experienced people may demand higher a higher salary. Instead of trying to sell yourself, simply try to make a good impression. Look professional. Answer questions confidently and honestly. Be yourself. And remember to tell the employer why you will be good for the job, not why the job will be good for you. They aren't looking to make you happy, they are looking to make the company better. Good luck.
Obviously, you have the education, so sell that and sell your maturity level and your drive to work hard. If you go in there and sell these things you will definately be considered for the position. Don't worry about all those other guys. Who knows what their files look like?
Just be confident and display your strengths. Tell the interviewer how your experiences in school and jobs you've had before have given you the skills necessary to do your job duties. If you believe you can do it, then just convey that. Sometimes people would rather hire someone with less experience because they won't be so set in their way of doing things and can learn the subtleties of that particular company or program easier. Confidence is key. Make eye contact, sit up straight, and speak clearly.
Stress your abilities. You are bilingual and multicultural (I'm assuming). ';No experience'; can be phrased ';A fresh perspective';. Emphasize loyalty towards employers. This turns young into ';long term investment'; for the company.If you have a master's then you've probably completed a thesis. point that out as experience. Site things you've done for advisers and faculty at the university to illustrate your strengths. Relax and be confident. You don't need to be the best. You need to convince them you are the best. Young and inexperienced might not look good on paper, but intelligent, credentialed, long term investment with a fresh perspective sells. If you have an interview, they've already weighed your inexperience, and they don't care, so relax.
go in there like you already have the job and see if you want to work there. Interview them.
A lot of willingness to learn and good study record as well as previous work history, has a lot to do with an employers decision to give someone a job. It's not all based on experience. Just do your best at the interview, thats all anyone can do. Be polite, professional, and look the interviewer in the eyes.
When you are asked a question make sure you understand it (you may ask for clarification) then answer as honestly as you can. If your answer is not what they are looking for it means that you are not suitable for the job, in which case is better for both parties. You will not be happy in a job that is not suitable for you
I am 22 years old. I will have a Master degree in May. Recently, I have applied for a Program Officer position in an NGO. Everything went well. I will have an interview soon.
I just studied more about the job. It makes me very nervous because my duties are to assist the director of the program. I also found out that most people who applied for my position are in their 30s who already have experiences in the fields..
How can I sell myself during the interview? I really want the job, but I am not sure that I will do good because I have ';NO'; experience..
Please advice.
Thank youVery nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
There is the idea that because you are inexperienced you know no boundary on what is possible and what is not. You could play up on this concept.Very nervous. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Realize that even though you have no experience they still fell you are qualified enough to be considered for an interview. Sometimes employers look for people with little experience because they want to train from the ground up instead of undoing bad habits. Also, experienced people may demand higher a higher salary. Instead of trying to sell yourself, simply try to make a good impression. Look professional. Answer questions confidently and honestly. Be yourself. And remember to tell the employer why you will be good for the job, not why the job will be good for you. They aren't looking to make you happy, they are looking to make the company better. Good luck.
Obviously, you have the education, so sell that and sell your maturity level and your drive to work hard. If you go in there and sell these things you will definately be considered for the position. Don't worry about all those other guys. Who knows what their files look like?
Just be confident and display your strengths. Tell the interviewer how your experiences in school and jobs you've had before have given you the skills necessary to do your job duties. If you believe you can do it, then just convey that. Sometimes people would rather hire someone with less experience because they won't be so set in their way of doing things and can learn the subtleties of that particular company or program easier. Confidence is key. Make eye contact, sit up straight, and speak clearly.
Stress your abilities. You are bilingual and multicultural (I'm assuming). ';No experience'; can be phrased ';A fresh perspective';. Emphasize loyalty towards employers. This turns young into ';long term investment'; for the company.If you have a master's then you've probably completed a thesis. point that out as experience. Site things you've done for advisers and faculty at the university to illustrate your strengths. Relax and be confident. You don't need to be the best. You need to convince them you are the best. Young and inexperienced might not look good on paper, but intelligent, credentialed, long term investment with a fresh perspective sells. If you have an interview, they've already weighed your inexperience, and they don't care, so relax.
go in there like you already have the job and see if you want to work there. Interview them.
A lot of willingness to learn and good study record as well as previous work history, has a lot to do with an employers decision to give someone a job. It's not all based on experience. Just do your best at the interview, thats all anyone can do. Be polite, professional, and look the interviewer in the eyes.
When you are asked a question make sure you understand it (you may ask for clarification) then answer as honestly as you can. If your answer is not what they are looking for it means that you are not suitable for the job, in which case is better for both parties. You will not be happy in a job that is not suitable for you
Please try to give me the best advice what i should do about this?
my mother was an alcoholic for 16 years or possibly more. i am 17 and ever since i was little my mother drinks.. she took 2 locks off my doors so she can come in.. she would always come in my room at night on and not on school nights and say the most horrible things to me ( and shake me awake ) about my boyfriend, friends, me, and pretty much anything to be negative. it gets so bad sometimes i push her and hit her arm to get her out of my room. she stopped drinking cause it was getting to her liver, but she still does sometimes. she always says '; if you are going with your boyfriend dont think you are getting money from me for your college, car or ANYTHING.'; just cause i want to be with my boyfriend or when im 18. she has always wanted me never to do anything to make myself happy. she makes me cry and want to die because of what she does. '; no one is going to want a one eyed wife'; is what she says to me cause im blind in one eye from a car accident. my bros are in college, dad in MIPlease try to give me the best advice what i should do about this?
if you want to keep her out take butter knifes and stick a couple in the door between the trim facing the door. she sounds like alcohol affects her badly, try to move out asap you can always pay for collage with grants and so forth don't be threatened.
if you want to keep her out take butter knifes and stick a couple in the door between the trim facing the door. she sounds like alcohol affects her badly, try to move out asap you can always pay for collage with grants and so forth don't be threatened.
I need help basketball section??one with the best advice gets best answer?
this is my team
PG Deron Williams
SG Andre Iguodala
SF Gerald Wallace
PF Dirk Nowitzki
C Samuel Dalembert
G Ronnie Brewer
F Rudy Gay
UTIL John Salmons
UTIL Jason Thompson
UTIL Al Harrington
Bench Nene
Bench Richard Jefferson
Bench Mike Bibby
these are the free agents
Joakim Noah
D.J. Augustin
Tyson Chandler
Brad Miller
Shane Battier
Chris Duhon
Randy Foye
Ty Lawson
Travis Outlaw
Brandon Jennings
Marreese Speights
Yi Jianlian
Anthony Morrow
who should i drop and who should i get???? and why??I need help basketball section??one with the best advice gets best answer?
drop dalembert and pick up noah...noah was crazy in the post last season especiaally in the playoffs and i think dalembert just cucks at the 5...
get jefferson off ur bench and put anthony morrow on the bench morrow has a good 3pt range and an play pretty smart bball...
and save urself drop al harrington plese.. brandon jennings is gonna have a way better season than him and his stats shoould be through the roof imo
PG Deron Williams
SG Andre Iguodala
SF Gerald Wallace
PF Dirk Nowitzki
C Samuel Dalembert
G Ronnie Brewer
F Rudy Gay
UTIL John Salmons
UTIL Jason Thompson
UTIL Al Harrington
Bench Nene
Bench Richard Jefferson
Bench Mike Bibby
these are the free agents
Joakim Noah
D.J. Augustin
Tyson Chandler
Brad Miller
Shane Battier
Chris Duhon
Randy Foye
Ty Lawson
Travis Outlaw
Brandon Jennings
Marreese Speights
Yi Jianlian
Anthony Morrow
who should i drop and who should i get???? and why??I need help basketball section??one with the best advice gets best answer?
drop dalembert and pick up noah...noah was crazy in the post last season especiaally in the playoffs and i think dalembert just cucks at the 5...
get jefferson off ur bench and put anthony morrow on the bench morrow has a good 3pt range and an play pretty smart bball...
and save urself drop al harrington plese.. brandon jennings is gonna have a way better season than him and his stats shoould be through the roof imo
Heres a doozy??? 10 points for best advice on a breakup...?
My uhhh... friend has been goin out with his gf for over a year now. hez nearly 19 and is looking foward to getting out there and following his career path. His gf is very talanted and has a great career lined up for her too but shes so into love its not crazy. Shez the same age as him and is alredi thinking about a family like she wants nothing else.. She loves him and he loves her but he knows its gonna be impossible to be together for much more than another few months... they've been friends for years... What does he do? Live the moments and then go seperate ways or what?? Advice would be wonderful in any form =) thanx...Heres a doozy??? 10 points for best advice on a breakup...?
Make sure your ';friend'; talks to his gf about how he's feeling. You don't have to say it like, ' oh i think we're going to break up soon', but make it sound like you know it's going to be hard to stay committed when your career paths are starting.
It'll sound horrible to her, but it's the only way that you can be fair. If you've been friends for years it might be a little easier for her.
Your're both still really young, I'm the same age and I couldn't imagine talking about kids and stuff.
I hope everything works out for you! ..oh I mean your friend.
