Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Parents' opinion. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

I have not seen my parents in the past 6 years of studying in the US. I just recently graduates. I get a work permit to work in the US for 1 year. I really want to work here and save some money because my parent and grand parents spent all their saving to send through colleges (BA and MA). However, I have not found a decent job in the past 5 weeks. My parents told me to go back and work at my home country. They said, they miss me and do not want me to stay in the US alone.





My parents have 4 kids. I am the oldest. I am scared to let my parents down if I am not an achiever since they spent all their money toward my education in America. If I go back home I will only make 1/5 of the salary I will make in the US. I am wondering why do my parents want me to go home. Do they really miss me and don't worry about the money they spent for my education?Parents' opinion. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Hey Hope


I think you will find your job in the United States. It is just a matter of time. You just have to keep looking and posting resumes.


For now though If I were you I would go home and stay with your parents for a while. They love you and they miss you. Money is not the issue. You cannot put a price on your parents, grand parents or yourself. Go and see them.


Money will always be around but they will not. Therefore I think you should go and see them.


Do not worry about a job. It is difficult at first but you will succeed.


All the bestParents' opinion. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Yes,


I imagine your parents really miss you and want you back in the family fold, so they know you are safe and happy.


I should imagine the money is irrelevant as it is you that is important not what you can achieve.


If I hadn't seen one of my children for 6 years I would be desperate to see them and have them back.


Go home and be happy.


Good Luck in all you do and all you achieve.
Five weeks is not a long time to be looking for a job. You must be aware of the shape the economy is in. There are many professional with more degrees than you looking for jobs right now. If you can, try to stick it out.





OK-here is the tough love-You probably also need to go to a professional and have a resume made. There are free services online as well.


Go online and research interview mistakes-what never to do, etc. Being educated doesn't mean you interview well.





And finally, your parents may not understand the pay difference and the opportunities available here.





Good luck!
Don't feel alone! A lot of people that go to college either don't get the jobs they want, or aren't making the money they need. It's beginning to get to the point that college is really a waste unless you do a ton of homework on the field of study, job ops, and pay post college. Of course some fields always have available jobs, and good pay. Most don't though. I'd give it a little more time, if still no luck then I'd go home to the family. You won't be the first one that was in your situation, and you deffinately won't be the last.
They really miss you. Of course they do you are one of their babies. I would try to find a job over here and save, save ,save. Maybe you should find a half way decent job until you can get the job you really want that way you still can save and work. And if you dont get a job in the next month or two, go home be with your family and do the best that you can. Sounds to me like you will be well qualified to work at your home country and make a little more than others because of the qualifications you have recieved. Good luck and I hope you make a choice that will make you happy.


P.S 6 years is a really long time to be a way from your parents, man I bet they really do miss you alot.

I need some good advice on what me and my boyfriend should do..........10 pts best advice..........!?!?!?

Can someone please give me advice on what to do with my bf? 10pts for the best answer?


okay, well im 15 and me and my bf have been dating for 3-4 months now. this is my first relationship but i am his 11th girlfriend. well, he has fingered girls before and has even had sex once. this bugged me at first, but then i found out that one of my close friends had been fingered before, so it doesnt bug me now. okay, so sometimes we makeout after school in one of the empty study rooms, and when we do, he will take his hand and rub my vagina on the outside of my uniform. i like it, but he asked me if i wanted to go any farther with him, and i told him yes, because i do. we both agree that we dont want to have sex for a long time, until we are both ready. well, i brought up sex and fingering in one of our conversations, and asked him if he like girls shaved or trimmed down there, he said shaved, so that night i shaved even though i didnt plan on him being down there for at least another month or two (fingering not sex). so, what i am asking is, do you think that i am moving too fast, or any suggestions on things we could do besides sex...please, no bullshyt answers, if you are not mature enough to answer this without being b*tches, then dont answer





