Monday, December 21, 2009

What is the best advice you can give me?

Dear,





Assalamu'alaikum Warahmatullahhi Wabarakatuh.





In the Name of Allah, the Most Beneficent and the Most Merciful.





Brother Muslim. I have read about yourself. You had has said The Qur'an is the perfect book. Just Follow it. You won't go wrong.





Wabillahhitaufiq Wahidayah Wassalamu'alaikum Warahmatullahhi WabarakatuhWhat is the best advice you can give me?
-NO drugs


-Respects the elderly


-Belive in islam and allah


-No Beer


-Don't be rude to your family


-pray on time


-always remember AllahWhat is the best advice you can give me?
always learn something from your mistakes


have faith in God


enjoy your life


never despair: la yaknoutou men rahmati ila al kafiroun
Watch a documentary called ';the Secret';! you can watch it online for $4.95 on www.thesecret.tv
(1)Wal-Asr


(2)Verily Man is in loss,


(3)Except such as have Faith, and do righteous deeds, and (join together) in the mutual teaching of Truth, and of Patience and Constancy.
Sabar %26amp; Shukr








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Actually I can't decide what is the ';best'; advice for you since your are the person usually give us advice LOL!


one more advice,


don't forget your promises


=D
Save God protects


احفظ الله يحفظك
Read as much as you can... you can never know too much. Expecting to learn anything from a TV is pure nonsense.
don't do drugs
Say: ';There is only one God and Muhammad is his prophet'; then be straight.
spread peace.
go with the flow
dont post chats/spam/rants
worship Allah as if you see him....if you doesn't see him,he is watching you
Be humble and teachable. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.





';Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:


For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.'; (James 1:19-20 KJV)
When you need help ask only Allaah. People will get tired of you but Allaah will love you even more when you ask Him.


And Allaah will get mad at you if you donot ask Him.


fasta'im billaah.
Assalaamu Alaikum Brother,





Brother I don’t know what advice I should give you only one thing I can say





Do always good with every one but never expect for good in return as some times its really hurts because of the others behavior only Allah (SWT) is always giving good returns of our good deeds.





Always keep faith on Allah (SWT) and you will see your life will full with joys and happiness don’t ever lose faith and always think positive Inshalla you will get positive.





I also want to share some sayings of Caliph Ali (A.S) with you.





1) The mind of a wise man is the safest custody of secrets; cheerfulness is the key to friendship; patience and forbearance will conceal many defects.





2) Live amongst people in such a manner that if you die they weep over you and if you are alive they crave for your company.





3) When you get ill do not get nervous about it and try as much as possible to be hopeful.





4) The best kind of wealth is to give up inordinate desires.





5) A wise man first thinks and then speaks and a fool speaks first and then thinks.





6) A fool's mind is at the mercy of his tongue and a wise man's tongue is under the control of his mind.





7) If I cut a faithful Muslim into pieces to make him hate me, he will not turn into my enemy and if I give all the wealth of this world to a hypocrite to make him my friend he will not befriend me. It is so because the Holy Prophet has said: '; O Ali! No faithful Muslim will ever be your enemy and no hypocrite will ever be your friend. ';





8) The sin which makes you sad and repentant is more liked by Allah than the good deed which turns you arrogant.





9) Value of a man depends upon his courage; his veracity depends upon his self-respect and his chastity depends upon his sense of honor.





10) Hearts of people are like wild beasts. They attach themselves to those who love and train them.





11) Generosity is to help a deserving person without his request, and if you help him after his request, then it is either out of self-respect or to avoid rebuke.





12) Tongue is a beast, if it is let loose, it devours.





13) If you are greeted then return the greetings more warmly. If you are favored, then repay the obligation manifold; but he who takes the initiative will always excel in merit.





I think is more then enough and I hope you will like these.





Allah Hafiz.
Be grateful to everything Allah subhana wa ta'ala places in your life, because He knows best.