Best of Luck! :) xxHeres a doozy??? 10 points for best advice on a breakup...?
He should just break up with her now and not string her along..
Make sure your ';friend'; talks to his gf about how he's feeling. You don't have to say it like, ' oh i think we're going to break up soon', but make it sound like you know it's going to be hard to stay committed when your career paths are starting.
It'll sound horrible to her, but it's the only way that you can be fair. If you've been friends for years it might be a little easier for her.
Your're both still really young, I'm the same age and I couldn't imagine talking about kids and stuff.
I hope everything works out for you! ..oh I mean your friend.
Best of Luck! :) xxHeres a doozy??? 10 points for best advice on a breakup...?
He should just break up with her now and not string her along..
Prom date, help!! 10 points to best advice!!?
so i asked this guy i know outside of school to my school's prom, i don't know him that well, but i like him and we're friends. he said sure, but he said he had to check his plans first.
he called back and said he cant go b/c he has to help move out his sister from college, but i kind of think that if he really wanted to go, he could.
I want to convince him to come, but i dont want to sound too desperate or anything b/c theyre moving her out in 2 weekends and plus his parents can help her. its only one night.
what should i do?? b/c he should be able to go, should i call him and try to convince him to come?Prom date, help!! 10 points to best advice!!?
He would feel guilty if he didn't help his sister move, for one. And also, I think that he's afraid of it being awkward when he's at your prom with loads of people he doesn't know at all. That can be extremely intimidating, and he probably feels that you wouldn't find that very attractive if he suddenly became really shy and intimidated by everyone.Prom date, help!! 10 points to best advice!!?
if he really wanted to go he would,he's making excuses,he told you in a nice way no,thats why he said he had to check his plans.he had no plans at first,but he has them now because he don't want to go with you.find someone else 2 go with you sweetie,forget that jerk.GOOD LUCK..%26amp; have fun at the prom you only get one......wrinkles good makeup
he called back and said he cant go b/c he has to help move out his sister from college, but i kind of think that if he really wanted to go, he could.
I want to convince him to come, but i dont want to sound too desperate or anything b/c theyre moving her out in 2 weekends and plus his parents can help her. its only one night.
what should i do?? b/c he should be able to go, should i call him and try to convince him to come?Prom date, help!! 10 points to best advice!!?
He would feel guilty if he didn't help his sister move, for one. And also, I think that he's afraid of it being awkward when he's at your prom with loads of people he doesn't know at all. That can be extremely intimidating, and he probably feels that you wouldn't find that very attractive if he suddenly became really shy and intimidated by everyone.Prom date, help!! 10 points to best advice!!?
if he really wanted to go he would,he's making excuses,he told you in a nice way no,thats why he said he had to check his plans.he had no plans at first,but he has them now because he don't want to go with you.find someone else 2 go with you sweetie,forget that jerk.GOOD LUCK..%26amp; have fun at the prom you only get one......
HELP HELP HELP 10 POINTS TO BEST ADVICE, I have a crush on a foreign guy !!!?
Hello everyone how are yall. I hope everyone is doing well. Ok i need major advice/help. Ok so there is this guy that I really like. I believe he is from Pakistan. He is the sweetest guy i've ever met. I've known him like since a month after school was already in. I dont think he knows that I really like him or how I really feel about him. I think he likes me too but he's giving me mixed signals. His sister told my sister that he talkes about me all the time. I am african americn girl that is exteremely shy, and nice. He is engaged but i dont think he likes the girl he is engaged to, she isn't in the United States, but i think he really likes me alot too. HeHe comes to my desk at school everyday and ask me how my day was. We are very good friends but I am still to shy to tell him how I feel. But idk maybe he feels the same way i do and is too shy to tell me. I dont know much about his culture either. And soon I want to ask him to prom and maybe be my new bf. What should I do %26gt;___%26lt; !!!HELP HELP HELP 10 POINTS TO BEST ADVICE, I have a crush on a foreign guy !!!?
he's engaged!?!
leave him alone!! just be friends with him, how would you like it if you were dating a guy and he moves and then cheats on you!?!? EXACTLY
so dont ask him to prom, dont even like him like that
omg i hate people who try to ruin peoples relationships!!HELP HELP HELP 10 POINTS TO BEST ADVICE, I have a crush on a foreign guy !!!?
tell him you'd like to learn more about his culture, and maybe he could get together with you and you can have some time alone, and see what happens
thats going to be really tough especially if he is engaged! but i htink that if he really likes you he will convence his parents that he loves oyu and not the other girl. but for right now i htink you should just stick with being best friends
chel-c :-)
At the age you are best to be friends only As he is engaged sounds funny%26gt; But if he isn't true to the 1 he is to marry%26gt; Why would you think he would be true to you%26gt;Besafe%26gt;
He may like you, but thig is, he is engaged. His culture will really frown down on him to break an engagement for someone else, especially someone that isn't part of that culture. He might toy with you, but that's about all he can do. My advice would be to move on and forget him.
next time you see him when there are no other people around just talk cassualy about the subject
';i just wanted to tell you (insert name here) that you friendship means allot to me, i realy like you and find myself thinking about you allot.... im not sure what that means and the fact that you are engaged to (insert her name here)
i would love it if you would go to the prom with me, id like to hang out with you more.......
gather from his reactions,
if he becomes a little standoffish calm the situation down by saying things like ';just as friends';
good luck and btway it sounds like he is in to you maybe just a little confused about his missus over seaas :)
he is engaged and i dont think it is your call to say whether he likes the girl or not because in the end u will be the outside woman.
NO he is not going to leave his fiancee for you
Tell him how you feel asap. And read up a little on his culture, suprise him a little. Also, with him living in YOUR culture, he's probably gonna be more open to something like this because he's ';fitting'; in with a different world. The only way to settle your problem is to go for the gold.
It sounds to me that he is engaged because he has to be, because people aren't usually engaged in high school. Is that right? If so, he may not like the girl, and he might like you. Tell him that you like him and ask him to the prom, but expect a crap load of controversy from his parents. If he's engaged to this girl in Pakistan because he wants to be, chances are, he likes her. He wouldn't be engaged if he didn't like her (unless of course, he has to marry her b/c of family, etc). If this is the case, I would back off. You don't want to ruin your friendship.
There is only one way; ASK HIM OUT! C'mon I believe in you girl! Just go for it! I'm sure if he is as nice as you say then he should be nice enough to respect your feelings. Don't worry he won't make fun of you. Just do it! Guys always like courageous girls you know..
well don't get too excited. he is engaged, be his best friend and ask him to prom but i advise you to not get too serious.
learn to speak pakistani
From a girl's point of view, i think you should talk to him and ask him what kind of things they do in his culture, get to know him, he will probably automatically think you are very interested in him and he might even ask you to prom(if he doesn't really like that other girl). But if he rejects you, move on, be his friend and act like nothing ever happened. He will most likely treat you the same way.
IF U REALLY LIKE HIM I MEAN REALLY LIKE HIM MAN UP N TELL HIM HOW U FEEL B 4 ITS TO LATE HE COULD GET MARRIED OR SUMTIN??????????? WOW
The main obstacle here is that he is engaged. It wouldn't be right to tell him how you feel unless you know this engagement is all wrong. If he seems unhappy about his engagement, possibly doing it out of obligation from some arrangement type deal. Talk to his sister before you assume or do anything else. A marriage is far more serious than a prom date or a boyfriend, think really hard before you consider coming in between that and do the right thing.
if he is really sexy than forgive him
he's engaged!?!
leave him alone!! just be friends with him, how would you like it if you were dating a guy and he moves and then cheats on you!?!? EXACTLY
so dont ask him to prom, dont even like him like that
omg i hate people who try to ruin peoples relationships!!HELP HELP HELP 10 POINTS TO BEST ADVICE, I have a crush on a foreign guy !!!?
tell him you'd like to learn more about his culture, and maybe he could get together with you and you can have some time alone, and see what happens
thats going to be really tough especially if he is engaged! but i htink that if he really likes you he will convence his parents that he loves oyu and not the other girl. but for right now i htink you should just stick with being best friends
chel-c :-)
At the age you are best to be friends only As he is engaged sounds funny%26gt; But if he isn't true to the 1 he is to marry%26gt; Why would you think he would be true to you%26gt;Besafe%26gt;
He may like you, but thig is, he is engaged. His culture will really frown down on him to break an engagement for someone else, especially someone that isn't part of that culture. He might toy with you, but that's about all he can do. My advice would be to move on and forget him.
next time you see him when there are no other people around just talk cassualy about the subject
';i just wanted to tell you (insert name here) that you friendship means allot to me, i realy like you and find myself thinking about you allot.... im not sure what that means and the fact that you are engaged to (insert her name here)
i would love it if you would go to the prom with me, id like to hang out with you more.......
gather from his reactions,
if he becomes a little standoffish calm the situation down by saying things like ';just as friends';
good luck and btway it sounds like he is in to you maybe just a little confused about his missus over seaas :)
he is engaged and i dont think it is your call to say whether he likes the girl or not because in the end u will be the outside woman.