thanks to all of you


xoxoxoxo emyI need some good advice on what me and my boyfriend should do..........10 pts best advice..........!?!?!?
Seeing how this is your first relationship, im just going to assume that you're also a virgin. Now with that being said, you guys have already started with going under the clothes, its pretty much only a matter of time before you guys start having sex. Not a big deal. Just keep in mind, most people who lose their virginity's to one person, do not end up marrying that person. So I guess the real question is? Do you want to? There are plenty of other things to do besides having sex, theres oral sex as well, or even just dry humping which is basically sex with clothes on... as corny as it sounds, its true. Make sure that both of you respect each others limits. Its always good to explore each other before you have sex anyways, it will feel less rushed, and you will get to know each other intimately before you move on to sex. Just remember to always use protection. Have fun and be safe!I need some good advice on what me and my boyfriend should do..........10 pts best advice..........!?!?!?
If you feel like this is the guy you want to be with then you should do whatever you want. But be ready for an emotional roller coaster. Guys in general just think about sex not about the feelings of the girl. If you give it up to him you might just be another girl on his list of freaky things he has done, or you will just be another sex story he brags to his friends about. Your first time should be with someone you honestly think the relationship will last.
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  • IMPORTANT QUESTION PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER WITH BEST ADVICE?

    i know ive asked this but no one is helping me





    ok so tomorows the last day of school i need to raise my grade by about 5 percent in a class to get the grade i want how can i get my teacher to raise my grade


    its algebra 1 im a freshman i have a 65 percent i want at least a 70 so i can get a c/c-


    also if i dont i have to retake that class next year





    WE ONLY FOUND OUT OUR GRADES TODAY AND THE ONY WASY WAS LOOKING ONLINE I DIDNT SEE IT UNTILL 30 MIN AGOIMPORTANT QUESTION PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER WITH BEST ADVICE?
    Usually it depends on the teacher cuz one teacher at ma skool brought a dude from a 84 to a 90 just so he could get straight A's but likely in yo case the teacher prolly wont bring it up sorryIMPORTANT QUESTION PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER WITH BEST ADVICE?
    Any Math courses are pretty cut and dry, Sorry
    Ask the teacher before you even go to your first class!!! If there is just one more test that you can re-take, or SOME kind of extra credit work sheet that you can have for her by the end of the day. Tell her you will do nearly ANYTHING, providing that it's not illegal, immoral, or just flat out f-ed up. lol Or him, whatever may be the case... Add a LITTLE laugh on to it btw, it makes you seem more likable and desperate. lol People laugh and make jokes when they're nervous. I had the EXACT same grade in the EXACT same class my freshman year oddly enough lol. I went in and she told me that if I got 100% on three tests that she would pass me, I went in, we went over the material ONE MORE TIME, and I passed all three tests with 100%. So good luck to ya sweetie!
    You're screwed. Why did you wait the last day of school to worry about your grades? Regardless of when you found out, your should have known that you were failing when you got tests back that had low scores.
    You can't,


    unless you can convince the teacher to let you do some nice sexual acts, you're ******. sorry.


    You really ****** up though, that's going to bring down your average for the rest of highschool.
    Study you're butt of tonight in preparation for the exam.


    Drink some coffee too, it will stimulate your brains short term memory into memorizing. Also drink coffee before you go to class.


    Don't like coffee? Then retake your class,.





    Study harder next time. Being in high school, all of your grades will count for future admissions into colleges. So don''t screw around!





    Best of luck to you
    I flunked Algebra 1, so next year they gave me Geometry... I aced that, and the jackasses gave me Algebra 2 the next year.





    I still don't know what 2a x 5y = 42 is.





    Sorry I can't help you, but rest assured that I did grad from College and am living comfortably.





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    unfortunately, it's too late to do anything worth 5%. sorry but you're stuck with it.
    why should you get something you don't deserve? it seems apparent that you weren't too concerned about your grade until the last minute. you're probably in good company, though, since they say ';5 out of 4 people aren't good at math'; [if you think there's a typographical error, you don't get it]
    Give the teacher a ********
    Your fault for not paying attention.


    Congratz, you just failed 7th Grade Math.





    Jesus tapdancing Christ...kids these days.
    The best way to RAISE a grade is to STUDY the material and get good marks on the exams and quizes


    Otherwise you get what you deserve.