Love and follow the ways of The Last Messenger (saw)
Pass on message of Islam to non-Muslims in the wisest and most attractive way that they like and feel asking you question about Islam. You know it is our duty and Allah will question us if we don't do our duty. Always write truth and never exagerate the facts about Prophet and His companions. Make sure by your research that what you write is absolutely correct and no guess work. If you are not sure say I have heard from others but don't have solid proof. Building trust in the minds of non-Muslims is very essential in Dawah work.





May Allah guide all of us. Wassalam
Stay close to Allah and keep Allah in the center of everything and you will never have any problems always keep him in your heart and in your life and don't care what anyone says or thinks you can't make everyone happy ur hear to Please Allah :)
Be the best muslim you can be.
Asalam alaykum warahmat Allah wabarakatuh,


i know this may be long but WALLAH no money in the world can ever replace this.





Muslim Code of Behaviour





According to Islamic teachings, apart from having the right belief how important is it for a person to do good deeds?





Doing good and having the right belief go hand in hand in Islam. In fact, doing good in practice is the proof of having the right belief in the heart. This is why the Holy Quran speaks of true Muslims very often as ';those who believe and do good deeds';. Both the Quran and the Holy Prophet have told Muslims that the best among them is that person who shows the best behaviour towards other people.








Please give a list of some of the good qualities a Muslim must try to acquire.





Below we give, in the words of the Holy Quran and the Holy Prophet Muhammad, the chief qualities a Muslim should display:





Truthfulness:





';O you who believe! keep your duty to Allah and speak straight, true words.'; (Holy Quran 33:70)





';O you who believe, keep your duty to Allah, and be with the truthful people.'; (9:119)





';Be maintainers of justice and bearers of true witness for Allah, even if it (the truth) goes against your own selves or parents or relatives or someone who is rich or poor.'; (4:135)








Sincerity:


';Serve Allah, being sincere to Him in obedience.'; (39:2)





';It is most hateful in the sight of Allah that you say things which you do not do.'; (61:3)





';Woe to those who pray but are unmindful of their prayers, who do good to be seen.'; (107:4-6)








Unselfishness:





';You cannot attain to righteousness unless you spend (in charity) out of those things which you love.'; (3:91)





';They (the true believers) give food, out of love for Allah, to the poor, the orphan and the slave, saying: We feed you only for Allah's pleasure - we desire from you neither reward nor thanks.'; (76:8-9)





';Do no favour seeking gain.'; (74:6)








Humility:





';The servants of the Beneficent (Allah) are those who walk on the earth in humility.'; (25:63)





';Do not turn your face away from people in contempt, nor go about in the land exultingly.'; (31:18)





';Do not ascribe purity to yourselves. Allah knows best who is righteous.'; (53:32)








Patience:





';Allah loves those who are patient.'; (3:145)





';Give good news to the patient, who, when a misfortune befalls them, say: We are Allah's and to Him do we return.'; (2:155-156)








Forgiveness:





';Pardon (people) and overlook (their faults). Don't you love that Allah should forgive you.'; (24:22)





';(The dutiful are) . . . those who restrain their anger and pardon people. Allah loves those who do good to others.'; (3:134)


';Whenever they (true believers) are angry they forgive.'; (42:37)





';The recompense of evil is punishment like it. But whoever forgives (an evil committed against himself) and amends (matters), his reward is with Allah. . . . Whoever is patient and forgives, that is a matter of great resolution.'; (42:40, 43)





When the Holy Prophet Muhammad defeated his enemies in Makka and returned to that city as its conqueror, he forgave them in the following words:





';No reproof be against you this day; Allah may forgive you, and He is the most Merciful of those who show mercy.'; (12:92)








Purity and cleanliness:





';He indeed is successful who purifies himself (in mind and body), and remembers the name of his Lord, then prays.'; (87:14-15)





';Purify your garments and shun uncleanness.'; (74:4-5)








Honesty:





';Don't go near the property of an orphan, except in a goodly way, till he attains maturity. And fulfil the promise (you make) . . .. Give full measure when you measure out, and weigh with a true balance.'; (17:34-35)





';Do not swallow up your property among yourselves by false means, nor offer it as a bribe to the officials so that you may swallow up other people's property unlawfully while you know.'; (2:188)








Goodness and kindness to others:





';Allah commands you to uphold justice and to do good to others and to give to the relatives.'; (16:90)





Three degrees of doing good are mentioned here: ';justice,'; which means returning any good that someone has done you with equal good; ';do good to others,'; which means taking the initiative in doing good to others; and ';give to the relatives,'; which means doing good to people instinctively and naturally just as one does good to one's close relatives.