NO he is not going to leave his fiancee for you
Tell him how you feel asap. And read up a little on his culture, suprise him a little. Also, with him living in YOUR culture, he's probably gonna be more open to something like this because he's ';fitting'; in with a different world. The only way to settle your problem is to go for the gold.
It sounds to me that he is engaged because he has to be, because people aren't usually engaged in high school. Is that right? If so, he may not like the girl, and he might like you. Tell him that you like him and ask him to the prom, but expect a crap load of controversy from his parents. If he's engaged to this girl in Pakistan because he wants to be, chances are, he likes her. He wouldn't be engaged if he didn't like her (unless of course, he has to marry her b/c of family, etc). If this is the case, I would back off. You don't want to ruin your friendship.
There is only one way; ASK HIM OUT! C'mon I believe in you girl! Just go for it! I'm sure if he is as nice as you say then he should be nice enough to respect your feelings. Don't worry he won't make fun of you. Just do it! Guys always like courageous girls you know..
well don't get too excited. he is engaged, be his best friend and ask him to prom but i advise you to not get too serious.
learn to speak pakistani
From a girl's point of view, i think you should talk to him and ask him what kind of things they do in his culture, get to know him, he will probably automatically think you are very interested in him and he might even ask you to prom(if he doesn't really like that other girl). But if he rejects you, move on, be his friend and act like nothing ever happened. He will most likely treat you the same way.
IF U REALLY LIKE HIM I MEAN REALLY LIKE HIM MAN UP N TELL HIM HOW U FEEL B 4 ITS TO LATE HE COULD GET MARRIED OR SUMTIN??????????? WOW
The main obstacle here is that he is engaged. It wouldn't be right to tell him how you feel unless you know this engagement is all wrong. If he seems unhappy about his engagement, possibly doing it out of obligation from some arrangement type deal. Talk to his sister before you assume or do anything else. A marriage is far more serious than a prom date or a boyfriend, think really hard before you consider coming in between that and do the right thing.
if he is really sexy than forgive him
Adivce! please help! boy and GIRLS! (best advice 10 points)!!!?
how do i stop talking to him! i really want to i don't know why i just can't! he treats me horribly and we aren't even together! i just want some advice on how i can just STOP talking to him!
to sum it up i dated this guy for a year, broke up a week after our one year, he called me names (horrible names) takes my money for a year and calls me selfish for not helping him, i still have helped him with money after we broke up thinking i could get him back, never said thank you, took my camera and said if i don't give him 350 i will lose my camera and jewelry, he yells screams and mentally puts me down! doesn't treat me fair!
i know if he does all of this why am i talking to him! i DON'T know i am scared he will fall if i don't help him!!
please should i just FORGET him in all or help me with out talking?!?! please give me advice!!!!
(no mean answers with cursing or anything, say the truth not a mean answer please) thanksAdivce! please help! boy and GIRLS! (best advice 10 points)!!!?
This is a difficult situation because your humanity is out waying your own self worth. A man is suppose to be the provider, im not saying that people in a relationship aren't suppose to show there love buy helping there partner or friend out in a hard situation. Everyone has situations in there life wen they run in to tough times but for a man, if a women can really see him trying to solely depend on her financially and not even trying to gain a certain adult independence he is in fact trying to avoid responsibility at your expense. And truthfully you are puttingg your emotionall well being directly in the cross fire to be hurt. Women are sacred and a lot of men dont understand how much a women body and mind are something to be chairist. To be honest a part of him knows what he's doing as far as taking money from you or even asking, trust a part of him feels that guilt because he wrong but his pride wont let him stand up as a man and stop. I know you've heard of the saying';taking kindness for weakness';this is a prime example for ex's when one is the sole provider or giver. Many women are attacked to men like this because natually they are compasiate and like the feeling of taking care of someone and being depended on. You have to evaluate your own self worth and maybe be straight foward with this person and put the situation on the table. You and only you can change the situation when you're ready. Best of luck, Johnny Cash!Adivce! please help! boy and GIRLS! (best advice 10 points)!!!?
My Advice?: Let him FALL. I was in a similar relationship, I hleped him financially for 17 months and I was always their financially and emotionally therefore he never had to stand on his own two feet. I broke it off, because I just couldn't take it anymore. And if he's treating you bad then it's even worse. Let him fall and let him fall hard, he deserves it he treats you badly and he doesn't deserve you. You need to find someone who will appreciate and love you, that's what you deserve.
just always avoid him and soon he will come to u more nice then make him swear that he will be nice if he keeps treating u like a pig then ignore him for about 5 weeks then do it all over again
you really need to get away from him. Trust me, if he treats you that way, he does not love you. he is using you, and you need to remove yourself from the situation. One day you will find a man who respects you for who you are and treats you nicely. Why settle for a jerk when you can have a great man. Move on and don't let him trick you into coming to his house or anything like that. Don't answer his calls and don't go meet him anywhere. And if you have to get a restraining order.
It's one thing to help someone who is in need, but someone who is disrespectful, mean, and manipulative... Just break away. Of course, this is harder said than done, but worrying about this guy will just cause you pain. You gave him a chance, tried to help him out, and he steals your stuff and wants more. Now someone like this, you just need to let fall. Maybe through humility, he will learn to be thankful and nice to caring people like you.
Now how to get away from him. It seems you ';need'; him to talk to. This is like a bad habit and must be broken. The best way to break a habit: do something that is incompatable with it. AKA, do something that prevents you from talking to him. Hang out with friends, maybe even find a boyfriend. These people will be supportive, and give you the strength to wash this guy out of your life.
Good Luck
to sum it up i dated this guy for a year, broke up a week after our one year, he called me names (horrible names) takes my money for a year and calls me selfish for not helping him, i still have helped him with money after we broke up thinking i could get him back, never said thank you, took my camera and said if i don't give him 350 i will lose my camera and jewelry, he yells screams and mentally puts me down! doesn't treat me fair!
i know if he does all of this why am i talking to him! i DON'T know i am scared he will fall if i don't help him!!
please should i just FORGET him in all or help me with out talking?!?! please give me advice!!!!
(no mean answers with cursing or anything, say the truth not a mean answer please) thanksAdivce! please help! boy and GIRLS! (best advice 10 points)!!!?
This is a difficult situation because your humanity is out waying your own self worth. A man is suppose to be the provider, im not saying that people in a relationship aren't suppose to show there love buy helping there partner or friend out in a hard situation. Everyone has situations in there life wen they run in to tough times but for a man, if a women can really see him trying to solely depend on her financially and not even trying to gain a certain adult independence he is in fact trying to avoid responsibility at your expense. And truthfully you are puttingg your emotionall well being directly in the cross fire to be hurt. Women are sacred and a lot of men dont understand how much a women body and mind are something to be chairist. To be honest a part of him knows what he's doing as far as taking money from you or even asking, trust a part of him feels that guilt because he wrong but his pride wont let him stand up as a man and stop. I know you've heard of the saying';taking kindness for weakness';this is a prime example for ex's when one is the sole provider or giver. Many women are attacked to men like this because natually they are compasiate and like the feeling of taking care of someone and being depended on. You have to evaluate your own self worth and maybe be straight foward with this person and put the situation on the table. You and only you can change the situation when you're ready. Best of luck, Johnny Cash!Adivce! please help! boy and GIRLS! (best advice 10 points)!!!?
My Advice?: Let him FALL. I was in a similar relationship, I hleped him financially for 17 months and I was always their financially and emotionally therefore he never had to stand on his own two feet. I broke it off, because I just couldn't take it anymore. And if he's treating you bad then it's even worse. Let him fall and let him fall hard, he deserves it he treats you badly and he doesn't deserve you. You need to find someone who will appreciate and love you, that's what you deserve.
just always avoid him and soon he will come to u more nice then make him swear that he will be nice if he keeps treating u like a pig then ignore him for about 5 weeks then do it all over again
you really need to get away from him. Trust me, if he treats you that way, he does not love you. he is using you, and you need to remove yourself from the situation. One day you will find a man who respects you for who you are and treats you nicely. Why settle for a jerk when you can have a great man. Move on and don't let him trick you into coming to his house or anything like that. Don't answer his calls and don't go meet him anywhere. And if you have to get a restraining order.
It's one thing to help someone who is in need, but someone who is disrespectful, mean, and manipulative... Just break away. Of course, this is harder said than done, but worrying about this guy will just cause you pain. You gave him a chance, tried to help him out, and he steals your stuff and wants more. Now someone like this, you just need to let fall. Maybe through humility, he will learn to be thankful and nice to caring people like you.
Now how to get away from him. It seems you ';need'; him to talk to. This is like a bad habit and must be broken. The best way to break a habit: do something that is incompatable with it. AKA, do something that prevents you from talking to him. Hang out with friends, maybe even find a boyfriend. These people will be supportive, and give you the strength to wash this guy out of your life.
Good Luck
Rude interviewers. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I have been to over 30 job interviews. I have met good one and bad one. Recently, I have been to many interviews with very rude interviewers.