    Your only chance is asking your teacher in a sincere and humble way that they are likely to do it. Such as, explaining something about yourself that is embarrassing and then saying how you need a better average, and offer to do EXTRA credit work for it!
    Wow i really dont know what to say about this but maybe talk to your teacher and ask if you can do anything to raise your grade and maybe stay back at lunch and after scholl. That could help and study your algebra a bit more ! ! ! :D good luck
    the best thing to do is to go up to your teacher, very respectudlly, and just ask him/her if ther is any extra credit you can do for the class to bring it up by that %5 which you will have to find a way to give them over the summer (email prob best way) but they may not want to grade it etc and youre going to have to accept that most likely you cant change it but if you talk to your teacher respectuflly, and idk why you have a 65 in the grade, bu you couls say somethign like


    ';its a really hard subject and ive been working really hard but i need to work harder for this and what can i do';


    or


    ';i know i havent been working on this as hard as i shoudl have and it was a huge mistake but i realize now and is there anything i could do..


    ';


    if youre respectful about it some teacehrs can be very reasonlable and if htey say no it mwasnt therres really nothing you can do (sorry) but just ask and if they say there isnt start suggesting things, like, writing an essay on that subject, making a project, etc.
    Talk to your teacher at the very beginning of class. Ask if there is anything you could do to raise your grade.





    Good luck.
    She isn't going to help you unless she is the nicest teacher in the world. Ask her for makeup work that you could do. How are you failing anyway I got a 93 in there. It's easey!!
    you cant you should have payed more atition in class the rest of the year
    No way on the planet. The way to bring it up is to do an equal amount plus some assignments. All depends on your teachers grading system. sorry to say you may have to make itr up or you could just take summer school
    There's no way you can change your grade! If it's posted, it's a ***** for the teachers to go change it, so they never do, unless you're super tight with your teacher, you did a shitload of extra credit and missing hw! You give her a **** load of apples on her desk! But besides that, sorry you should get an korean kid to tutor you bro!
    Maybe, you could um, well, you could bust your butt and right a really detailed and impressive essay on something that he or she would be proud to see that you know...and maybe somehow, they'd be willing to boost that extra 5%. But, dude, I think your screwed.
    Try talking to your teacher. Explain any extenuating circumstances that might have contributed to your bad grade. Also suggest things you are willing to do for extra credit: help grade papers, research report or if you can turn in any late work. and next time don't wait til the last day of school! the more warning you give the more helpful your teacher can be.
    Talk to your teacher, they may allow you to make it up somehow.


    Other than that there is no magic. Next time pay attention to your grades, and do the work. Don't expect a miracle in the final hour.
    JUST SOME IDEAS:


    Ask for and extra credit opportunity.


    Do well on your final exam if you have one.


    Bribe the teacher.


    Come up with a way to trick your teacher into thinking that there is a mistake.


    Bring your teacher some chocolate and tell them that they're great.


    Make yourself cry, and tell the teacher that if your get lower than a C-, your parents will beat you.
    honestly you're out of luck. especially if your teacher is stubborn about it. if i were you i'd simply as what you could do to help improve your grade that much. tell him you'd really appreciate it but that you understand if he won't accept extra credit/won't help you out. that's seriously your best bet. don't beg though. act respectfully. %26amp; as long as you weren't slacking the entire time %26amp; show that you were actually trying %26amp; just struggling, maybe he/she will cut you a little slack. this happened to me as a freshman but i caught it early on. so when it came down to this situation, he allowed me to make something up. good luck!
    There's no way you can raise it now.
    your grade is what it is.
    really? u posted a question with only one answer (which u got numerous times) twice????





    dude UR DONE. unless u have an assignment tomoro, u cant do a dam/n thing
    Um. If yu already saw your grades than you can not bump them up.
    ask the teacher if there's still time to raise it and see if you can take a bunch of notes or do an extra assignment.
    well...the only thing you can do is ask if you can do a quick assignment or just beg her lol

    What happens now? Venting will vote best advice though thanks?

    My fiance lost his job and got his car repo about two weeks ago.We had to make a quick move because rent was too expensive for us, he provided housing and food for the both of us. So now he is depending on my car for transportation which works great with our schedules, he just started work as a surg tech which wont take him long to get a car and I don't mind. The other day we got into an argument because i told him i wasn't getting any type of appreciation nor affection and i just wanted him to know. He got mad and said you know what i dont trust you i think that your going to leave when I go out of town and wont be without a car, then said u know what screw it take me to the airport Saturday, I will give you gas and money. He asks me everyday if im going to Ohio with him and i live in Nevada. Do you think i should come up with a direct answer, or tell him we will see how things work outWhat happens now? Venting will vote best advice though thanks?
    He's just frustrated, and one thing led to another, resulting in an argument. Give him a day or two to cool off, then discuss it rationally.Good Luck! PS....go with him to Ohio!What happens now? Venting will vote best advice though thanks?
    I'm confused.