';Do good to others, surely Allah loves those who do good to others.'; (2:195)








Consideration and respect for others:





';O you who believe! do not enter houses other than your own until you have asked permission and greeted the inmates . . . and if it is said to you, 'Go back', then go back.'; (24:27-28)





';O you who believe! avoid most of suspicion (against others), for surely suspicion in some cases is sin; and do not spy (into other people's affairs), nor let some of you backbite others.'; (49:12)





';When you are greeted with a greeting, greet with one better than it, or return it (in the same terms at least).'; (4:86)








Courage:





Speaking of a small number of Muslims facing a big and powerful enemy, the Quran relates:





';Those to whom men said: people have gathered against you, so fear them; but this increased their faith, and they said: Allah is sufficient for us and He is an excellent Guardian.'; (3:173)








Moderation:





';Eat and drink, but do not be immoderate.'; (7:31)





';Do not chain your hand to your neck (so that you are mean in spending), nor stretch it out to the utmost limit (so that you waste everything).'; (17:29)





Regarding the performance of religious duties, the Holy Prophet has given the following advice:





';Religion is easy, but any one who exerts himself too much in religious devotions will get overcome by it; so you should just act rightly, and keep to the mean, and be of good cheer, and ask for Allah's help morning, evening, and a part of the night.'; (Bukhari.)








Cheerfulness:





';Be of good cheer.'; (Holy Prophet in Bukhari.)





';It is an act of charity to meet your fellow with a cheerful face.'; (Holy Prophet in Mishkat.)





Finally, we give a verse of the Holy Quran mentioning a number of qualities a Muslim, man or woman, should try to acquire:





';The truthful men and the truthful women, the patient men and the patient women, the humble men and the humble women, the charitable men and the charitable women, the fasting men and the fasting women, the men who guard their chastity and the women who guard their chastity, the men who remember Allah much and the women who remember Allah much - for all these Allah has prepared forgiveness and a great reward.'; (33:35)








How does Islam require a Muslim to treat the people around him?





The Holy Quran and the Hadith mention various categories of people that one has to deal with, and give a great deal of guidance on how to behave towards them.








Parents and the elderly:





';Your Lord has commanded that you worship none but Him, and do good to parents. If one or both of them reach old age with you, do not say 'Fie' to them, nor chide them, but speak to them a generous word . . . and say, My Lord, have mercy on them as they brought me up when I was little.'; (17:23-24).





';The Holy Prophet said, It is one of the greatest sins that a man should curse his parents. Someone said, How can a man curse his own parents? He said, If a man abuses the father of another, that person will abuse his parents (in return).'; (Report in Bukhari.)








Other Near Relatives:





';Do good to the near relatives.'; (4:36)





';Give to the near relative his due, and also to the needy and to the traveller (in need of help). (17:26).








Children:


';Do not kill your children for fear of poverty - We (Allah) provide for them and for you.'; (17:31)





';A man came to the Holy Prophet and said, `You kiss children but we do not kiss them'. The Holy Prophet said, `Do I have any control over you if Allah has taken away mercy from your heart'.'; (Report in Bukhari.)








Orphans and destitute children:





';Maintain the orphans out of their property and clothe them and give them a good education. Test them when they reach the age of majority, and if you find them to be mature, hand over their property to them.'; (4:5-6)





';I and the man who brings up an orphan will be in paradise like this,'; said the Holy Prophet, putting together his forefinger and middle finger. (Report in Bukhari.)