Last week--I spoke to a senior HR officer. I knew she is an elderly lady. The whole time we talked. She made some weird noises like she was so bored.
Yesterday-- An interviewer hung up on me. She said my phone is getting ready to break and she could not hear me.
Today--I recieved an e-mail from a lady name Alex Mann. I thought he was a man. I called and asking for Mr. Alex. She was very offended. She also said, this is not the best time to call her. She will call me back this afternoon. She has not called me back.
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They are acting like I am begging them for the job. I must get on my hands and knees or no jobs offer. Come on, I am tired of this now. Please advice. Thank you.Rude interviewers. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I know what you mean. I went to one recently and the guy was GRILLING me like crazy. Asking so many questions. It's a stupid hourly position but he made it seem like I was interviewing for CEO or something. I got mad and said ';know what? F this sh-t'; and left. There's no need for that kinda sh-t. Especially now, when everyones looking for a job.Rude interviewers. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
make them call you for the interivew. if they really want someone for the job (which it sounds like they do) they should know that they have to be kind to you or else you won't take the job.
however, if they're just plain rude to you regardless, they don't deserve your time.
30 interviews and no job offers. I suggest you sign up at your local college and receive some training on how to interview well. It is possible that you are doing something that is a complete turn off to the interviewer.
don't forget that the way they treat you during an interview is also the way you'll be treated when you work there. While it's rude and impolite just look at it as a peek into what working conditions are like in that particular place
Don't get discouraged! Practice makes perfect. During this process you are interviewing them as much as they are interviewing you which is something they sometimes forget!
Just be firm but polite. When they don't return a call be pro-active and call them again. It doesn't matter if they think you are being pushy. You come first.
Last week--I spoke to a senior HR officer. I knew she is an elderly lady. The whole time we talked. She made some weird noises like she was so bored.
Yesterday-- An interviewer hung up on me. She said my phone is getting ready to break and she could not hear me.
Today--I recieved an e-mail from a lady name Alex Mann. I thought he was a man. I called and asking for Mr. Alex. She was very offended. She also said, this is not the best time to call her. She will call me back this afternoon. She has not called me back.
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They are acting like I am begging them for the job. I must get on my hands and knees or no jobs offer. Come on, I am tired of this now. Please advice. Thank you.Rude interviewers. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I know what you mean. I went to one recently and the guy was GRILLING me like crazy. Asking so many questions. It's a stupid hourly position but he made it seem like I was interviewing for CEO or something. I got mad and said ';know what? F this sh-t'; and left. There's no need for that kinda sh-t. Especially now, when everyones looking for a job.Rude interviewers. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
make them call you for the interivew. if they really want someone for the job (which it sounds like they do) they should know that they have to be kind to you or else you won't take the job.
however, if they're just plain rude to you regardless, they don't deserve your time.
30 interviews and no job offers. I suggest you sign up at your local college and receive some training on how to interview well. It is possible that you are doing something that is a complete turn off to the interviewer.
don't forget that the way they treat you during an interview is also the way you'll be treated when you work there. While it's rude and impolite just look at it as a peek into what working conditions are like in that particular place
Don't get discouraged! Practice makes perfect. During this process you are interviewing them as much as they are interviewing you which is something they sometimes forget!
Just be firm but polite. When they don't return a call be pro-active and call them again. It doesn't matter if they think you are being pushy. You come first.
Like friend help easy 10pts for best advice?
I like this boy he is sweet, funny, cute n i can tell he cares about me but here the thing
I messed up first i jus been thinking n I realized he has liked me since we became friends a year ago n i put him n friend zone I thought he wasn't interested n me
well sometimes I joke around n call him ugly n he reallly isn't
But I said that the last time I saw him but he had this sad look on his face n I felt really bad
I didn't get a chance to tell him i didn't mean it
but me n mom had 2 go(my mom n his mom work 2gether whole reason we met)
N we live like 3 miles apart but go to different schools n r extremly busy the whole year
wat should i say tho should i get sweetn gushy or do u like me then i like uor some1 told me to say sorry n kiss him on the cheek n say I ve alway liked you n see wat happens
or
will he never talk to me again becuz of wat i saidLike friend help easy 10pts for best advice?
When you next see him, talk with him like you normally do. Then, after you have him laughing at something, tilt you head while looking at him and say, 'You know, you really aren't ugly at all...' Then pretend to be embarrassed. He'll get the hint that you're starting to think of him as more than a friend. Continue flirting till the end of the night. If sparks fly, let it go wherever it may lead ;)Like friend help easy 10pts for best advice?
You should apologize and give him a kiss on the cheek. And tell him you didnt mean it and would like to become more than friends!!!!
I messed up first i jus been thinking n I realized he has liked me since we became friends a year ago n i put him n friend zone I thought he wasn't interested n me
well sometimes I joke around n call him ugly n he reallly isn't
But I said that the last time I saw him but he had this sad look on his face n I felt really bad
I didn't get a chance to tell him i didn't mean it
but me n mom had 2 go(my mom n his mom work 2gether whole reason we met)
N we live like 3 miles apart but go to different schools n r extremly busy the whole year
wat should i say tho should i get sweetn gushy or do u like me then i like uor some1 told me to say sorry n kiss him on the cheek n say I ve alway liked you n see wat happens
or
will he never talk to me again becuz of wat i saidLike friend help easy 10pts for best advice?
When you next see him, talk with him like you normally do. Then, after you have him laughing at something, tilt you head while looking at him and say, 'You know, you really aren't ugly at all...' Then pretend to be embarrassed. He'll get the hint that you're starting to think of him as more than a friend. Continue flirting till the end of the night. If sparks fly, let it go wherever it may lead ;)Like friend help easy 10pts for best advice?
You should apologize and give him a kiss on the cheek. And tell him you didnt mean it and would like to become more than friends!!!!
Whats the best piece of advice you ever got?
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You're welcome and don't worry you'll find yourself ;)
Whats the best piece of advice you ever got?
and Thanks :)
1.) Never argue with an idiot they will bring you down to their level and win with the experience.
2.) Common Courtesies never cost a thing
3.) The funny thing about common sense it aint that common
and last but not least
4.) Two Wolves
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside all people.
He said, 'My son, the battle is between two 'wolves' inside us all.
One is Evil.
It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment,
inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.
The other is Good.
It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy,
generosity, truth, compassion and faith.'
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: 'Which wolf wins?'
The old Cherokee simply replied, 'The one you feed.'
This was from a Pearsian saying it is:
A Persian Saying
He who knows not and knows not he knows not: he is a fool - shun him.
He who knows not and knows he knows not: he is simple - teach him.
He who knows and knows not he knows: he is asleep - wake him.
He who knows and knows he knows: he is wise - follow him.
After a hurtful break-up, my mother told me there were plenty more fish in the ocean. It never really made sense then, but a piece of fish is only about $5 and usually does not let you down quite as badly.
Don't get a girlfriend. Women are a distraction.
Guys are Rats, only man a girl can depend on is her Father.
I got it from Grease, luckly my bf has always been good to me, but still its great advise. (no ofence guys)
tough love is better than sympathy...not really advise i guess kinda but i liked it :)
Never believe anything a guy says when he has a hard-on.
Someone told me to quit crying my eyes out when I was younger. Using that advice worked like a charm.
You were born an orignal - don't die a copy.
Why worry when you can pray.
KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS!!!
Thanks DAD
Never mess with boys, only men
Don't eat yellow snow.
don't eat canned bread
Justin
only get what you can afford
live and learn, life is a lesson
Be a man.
you will never get a second chance to make a first impression
never give up.
Never give up until u try ur very best.
You're welcome and don't worry you'll find yourself ;)
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1.) Never argue with an idiot they will bring you down to their level and win with the experience.
2.) Common Courtesies never cost a thing
3.) The funny thing about common sense it aint that common
and last but not least
4.) Two Wolves
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside all people.
He said, 'My son, the battle is between two 'wolves' inside us all.
One is Evil.
It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment,
inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.
The other is Good.
It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy,
generosity, truth, compassion and faith.'
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: 'Which wolf wins?'
The old Cherokee simply replied, 'The one you feed.'
This was from a Pearsian saying it is:
A Persian Saying
He who knows not and knows not he knows not: he is a fool - shun him.
He who knows not and knows he knows not: he is simple - teach him.
He who knows and knows not he knows: he is asleep - wake him.
He who knows and knows he knows: he is wise - follow him.
After a hurtful break-up, my mother told me there were plenty more fish in the ocean. It never really made sense then, but a piece of fish is only about $5 and usually does not let you down quite as badly.
Don't get a girlfriend. Women are a distraction.
Guys are Rats, only man a girl can depend on is her Father.
I got it from Grease, luckly my bf has always been good to me, but still its great advise. (no ofence guys)
tough love is better than sympathy...not really advise i guess kinda but i liked it :)
Never believe anything a guy says when he has a hard-on.
Someone told me to quit crying my eyes out when I was younger. Using that advice worked like a charm.
You were born an orignal - don't die a copy.
Why worry when you can pray.
KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS!!!
Thanks DAD
Never mess with boys, only men
Don't eat yellow snow.
don't eat canned bread
Justin
only get what you can afford
live and learn, life is a lesson
Be a man.
you will never get a second chance to make a first impression
never give up.
Never give up until u try ur very best.
I am hoping...but mother knows best...advice moms!??!?
Okay! I need some advice! From mothers or TTC ladies!!
LMP- February 14th.
Had Sex on February 19th, 26th.(unprotected)
February 27th: I had horrible cramps all day
March 1St : woke up with VERY sore breast breast...nipples beyond sensitive. I couldn’t wear anything.
March 2: I had slight cramps. Boobs not as sore. And diarrhea. Also, had unprotected sex. After sex...i had a little brownish color in my thong
March 3: around noon became extremely tired. And wanted to sleep. When I got off work @ 5 I had some more brownish/pinkish in my thong( nickel size both times) I went to bed at 7 and didn’t wake until 6 for work this morning.
Today: so far no “spotting” today. But lost of watery discharge. Still very tired. And just wanna sleep.
I don’t start un March 14th.
What do you think? Too soon? Over thinking? What? I mean I cant exaggerate the blood in my thong lol Im not crazzzyI am hoping...but mother knows best...advice moms!??!?
Right before I found out I was pregnant I had the brown/pinkish discharge.Thats called implantation bleeding and its normal at the beginning of pregnancy.My nipples were also so sore I couldn't even stand for the fabric of my shirt to rub against them and I was soooo very tired.More tired than I'd ever really felt in my life, even after just waking up from 10 hours of sleep.My best way of describing it was that I felt like I had the flu.I would wait until a couple of days after your period is due and if you don't start, do a HPT.Good luckI am hoping...but mother knows best...advice moms!??!?
I hate to be a downer here but it is too soon to think anything more than you might be fighting off a bug of some kind. The bleeding doesn't seem like much and that can be from a variety of different reasons, and I just think it is way too early to be experiencing any pregnancy symptoms. It sounds like you want to have a kid though, I wish you the best of luck, just be careful :)
Spotting more than a day or so is not really a sign of pregnancy usually. Of course you could be pregnant. If you got pregnant from the 19th take a test tomorrow morning. You could have gotten pregnant from the 26th in which case you would most likely not get a positive until the 12th.
you could be pregnant all the symptons are there. i would wait till the morning of the day your period is due and take a test good luck!wrinkles good makeup
LMP- February 14th.
Had Sex on February 19th, 26th.(unprotected)
February 27th: I had horrible cramps all day
March 1St : woke up with VERY sore breast breast...nipples beyond sensitive. I couldn’t wear anything.
March 2: I had slight cramps. Boobs not as sore. And diarrhea. Also, had unprotected sex. After sex...i had a little brownish color in my thong
March 3: around noon became extremely tired. And wanted to sleep. When I got off work @ 5 I had some more brownish/pinkish in my thong( nickel size both times) I went to bed at 7 and didn’t wake until 6 for work this morning.
Today: so far no “spotting” today. But lost of watery discharge. Still very tired. And just wanna sleep.
I don’t start un March 14th.
What do you think? Too soon? Over thinking? What? I mean I cant exaggerate the blood in my thong lol Im not crazzzyI am hoping...but mother knows best...advice moms!??!?
Right before I found out I was pregnant I had the brown/pinkish discharge.Thats called implantation bleeding and its normal at the beginning of pregnancy.My nipples were also so sore I couldn't even stand for the fabric of my shirt to rub against them and I was soooo very tired.More tired than I'd ever really felt in my life, even after just waking up from 10 hours of sleep.My best way of describing it was that I felt like I had the flu.I would wait until a couple of days after your period is due and if you don't start, do a HPT.Good luckI am hoping...but mother knows best...advice moms!??!?
I hate to be a downer here but it is too soon to think anything more than you might be fighting off a bug of some kind. The bleeding doesn't seem like much and that can be from a variety of different reasons, and I just think it is way too early to be experiencing any pregnancy symptoms. It sounds like you want to have a kid though, I wish you the best of luck, just be careful :)
Spotting more than a day or so is not really a sign of pregnancy usually. Of course you could be pregnant. If you got pregnant from the 19th take a test tomorrow morning. You could have gotten pregnant from the 26th in which case you would most likely not get a positive until the 12th.
you could be pregnant all the symptons are there. i would wait till the morning of the day your period is due and take a test good luck!
Career portfolio. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am applying for a college coordinator II position. I am making career portfolio. It included:
1.) Letter of Introduction
2.) Resume
3.) College Transcripts
4.) Letters of Recommendation
5.) Reference
6.) Artifacts/ Work samples including sample of a broucher in publisher, a page of class schedule in excel, a page of students records in excel, a 3-5 pages research paper writing sample, as well as books and articles that mention my name/ pictures/ and accomplishment.
Is this a good idea or a bad idea? When should show my portfolio to the interviewers?Career portfolio. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Hi there,
It's a FABULOUS idea to have your portfolio. And eveything you've listed is great to have at an interview.
The way to handle it, is not to push it on them. But when you have an opportunity to talk, just casually let them know that you have a portfolio that includes what you've listed, if they'd like to browse through it, and offer to send them an e-copy of anything in your portfolio.
Half of the time when I do this, they don't even ask to see it. But every once in a while, they are impressed I have it, and take a look.
Something I added to my ';interview portfolio'; was my sparkling performance review.
I can tell you that if you push it on them, it will be a turn off. For example, I know someone that during an interview wanted to show us everything in her portfolio, when we really tried just asking her questions, she seemed so determned to show us the portfolio, she seemed anal and closed.
So just let them know what you have in case they want to see it.
When to tell them or show them really depends on the interviewer and the flow of the conversation.
If they give me an opportunity to talk about myself up front, I give a little blurb about my experience, and end it with ';and by the way I have XYZ if you'd like to see it...';.
IF they talk at me for a while, then drive right into questions, I listen then give my answer and again give them the ';by the way, in case you're interested, I did bring my portfolio which has XYZ.';
Don't be offended if they don't want to see it!
Good luck, and great ideas!Career portfolio. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
How you come across can be a huge factor in whether you get a job or not. I personally think that having a good portfolio shows initiative, and the drive to work hard at whatever it is you do.
I think you should save some of the very impressive stuff in your portfolio for last. Try to keep it short and sweet though. Keep his or her intrest.
Good luck.
1.) Letter of Introduction
2.) Resume
3.) College Transcripts
4.) Letters of Recommendation
5.) Reference
6.) Artifacts/ Work samples including sample of a broucher in publisher, a page of class schedule in excel, a page of students records in excel, a 3-5 pages research paper writing sample, as well as books and articles that mention my name/ pictures/ and accomplishment.
Is this a good idea or a bad idea? When should show my portfolio to the interviewers?Career portfolio. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Hi there,
It's a FABULOUS idea to have your portfolio. And eveything you've listed is great to have at an interview.
The way to handle it, is not to push it on them. But when you have an opportunity to talk, just casually let them know that you have a portfolio that includes what you've listed, if they'd like to browse through it, and offer to send them an e-copy of anything in your portfolio.
Half of the time when I do this, they don't even ask to see it. But every once in a while, they are impressed I have it, and take a look.
Something I added to my ';interview portfolio'; was my sparkling performance review.
I can tell you that if you push it on them, it will be a turn off. For example, I know someone that during an interview wanted to show us everything in her portfolio, when we really tried just asking her questions, she seemed so determned to show us the portfolio, she seemed anal and closed.
So just let them know what you have in case they want to see it.
When to tell them or show them really depends on the interviewer and the flow of the conversation.
If they give me an opportunity to talk about myself up front, I give a little blurb about my experience, and end it with ';and by the way I have XYZ if you'd like to see it...';.
IF they talk at me for a while, then drive right into questions, I listen then give my answer and again give them the ';by the way, in case you're interested, I did bring my portfolio which has XYZ.';
Don't be offended if they don't want to see it!
Good luck, and great ideas!Career portfolio. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
How you come across can be a huge factor in whether you get a job or not. I personally think that having a good portfolio shows initiative, and the drive to work hard at whatever it is you do.
I think you should save some of the very impressive stuff in your portfolio for last. Try to keep it short and sweet though. Keep his or her intrest.
Good luck.
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Absconder with misdemeanor charges and violations whats the best advice?
alot of speeding led to me being suspended from driving. was charged with DWLR and convicted and sentenced to 18 months supervised probation/120 days suspended jail time. during that time i was charged with 3 DWLR's, and misd. poss of marijuana--all were dismissed. my probation officer did not like that. she has wanted activation through all this. i paid all my money fines and fees for the sentence and probation. I then was charged with a DWI, misd poss marijauna and 2 traffic infractions. the officer violated me. I ran out of state with the wrong crowd and was charged with poss of nitris oxide (2x) one was cited as disorderly conduct (misd), minor theft (liquor bottle $11), all time served. THe Probation filed absconding papers on me. I ran partly due to my girlfriend being pregnant and fear of going to jail. I have since come back and my bond was 2000. Bonded out at 300 through bondsman. I have received the best career offer ever but it is out of state. I want to get back to the way I was before all this 2 year mess came around me. I dont know what kind of sentence they will give, if probation will they transfer it for my job offer or what?Recommendations?? Absconder with misdemeanor charges and violations whats the best advice?
