Why is he acting like this? Guys advice needed please!! 10pts for best advice!?

I've recently been dating this guy for about 3 weeks now... We are both adults (He's 28 and i'm 23). On our first date we had a great date, but both drank a little too much and started making out... but then the next couple of times that we hung out we didn't kiss at all. Sunday night was really our first ';sober'; kiss, and it wasn't anything lewd, just a sweet goodnight kiss. He's really nice and sweet to me when hes hanging out with me, but then i get these risque texts from him.





For Example:





';Hows your day, you sex pistol';


';You have an amazing body';


';Are we at that point in our relationship where you will send me a naked pic (lol jk)';





Normally i would think that all he wants is sex, but when he comes over he tells me intimate things about his life, like about his mom dying 3 months ago, what it was like in the Navy... how things ended badly with him and the girl he was with for 12 years.





I don't know what his deal is.... He tells me that he really likes me, he will barely make a move to kiss me on our dates, but then i get these random texts.... WTF?? I would really appreciate your help!Why is he acting like this? Guys advice needed please!! 10pts for best advice!?
He doesn`t know what to do


these are signs of men who don`t know what to say, he is very inexperienced whit other girls and doesn`t feel well.





He was too long whit his girlfrend and that made him close his eyes for other girls.





Try to make him feel comfortable and make the first steps.





He is just traumatized of all that happenned.with his mother and gf.





Don`t think he is a pervert or somthing, just guide him and you will do fine at the end.Why is he acting like this? Guys advice needed please!! 10pts for best advice!?
guys been in a 12yr relationship, did you do the math, the guy is child when it comes to relationships. Apparently he is spineless, yes drinking to loosen someone up is perty pathetic in my opinion. But if your looking for a guy you can control, manipulate, and can deal with whimp, then have at it.
Textbook inexperienced... Can only make the moves when under the influence... He probably thinks you'll get closer to him if he shares emotional baggage with you, most guys who are clueless think its the pre-requisite for sex... next time he texts, reply '' r u retarded''
he's probably to scared to kiss you in person maybe you should make the move and tell him to stop saying those things , its ugh -_-
Im not a guy but...


*ahem*


I think that he is jjust sending them because he's horny. lol.


Their might be another explination, but i think thats the one. He is hornyyy.
the guy is scared to make the move


i say help him out a lil bit make feel its okay to touch
hes looking for sex.
Ignore him for a while. If You are going to send any naked pics...its gonna end up on the net. Don't agree for sex, at any cost. It will make him think. Think..about You. That, You aren't that sex pistol, but a sensible girl with real affection. Its my point of view only. You should know better about him. Any decisions, You make, should come from Your head...not heart.
i sugest u to chk dat guy from any other source ask any of ur frend who is gurl 2 become frank wid her u would know from dat is he flirt n only want s ur body etc or he does like u or wat u can do is stop meting wid him n see after sometimes the result there is a saying if u want 2 check any person check his company n frends dat how r they it would help u
You know girl you might misunderstand it. First problem: You said after ';a couple times that you hung out, both of you didn't kiss. That was because the guy want to respect who you are. Kiss is not the main key to have a good relationship. He was just showing you that he didn't ask you out just for a kiss. He just wanna show you that that's how much he loves you. You're lucky girl!





Second problem: You said you recently get those risque texts from him. First of all, my advice is: Have a good conversation to him about those risque text. Ask him if it was him. Conversation is the best solution!





My opinion about the risque texts. Think it over again. Do you think he really is the one who send you those risque text? It might be one of his family member or peers that is making fun of you. Or maybe he got a stalker and trying to split you up. Or did he lost his mobile and someone found it and make fun of you.





Don't just judge him up that he is after your body. Think it! And deep in your heart do you think he will do it to you? Have a talk with him about it. GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!
I think that when he's alone he thinks back on your date and he realizes he wasn't the macho most girls like so he sends you a message complimenting your looks so you wouldn't think he's some kind of a sweet guy,although he is.He just might be confused about what you want from him and kind of wants to let you know you're sexy to him,but he can't tell you in the face?


I think you should just tell him what you like about him so he should stop worrying.