Poor and needy:





';Righteous is he who . . . gives away wealth out of love for Him to the near of kin and the orphans and the needy and the wayfarer and to those who ask and to set slaves free.'; (2:177)





';What will make you understand what the uphill road (to success) is? (It is) to free a slave, or feed at a time of hunger an orphan who is a relative or the poor man lying in the dust.'; (90:11-16)





';Have you seen him who goes against religion? That is the one who is rough to the orphan and does not urge the feeding of the needy.'; (107:1-3)





';(The true believers are those) in whose wealth there is a known right for the beggar and the destitute.'; (70:24-25)





';The person who manages things for the widow and the poor is like the one who strives hard in the way of Allah.'; (Holy Prophet in Bukhari.)








Neighbours:





';Be good to . . . the neighbour belonging to your people and the alien neighbour.'; (4:36)





';He is not a believer who fills his stomach while h
Prophet Muhammad's farewell sermon is the best advice for all muslims :





After praising, and thanking Allah he said:





';O People, lend me an attentive ear, for I know not whether after this year, I shall ever be amongst you again. Therefore listen to what I am saying to you very carefully and TAKE THESE WORDS TO THOSE WHO COULD NOT BE PRESENT HERE TODAY.





O People, just as you regard this month, this day, this city as Sacred, so regard the life and property of every Muslim as a sacred trust. Return the goods entrusted to you to their rightful owners. Hurt no one so that no one may hurt you. Remember that you will indeed meet your Lord, and that He will indeed reckon your deeds. ALLAH has forbidden you to take usury (interest), therefore all interest obligation shall henceforth be waived. Your capital, however, is yours to keep. You will neither inflict nor suffer any inequity. Allah has Judged that there shall be no interest and that all the interest due to Abbas ibn 'Abd'al Muttalib (Prophet's uncle) shall henceforth be waived...





Beware of Satan, for the safety of your religion. He has lost all hope that he will ever be able to lead you astray in big things, so beware of following him in small things.





O People, it is true that you have certain rights with regard to your women, but they also have rights over you. Remember that you have taken them as your wives only under Allah's trust and with His permission. If they abide by your right then to them belongs the right to be fed and clothed in kindness. Do treat your women well and be kind to them for they are your partners and committed helpers. And it is your right that they do not make friends with any one of whom you do not approve, as well as never to be unchaste.





O People, listen to me in earnest, worship Allah, say your five daily prayers (Salah), fast during the month of Ramadan, and give your wealth in Zakat. Perform Hajj if you can afford to.





All mankind is from Adam and Eve, an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab has any superiority over an Arab; also a white has no superiority over black nor a black has any superiority over white except by piety and good action. Learn that every Muslim is a brother to every Muslim and that the Muslims constitute one brotherhood. Nothing shall be legitimate to a Muslim which belongs to a fellow Muslim unless it was given freely and willingly. Do not, therefore, do injustice to yourselves.





Remember, one day you will appear before Allah and answer your deeds. So beware, do not stray from the path of righteousness after I am gone.





O People, no prophet or apostle will come after me and no new faith will be born. Reason well, therefore, O People, and understand words which I convey to you. I leave behind me two things, the QURAN and my example, the SUNNAH and if you follow these you will never go astray.





All those who listen to me shall pass on my words to others and those to others again; and may the last ones understand my words better than those who listen to me directly. Be my witness, O Allah, that I have conveyed your message to your people';.
peace OOUT. yeah yeah.








[life is to short to not go C R A Z Y !]
remeber GOd in orther that God remember u too.


and dont forget he is in ur heart. so know waht u thaink and what u feel. ;-)
listen everybody but do whatever u feel to do but it would be good
Bismillah ir Rahman er Rahmin -





Do everything you do with good intentions and pray Allah rewards you for the deed according to your intention. Believe, trust and obey the commands of Allah and insha'Allah, you will live in harmony and peace with those around you. Always help your brothers or sisters to do right - pray for them if they do wrong and help them to see the right way. Treat everything with respect because you do not know what is from Allah.
You must be born again......
Use a condom.
Dont follow islam
Stay in school, don't do drugs, and use a condom every time.





And don't drink and drive, or smoke in bed.

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