It sounds like you have put yourself in a lot of bad situations. You have made a lot of bad choices. It is obvious that you have to do the following:
1. Stay away from the pot
2. Stay away from the alcohol
3. Stay away from the drugs
Gather all the information you have regarding the job offer. Show it to the judge and see if there is anything he can do for you. I would dress up in a suit and tie and very nice shoes. Make a great impression. Show him you are a changed person and you have a good opportunity to change your life.
Also, call an attorney. Many offer a free initial consultation. They may be able to guide you in the right direction on this. Good luck. I know you are going to have rough times, but you are on the right track. Remember that if your sentence does not allow you to move at this time, you have potential. You can work through this and do something good for yourself. You have a job offer. Someone believes in you. You will have to give up all the bad stuff. You can do this. I wish you all the luck in the world. :)
Absconder with misdemeanor charges and violations whats the best advice?
if you were smart, you would have gotten away
All you can do is tell this to the Judge and pray that they outcome you are hoping for comes. I am not answering this to bash you or anyone else but you know good and well that you should have thought about all of this before you KEPT messing up. Not everyone changes for the good. Not everyone realizes that they have started the wrong way and wont to do good for the right reasons. You just need to pray that he has not heard this same story, over and over again before you get in front of him. Most Judges have heard every story that you can think of.
I wish you the best of luck. If you don't get the outcome that you want. You just stay focused, and remember that you have come to realize what is right, don't let you mind sour because you get punished for something that you DID DO. If you get a punishment for it, Man up and tell yourself that you have to pay that price. But also know that once you pay that price for it. Its over then. You paid for it. Then go out and get that job and stay out of trouble........
Good luck to you and God Bless
Get a lawyer, but prepared to do some time in the can.
It sounds like you have put yourself in a lot of bad situations. You have made a lot of bad choices. It is obvious that you have to do the following:
1. Stay away from the pot
2. Stay away from the alcohol
3. Stay away from the drugs
Gather all the information you have regarding the job offer. Show it to the judge and see if there is anything he can do for you. I would dress up in a suit and tie and very nice shoes. Make a great impression. Show him you are a changed person and you have a good opportunity to change your life.
Also, call an attorney. Many offer a free initial consultation. They may be able to guide you in the right direction on this. Good luck. I know you are going to have rough times, but you are on the right track. Remember that if your sentence does not allow you to move at this time, you have potential. You can work through this and do something good for yourself. You have a job offer. Someone believes in you. You will have to give up all the bad stuff. You can do this. I wish you all the luck in the world. :)
Absconder with misdemeanor charges and violations whats the best advice?
if you were smart, you would have gotten away
All you can do is tell this to the Judge and pray that they outcome you are hoping for comes. I am not answering this to bash you or anyone else but you know good and well that you should have thought about all of this before you KEPT messing up. Not everyone changes for the good. Not everyone realizes that they have started the wrong way and wont to do good for the right reasons. You just need to pray that he has not heard this same story, over and over again before you get in front of him. Most Judges have heard every story that you can think of.
I wish you the best of luck. If you don't get the outcome that you want. You just stay focused, and remember that you have come to realize what is right, don't let you mind sour because you get punished for something that you DID DO. If you get a punishment for it, Man up and tell yourself that you have to pay that price. But also know that once you pay that price for it. Its over then. You paid for it. Then go out and get that job and stay out of trouble........
Good luck to you and God Bless
Get a lawyer, but prepared to do some time in the can.
10 points who ever gives the best advice...?
ok i am with my partner..been together close to 3 yrs.. i have the feeling he is cheating on me .. or just hiding something .. i want to the casino on sunday with my mother he told me i could go.. and i did. he called me a few times telling me he missed me and when i was coming home.. well he was drunk when i got home he never drinks... i thought because of health problems with his grandma he drank to relieve the stress.. so i didnt make a big big deal of it. but today i found out he called someone who number i dont recongize..and spoke over 30mins on the phone this person called him at 11pm while i was away.. he didnt tell me anything about this phone call. he had also talked to this other girl from work and spoke to while i was away.. i think he is hiding something or cheating on me. he got mad cause i confronted him.. but he is at work and couldnt talk about it and i was mad so i hung up on him.. in the past few weeks i know he has called this friend who is a girl from work am i.10 points who ever gives the best advice...?
Just sit him down and talk to him and explain your reasons for these suspicions. Try to keep everything as polite as possible. If he cant sit down and simply talk to you about it then he either isnt worth it or he is cheating so either way he doesnt deserve you. I know you said you have been together for 3 years and its hard to let go but if he doesnt treat you right then let him know and if he doesnt straighten up then break it off for a while till he comes crawling back and give him one chance t redeem himself. If he lives up to them then continue life but if not then just try to move on. Hope this helped and good luck.10 points who ever gives the best advice...?
SET HIM STRAIGHT! u shouldnt xcare if he hurts your feeling tell him how it is tell him what your feeling and why you are. mention the phone calls and girls at work and come up with a solution together.
trust your instincts, I learned that the hard way
Just sit him down and talk to him and explain your reasons for these suspicions. Try to keep everything as polite as possible. If he cant sit down and simply talk to you about it then he either isnt worth it or he is cheating so either way he doesnt deserve you. I know you said you have been together for 3 years and its hard to let go but if he doesnt treat you right then let him know and if he doesnt straighten up then break it off for a while till he comes crawling back and give him one chance t redeem himself. If he lives up to them then continue life but if not then just try to move on. Hope this helped and good luck.10 points who ever gives the best advice...?
SET HIM STRAIGHT! u shouldnt xcare if he hurts your feeling tell him how it is tell him what your feeling and why you are. mention the phone calls and girls at work and come up with a solution together.
trust your instincts, I learned that the hard way
I need your advice before i do something that will make me look stupid :( 10pts for best advice!?
What should i think about this? Guys and Girls advice needed!?
I went on a date with this guy on Tuesday. We went to dinner (just the 2 of us), then we met up with my roomie and the guy she's been dating and went bowling... then we went back to my roomie and my townhome and played cranium... when i went upstairs to change into my pj's the guy told my roomie what a great date we had. He stayed until about 3am then went home. The next night(Wed) he came over and we watched a movie.... he left at about 11 and texted me when he got home ';Your awesome...I'm so glad i met you';. Yesterday we had a casual convo through texting and then today he hasn't texted me at all.... What does this mean? Should i text him?
Thanks in advance for your advice!I need your advice before i do something that will make me look stupid :( 10pts for best advice!?
yeah i think he likes youI need your advice before i do something that will make me look stupid :( 10pts for best advice!?
i think you should text him some funny things! just dont text him ';hi. how are you doing?';that is the worst thing to ask now when you know each other!
when a girl text's me something funny, i smile and try to text something funny back! if you understand each others humor, then you are quite a like and you need each other!
send him a simple yet flirty text. Tease him about something that happened on your date or something that you've talked about.wrinkles good makeup
I went on a date with this guy on Tuesday. We went to dinner (just the 2 of us), then we met up with my roomie and the guy she's been dating and went bowling... then we went back to my roomie and my townhome and played cranium... when i went upstairs to change into my pj's the guy told my roomie what a great date we had. He stayed until about 3am then went home. The next night(Wed) he came over and we watched a movie.... he left at about 11 and texted me when he got home ';Your awesome...I'm so glad i met you';. Yesterday we had a casual convo through texting and then today he hasn't texted me at all.... What does this mean? Should i text him?
Thanks in advance for your advice!I need your advice before i do something that will make me look stupid :( 10pts for best advice!?
yeah i think he likes youI need your advice before i do something that will make me look stupid :( 10pts for best advice!?
i think you should text him some funny things! just dont text him ';hi. how are you doing?';that is the worst thing to ask now when you know each other!
when a girl text's me something funny, i smile and try to text something funny back! if you understand each others humor, then you are quite a like and you need each other!
send him a simple yet flirty text. Tease him about something that happened on your date or something that you've talked about.
Hair problems! Help! 10 points for best advice?
ive got curly hair, and when i say curly its CURLY! im black and my hair is soft but its really curly...should i say curly once more lool but basically, i want it straight or wavy for this party im going to and i do not want it to go bushy or frizzy so what should i do? Ps i aint got much money for many products so please advice with not much money involved
OR should i wear it curly but if so i need moouse, gel or hold spray that really really works and hold it still like stone loool i need it to stay like that all night!
thank you sooo much!!!Hair problems! Help! 10 points for best advice?
bbz i totally know how you feel as i suffer with wild curly hair.
best thing to do is if u want it curly wash it then run a small amount through ur hair from root to tip the blowdry on a low heat n if u want it straight wash it blow dry it and make sure u use loads of conditioner then run the straightners through it n apply moose or hairspray
hope it works for you take care xxxHair problems! Help! 10 points for best advice?