    Linux in Microsoft Virtual PC 2007, best advice welcome plz?

    I've installed MS Virtual PC 2007 on my pc (specs: 1.5Gb RAM, AMD Athlon 64 socket 754 CPU, BarRacuda 160Gb HDD =MID Rate: 683Mbps)


    I've tried running the Knoppix Live CD in VPC 2007, but it freezes 80% of the way through the boot sequence. I have also tried Kubuntu KDE 8.0.4, which like the Knoppix runs well as a dual boot, however, the Kubuntu installation aborts immediately saying that it can't run due to the fact that it needs 64/86 architecture, but it has only detected i586 architecture. I'm sure my PC meets the requirements, however I have read mixed reviews of Linux derivatives on MS VPC 2007, but I'm sure there must be a way. I'm currently downloading Mandriva Linux, and I'm hoping I can get it running. I prefer MS VPC 2007, but I also have VM Player installed. Any suggestions? Thanks.Linux in Microsoft Virtual PC 2007, best advice welcome plz?
    Try VirtualBox, better than M VPC 2007.





    http://www.virtualbox.org/





    http://www.virtualbox.org/wiki/Downloads





    Also, Virtual machines can only run in 32-bit environment.


    From my experience trying to install 64-bit edition of windows ultimate, failed in a virtual environment.


    Linux in Microsoft Virtual PC 2007, best advice welcome plz?
    You'll get better result if you install Linux on it's own partition, after all you'll need only 2 GB for the swap partition, another 2 GB for the root partition and (this is entirely up to you) another maybe 5 GB for your home partition.





    Mandriva Linux is very stable and would run fine on your rig but I recommend you to use the Gnome desktop instead of KDE (it's less buggy)





    Good luck.

    Friday, January 8, 2010

    Its rather peculiar that the best advice Ichigo could have gotten in Hueco Mundo comes from a number 3?

    Nel is a former number three just like Dordonii and in a manner of speaking both save his life and better his chances of getting Orihime back. Dordonii tells ichigo to emboy hatred and evil to detsroy evil and hatred and ironically this advice is still in Dordonii's mind nd he never gets to tell him anything at all. Its peculiar in my opinion because that information would have been the most important and vital information in this arc. I really think Ichigo would have listened to him as well. His opponent who obviously respects you enough to want to fight you at full strength must have had some passion for fighting and maybe was so old that he was willing to talk into open ears. What do you Bleach fans think?Its rather peculiar that the best advice Ichigo could have gotten in Hueco Mundo comes from a number 3?
    Tite likes triangles and the number 3 I guess (Like the Ichi, Renji and Ruki love triangle)Its rather peculiar that the best advice Ichigo could have gotten in Hueco Mundo comes from a number 3?
    i think that maybe he may be tired of fighting and wants to just listen ..... or listens then feels that they talked to much and wants to have a work out with maybe a worthy opponent! ;P

    Missing clothes still, looking for best advice?

    Ok i live with two males in my house, my brother and my dad.. recently, and sparsely in the past. have i noticed missing clothes. its usually the same things, nylons, my underwear and bra's..once or twice i cant remember, a skirt i think. now i have had nylons gone missing, then oddly returned in what seemed like a ';worn'; state. what do you think is going on? i cant fathom which or who, or why these things happen...i would lean towards my brother ';trying'; my things onm i guess, he is younger and quite a curious lad lol. but i never really considered this..any thoughts? suggestions? how do i find out for sure? do i say anything? please serious replies only and feel free to email me if confidentiality is a must..Missing clothes still, looking for best advice?
    seeing as you are cute your brother may be trying them on , he may have a fetish.you could check out his room. does he spend lots of time at home by himself,or does he have at least one friend over lots. bros friend could be doing this also.leave a note with your undies that says please leave my undies alone.if you want to find out for sure set up a video camera, when caught you could say you have a video or just tell him he may have your worn out stuff or you could buy him his own.Missing clothes still, looking for best advice?
    It sounds like your brother is probably borrowing them to try on.