okay, well im 15 and me and my bf have been dating for 3-4 months now. this is my first relationship but i am his 11th girlfriend. well, he has fingered girls before and has even had sex once. this bugged me at first, but then i found out that one of my close friends had been fingered before, so it doesnt bug me now. okay, so sometimes we makeout after school in one of the empty study rooms, and when we do, he will take his hand and rub my vagina on the outside of my uniform. i like it, but he asked me if i wanted to go any farther with him, and i told him yes, because i do. we both agree that we dont want to have sex for a long time, until we are both ready. well, i brought up sex and fingering in one of our conversations, and asked him if he like girls shaved or trimmed down there, he said shaved, so that night i shaved even though i didnt plan on him being down there for at least another month or two (fingering not sex). so, what i am asking is, do you think that i am moving too fast, or any suggestions on things we could do besides sex...please, no bullshyt answers, if you are not mature enough to answer this without being b*tches, then dont answer
thanks to all of you
xoxoxoxo emyI need some good advice on what me and my boyfriend should do..........10 pts best advice..........!?!?!?
Seeing how this is your first relationship, im just going to assume that you're also a virgin. Now with that being said, you guys have already started with going under the clothes, its pretty much only a matter of time before you guys start having sex. Not a big deal. Just keep in mind, most people who lose their virginity's to one person, do not end up marrying that person. So I guess the real question is? Do you want to? There are plenty of other things to do besides having sex, theres oral sex as well, or even just dry humping which is basically sex with clothes on... as corny as it sounds, its true. Make sure that both of you respect each others limits. Its always good to explore each other before you have sex anyways, it will feel less rushed, and you will get to know each other intimately before you move on to sex. Just remember to always use protection. Have fun and be safe!I need some good advice on what me and my boyfriend should do..........10 pts best advice..........!?!?!?
If you feel like this is the guy you want to be with then you should do whatever you want. But be ready for an emotional roller coaster. Guys in general just think about sex not about the feelings of the girl. If you give it up to him you might just be another girl on his list of freaky things he has done, or you will just be another sex story he brags to his friends about. Your first time should be with someone you honestly think the relationship will last.
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