A little advice from a professional hairstylist do not use a flat iron on your hair you will damage it and end up with a big mess. I would wear it curly , try some extra hold gel with a firm hair spray. dont use too much it wont hold all night. if you need a little touch up you can put a little water on your hands and rub it on the area you need to touch up the water will reactivate the gel or hairspray
Try blow drying it straight if that will hold or going to salon to blow dry it straight for you. It wont probably cost you much unless you really go to a high class salon. If not, maybe you can use a hair accessory to tame your hair down a bit or tie it up? Curly hair is nice though :) you should just work it! :D
do you own a flat iron? you won't be able to get it very straight without ironing it.
for straight: after you wash it, put product in your hair. anything that is for curly to straight hair that controls frizz, and blow dry it. I suggest using Redken Straight 05 Straightening Balm. after it's dried, put a flat iron through it.
for wavy: wash your hair (do not use conditioner). put mousse in it and blow dry it. take thick chunks of hair using a big curling iron to give you a flowy, big curl.
either style, set with a strong finishing hairspray. (redken quickdry 18 or for extra strength headset 25 finish sprays).
good luck.
hey!!! well i dont buy a straigtner i do the old fashioned way. I use the hair dryer to strighten it. i cant explain so i got you a link to read how to do it. x
http://www.tellmehowto.net/howto/straigh鈥?/a>
p.s just realized it dosent say about the hairdryer what you do is put it to your hair and drag it down with a bruch underneath...your hair can be dry...soz if i dont explain well but that link will help u. good luck x
Again i have to go back to my first answer last question, i've been known to staighten toes in adition to other parts lol, i am willing to try helping with your hair, hahaha grrrrrrr also works for acne and helps you rest well at night hahaha
wear it curly and use mousse 1) curly is always hotter 2)it is natural so more likely to last longer
Staighten it. Whether you have a straightener or a curling iron just pull it along your hair section by section slowly.... spray it with a flexible hairspray first. Hope that helps!
go to a afro hairdressers and they can sort your hair so it will be easier to manage long term. otherwise get some of the sprays and waxes for afro hair.
straighten you hair in sections and do it slowly but not too slowly so u dont burn your hair... and make sure you have hair treatment so you wont damage your hair
OR should i wear it curly but if so i need moouse, gel or hold spray that really really works and hold it still like stone loool i need it to stay like that all night!
thank you sooo much!!!Hair problems! Help! 10 points for best advice?
bbz i totally know how you feel as i suffer with wild curly hair.
best thing to do is if u want it curly wash it then run a small amount through ur hair from root to tip the blowdry on a low heat n if u want it straight wash it blow dry it and make sure u use loads of conditioner then run the straightners through it n apply moose or hairspray
hope it works for you take care xxxHair problems! Help! 10 points for best advice?
A little advice from a professional hairstylist do not use a flat iron on your hair you will damage it and end up with a big mess. I would wear it curly , try some extra hold gel with a firm hair spray. dont use too much it wont hold all night. if you need a little touch up you can put a little water on your hands and rub it on the area you need to touch up the water will reactivate the gel or hairspray
Try blow drying it straight if that will hold or going to salon to blow dry it straight for you. It wont probably cost you much unless you really go to a high class salon. If not, maybe you can use a hair accessory to tame your hair down a bit or tie it up? Curly hair is nice though :) you should just work it! :D
do you own a flat iron? you won't be able to get it very straight without ironing it.
for straight: after you wash it, put product in your hair. anything that is for curly to straight hair that controls frizz, and blow dry it. I suggest using Redken Straight 05 Straightening Balm. after it's dried, put a flat iron through it.
for wavy: wash your hair (do not use conditioner). put mousse in it and blow dry it. take thick chunks of hair using a big curling iron to give you a flowy, big curl.
either style, set with a strong finishing hairspray. (redken quickdry 18 or for extra strength headset 25 finish sprays).
good luck.
hey!!! well i dont buy a straigtner i do the old fashioned way. I use the hair dryer to strighten it. i cant explain so i got you a link to read how to do it. x
http://www.tellmehowto.net/howto/straigh鈥?/a>
p.s just realized it dosent say about the hairdryer what you do is put it to your hair and drag it down with a bruch underneath...your hair can be dry...soz if i dont explain well but that link will help u. good luck x
Again i have to go back to my first answer last question, i've been known to staighten toes in adition to other parts lol, i am willing to try helping with your hair, hahaha grrrrrrr also works for acne and helps you rest well at night hahaha
wear it curly and use mousse 1) curly is always hotter 2)it is natural so more likely to last longer
Staighten it. Whether you have a straightener or a curling iron just pull it along your hair section by section slowly.... spray it with a flexible hairspray first. Hope that helps!
go to a afro hairdressers and they can sort your hair so it will be easier to manage long term. otherwise get some of the sprays and waxes for afro hair.
straighten you hair in sections and do it slowly but not too slowly so u dont burn your hair... and make sure you have hair treatment so you wont damage your hair
Does any1 have advice 4 a girl who just lost her best friend an boy friend in the same day?
My friend lied 2 me so i went off @ her, my bf told me he didnt understand y he liked me and said it wuz over. What would you do about both? Is there any cure 4 heart sickness?Does any1 have advice 4 a girl who just lost her best friend an boy friend in the same day?
You are most likely better off without them if they can leave in the drop of a hat. And yes there is a cure, or so they say... but I havent found it yetDoes any1 have advice 4 a girl who just lost her best friend an boy friend in the same day?
Talk to your friend and forget about your EX-boyfriend, not forget forget (you guys can stay friends) but in reality feelings do go away, they fade as time passes. Shakespeare wrote that love's worst enemy is time. Time waits for no one. Snatch seize and enjoy every moment of it. My boyfriend broke up with me today as well, but life moves on. I know that it's easy to say but in my situation, I thought I loved this guy, I mean I do love him. Relationships are strange in the way that they work. Friends... well that is a different story, is her friendship worth it? You will realize that friends is what counts, someone to share things (it sounds like a boyfriend doesn't it??? perhaps excluding all that relationship bullshit... sure it's fun and nice... when it is fun and nice.) Peace.
DONT SOUND LIKE YOU LOST MUCH. FIND YOURSELF A TRUE FRIEND AND A BOYFRIEND WHO WILL APPRECIATE YOU. THE CURE IS REALIZING YOULL DO BETTER.
listen gurl!lifedoesnt stopcoz ur best friend and ur bf left u! so get up n face the world.go 4 sum retail therapy or try 2 dosumthn u like. believe me itworks.
Hook up with your b/f's bestfriend.
sometimes in life your friend ships will last a lifetime some a season and if you and your friend are rreally friends u can always apologize if u and her are mature enough and as far as him sweetie let it go u loose friends u make friends sometimes you are better off without both
new friends. eventually someone will appreciate you , if not
try personals
Sorry to hear about what happened to you. The only insight I have for you is that your boyfriend does not deserve you. He was already planning on breaking up with you. He just used your friend's lying, you going off on her as an excuse. He is a coward. Even if you had not fought with your friend he still would have done it. Try not to stress about it. The only cure is Time.
It seems like it wasn't a mature relationship and wasn't going anywhere if he didn't understand you. Find things that will make you feel better but no drugs or alcohol though ok? You'll find someone better...but don't think about that now, just think about making yourself feel better
The best revenge is a life well lived. Buy yourself a new outfit, change your hair and PARTY. They will see you out, not giving them another thought and realize what a mistake they made. Or if not at least you look great and are having fun.
Time will heal your heart, she wasn't all that good a friend was she? and for him, honey, you will only be young and beautiful once, don't waste a single second on a man who doesn't treat you like the queen you are! Trust me, there are men lining up to treat you like a princess, go find one of them. (or many of them)
You are most likely better off without them if they can leave in the drop of a hat. And yes there is a cure, or so they say... but I havent found it yetDoes any1 have advice 4 a girl who just lost her best friend an boy friend in the same day?
Talk to your friend and forget about your EX-boyfriend, not forget forget (you guys can stay friends) but in reality feelings do go away, they fade as time passes. Shakespeare wrote that love's worst enemy is time. Time waits for no one. Snatch seize and enjoy every moment of it. My boyfriend broke up with me today as well, but life moves on. I know that it's easy to say but in my situation, I thought I loved this guy, I mean I do love him. Relationships are strange in the way that they work. Friends... well that is a different story, is her friendship worth it? You will realize that friends is what counts, someone to share things (it sounds like a boyfriend doesn't it??? perhaps excluding all that relationship bullshit... sure it's fun and nice... when it is fun and nice.) Peace.
DONT SOUND LIKE YOU LOST MUCH. FIND YOURSELF A TRUE FRIEND AND A BOYFRIEND WHO WILL APPRECIATE YOU. THE CURE IS REALIZING YOULL DO BETTER.
listen gurl!lifedoesnt stopcoz ur best friend and ur bf left u! so get up n face the world.go 4 sum retail therapy or try 2 dosumthn u like. believe me itworks.
