Adivce! please help! boy and GIRLS! (best advice 10 points)!!!?

how do i stop talking to him! i really want to i don't know why i just can't! he treats me horribly and we aren't even together! i just want some advice on how i can just STOP talking to him!





to sum it up i dated this guy for a year, broke up a week after our one year, he called me names (horrible names) takes my money for a year and calls me selfish for not helping him, i still have helped him with money after we broke up thinking i could get him back, never said thank you, took my camera and said if i don't give him 350 i will lose my camera and jewelry, he yells screams and mentally puts me down! doesn't treat me fair!





i know if he does all of this why am i talking to him! i DON'T know i am scared he will fall if i don't help him!!





please should i just FORGET him in all or help me with out talking?!?! please give me advice!!!!





(no mean answers with cursing or anything, say the truth not a mean answer please) thanksAdivce! please help! boy and GIRLS! (best advice 10 points)!!!?
This is a difficult situation because your humanity is out waying your own self worth. A man is suppose to be the provider, im not saying that people in a relationship aren't suppose to show there love buy helping there partner or friend out in a hard situation. Everyone has situations in there life wen they run in to tough times but for a man, if a women can really see him trying to solely depend on her financially and not even trying to gain a certain adult independence he is in fact trying to avoid responsibility at your expense. And truthfully you are puttingg your emotionall well being directly in the cross fire to be hurt. Women are sacred and a lot of men dont understand how much a women body and mind are something to be chairist. To be honest a part of him knows what he's doing as far as taking money from you or even asking, trust a part of him feels that guilt because he wrong but his pride wont let him stand up as a man and stop. I know you've heard of the saying';taking kindness for weakness';this is a prime example for ex's when one is the sole provider or giver. Many women are attacked to men like this because natually they are compasiate and like the feeling of taking care of someone and being depended on. You have to evaluate your own self worth and maybe be straight foward with this person and put the situation on the table. You and only you can change the situation when you're ready. Best of luck, Johnny Cash!Adivce! please help! boy and GIRLS! (best advice 10 points)!!!?
My Advice?: Let him FALL. I was in a similar relationship, I hleped him financially for 17 months and I was always their financially and emotionally therefore he never had to stand on his own two feet. I broke it off, because I just couldn't take it anymore. And if he's treating you bad then it's even worse. Let him fall and let him fall hard, he deserves it he treats you badly and he doesn't deserve you. You need to find someone who will appreciate and love you, that's what you deserve.
just always avoid him and soon he will come to u more nice then make him swear that he will be nice if he keeps treating u like a pig then ignore him for about 5 weeks then do it all over again
you really need to get away from him. Trust me, if he treats you that way, he does not love you. he is using you, and you need to remove yourself from the situation. One day you will find a man who respects you for who you are and treats you nicely. Why settle for a jerk when you can have a great man. Move on and don't let him trick you into coming to his house or anything like that. Don't answer his calls and don't go meet him anywhere. And if you have to get a restraining order.
It's one thing to help someone who is in need, but someone who is disrespectful, mean, and manipulative... Just break away. Of course, this is harder said than done, but worrying about this guy will just cause you pain. You gave him a chance, tried to help him out, and he steals your stuff and wants more. Now someone like this, you just need to let fall. Maybe through humility, he will learn to be thankful and nice to caring people like you.


Now how to get away from him. It seems you ';need'; him to talk to. This is like a bad habit and must be broken. The best way to break a habit: do something that is incompatable with it. AKA, do something that prevents you from talking to him. Hang out with friends, maybe even find a boyfriend. These people will be supportive, and give you the strength to wash this guy out of your life.


Good Luck