Hook up with your b/f's bestfriend.
sometimes in life your friend ships will last a lifetime some a season and if you and your friend are rreally friends u can always apologize if u and her are mature enough and as far as him sweetie let it go u loose friends u make friends sometimes you are better off without both
new friends. eventually someone will appreciate you , if not
try personals
Sorry to hear about what happened to you. The only insight I have for you is that your boyfriend does not deserve you. He was already planning on breaking up with you. He just used your friend's lying, you going off on her as an excuse. He is a coward. Even if you had not fought with your friend he still would have done it. Try not to stress about it. The only cure is Time.
It seems like it wasn't a mature relationship and wasn't going anywhere if he didn't understand you. Find things that will make you feel better but no drugs or alcohol though ok? You'll find someone better...but don't think about that now, just think about making yourself feel better
The best revenge is a life well lived. Buy yourself a new outfit, change your hair and PARTY. They will see you out, not giving them another thought and realize what a mistake they made. Or if not at least you look great and are having fun.
Time will heal your heart, she wasn't all that good a friend was she? and for him, honey, you will only be young and beautiful once, don't waste a single second on a man who doesn't treat you like the queen you are! Trust me, there are men lining up to treat you like a princess, go find one of them. (or many of them)
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Ok so i've been dating this guy for almost a year. We found a place to move in together, Feb is the day we move in. We haven't made anything official we just saw the place today and know we want it.
The thing is, I've never been in a long term relationship, most of mine don't last past 3 months. I'm shitting myself just thinking about moving in with him. I have deep insecurity issues.
I'm also very attracted to his friends.. The thoughts i have about them are uncontrollable. I've tried controlling my thoughts and desires, but they always come back more intensely. I think his friend would date me too, but it would be awkward because they've been great friend's for years, so i don't think i could put either of them through that. Although someone in our group of friends already did that.
I know this guy can read my thoughts, he always hints at these fantasies i've had. It's really rather embarassing. He also told me last night that he's going to start looking for a gf, and that broke my heart, even though i'm with his friend. It's selfish to feel that way I know. I just really want to be with him, and i can't and it breaks my heart.
Should i move in with my man, and stay with him, even though i have these thoughts about the other person ?
I'm so hesitant on leaving him because i won't get the other half of the rent from his friend, i don't want to hurt him, i do love him, i don't want to pay for pot, and i don't want to take the bus. I don't want to not potentially see any of his friends anymore. These are obvious reasons to not stay with someone right? why do you stay with your lover?Please read and help, 10 pts best advice?
If you are really attracted to other people, and you are hesitant to leave this man because you ';won't get the other half of the rent';, then moving in with him is the worst possible thing you can do. You say that you care about him and don't want to hurt him-- it sounds clear to me that if you try to live together right now, you will end up hurting him, and hurting him far worse. As of nor, from what you have written, you are not fully committed to this relationship. That almost guarantees that living together will end in disaster; the more so because it's his friends that you're attracted to, which means that if anything happens, he'll not just lose you but his friendship with the guy you're attracted to as well. If you move in with him and keep seeing his friends, it's a disaster just waiting to happen-- you'll be hurt, he'll be hurt, the friend will probably end up hurt...
You're clearly not at a point in this relationship where you are ready to commit 100% to this man, but that's what choosing to live together should mean. Please, don't do it.Please read and help, 10 pts best advice?
I could give you the real big story of how you are not ready or I could tell you some story's of why people get divorce.. But it all come down to this.
You are not ready yet.. So just wait and be true to yourself. Just to let you know, I am proud of you that you are at least asking us and yourself the right question... Just wait for the right time.. And that is not now.
Be honest with him and don't commit to any obligations that could destroy your, or his, financial credibility.
get a job get a car pay for your own weed pay your own rent quit free loading and using him
What do you mean ';why do you stay with you lover';? You do realize you posted this in marriage %26amp; divorce, right? Because he's my HUSBAND, we're not teenagers, we aren't looking to diddle each other's friends, and we don't stay together just so we only have to pay 1/2 rent. UGH! Grow up!!
Best thing to do is be honest with your boyfriend and yourself.
I would not move in with him because you clearly have feelings for his friends. You are not 100% ready to commit. You would be wise to do what is best for you.
I stay with my lover because I love him and enjoy spending time with him.
You are not in a mental state to move in with anyone now. You are so confused and the red flags you have raised are enough for me to say stay put until you know what you really want. If you really love someone, you dont' go after thier friends. If you love the other person, you need to sit them down and discuss it. But to move in, then say oops, I like your friend, is asking for lots of legal issues. Sit the friend down and ask him how he feels about you. Talk it out. If its worth throwing everything away, ok, but know you can't go back. If you realize, your boyfriend is the one you love, stay. Don't use him for a source of pot, a house, food, ect. That isn't love, its using him. As for the rent issue? yes, its money, but your issues are larger than money now. Until you can think with a clear head about what YOU want and need, stay put. If either of your friends loves you, they will give you space to figure things out, and come back. If they don't? Not your friends. As for the drugs. stop them now. Legally, you are asking to be kicked out of your home if you keep using and storing them at your premise. Its grounds for evicion and no money refund. What is your life worth to you, ask yourself this? Girl you need lots of counselling. Not a cheap apartment.
The thing is, I've never been in a long term relationship, most of mine don't last past 3 months. I'm shitting myself just thinking about moving in with him. I have deep insecurity issues.
I'm also very attracted to his friends.. The thoughts i have about them are uncontrollable. I've tried controlling my thoughts and desires, but they always come back more intensely. I think his friend would date me too, but it would be awkward because they've been great friend's for years, so i don't think i could put either of them through that. Although someone in our group of friends already did that.
I know this guy can read my thoughts, he always hints at these fantasies i've had. It's really rather embarassing. He also told me last night that he's going to start looking for a gf, and that broke my heart, even though i'm with his friend. It's selfish to feel that way I know. I just really want to be with him, and i can't and it breaks my heart.
Should i move in with my man, and stay with him, even though i have these thoughts about the other person ?
I'm so hesitant on leaving him because i won't get the other half of the rent from his friend, i don't want to hurt him, i do love him, i don't want to pay for pot, and i don't want to take the bus. I don't want to not potentially see any of his friends anymore. These are obvious reasons to not stay with someone right? why do you stay with your lover?Please read and help, 10 pts best advice?
If you are really attracted to other people, and you are hesitant to leave this man because you ';won't get the other half of the rent';, then moving in with him is the worst possible thing you can do. You say that you care about him and don't want to hurt him-- it sounds clear to me that if you try to live together right now, you will end up hurting him, and hurting him far worse. As of nor, from what you have written, you are not fully committed to this relationship. That almost guarantees that living together will end in disaster; the more so because it's his friends that you're attracted to, which means that if anything happens, he'll not just lose you but his friendship with the guy you're attracted to as well. If you move in with him and keep seeing his friends, it's a disaster just waiting to happen-- you'll be hurt, he'll be hurt, the friend will probably end up hurt...
You're clearly not at a point in this relationship where you are ready to commit 100% to this man, but that's what choosing to live together should mean. Please, don't do it.Please read and help, 10 pts best advice?
I could give you the real big story of how you are not ready or I could tell you some story's of why people get divorce.. But it all come down to this.
You are not ready yet.. So just wait and be true to yourself. Just to let you know, I am proud of you that you are at least asking us and yourself the right question... Just wait for the right time.. And that is not now.
Be honest with him and don't commit to any obligations that could destroy your, or his, financial credibility.
get a job get a car pay for your own weed pay your own rent quit free loading and using him
What do you mean ';why do you stay with you lover';? You do realize you posted this in marriage %26amp; divorce, right? Because he's my HUSBAND, we're not teenagers, we aren't looking to diddle each other's friends, and we don't stay together just so we only have to pay 1/2 rent. UGH! Grow up!!
Best thing to do is be honest with your boyfriend and yourself.
I would not move in with him because you clearly have feelings for his friends. You are not 100% ready to commit. You would be wise to do what is best for you.
I stay with my lover because I love him and enjoy spending time with him.
You are not in a mental state to move in with anyone now. You are so confused and the red flags you have raised are enough for me to say stay put until you know what you really want. If you really love someone, you dont' go after thier friends. If you love the other person, you need to sit them down and discuss it. But to move in, then say oops, I like your friend, is asking for lots of legal issues. Sit the friend down and ask him how he feels about you. Talk it out. If its worth throwing everything away, ok, but know you can't go back. If you realize, your boyfriend is the one you love, stay. Don't use him for a source of pot, a house, food, ect. That isn't love, its using him. As for the rent issue? yes, its money, but your issues are larger than money now. Until you can think with a clear head about what YOU want and need, stay put. If either of your friends loves you, they will give you space to figure things out, and come back. If they don't? Not your friends. As for the drugs. stop them now. Legally, you are asking to be kicked out of your home if you keep using and storing them at your premise. Its grounds for evicion and no money refund. What is your life worth to you, ask yourself this? Girl you need lots of counselling. Not a cheap apartment.
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