alot of speeding led to me being suspended from driving. was charged with DWLR and convicted and sentenced to 18 months supervised probation/120 days suspended jail time. during that time i was charged with 3 DWLR's, and misd. poss of marijuana--all were dismissed. my probation officer did not like that. she has wanted activation through all this. i paid all my money fines and fees for the sentence and probation. I then was charged with a DWI, misd poss marijauna and 2 traffic infractions. the officer violated me. I ran out of state with the wrong crowd and was charged with poss of nitris oxide (2x) one was cited as disorderly conduct (misd), minor theft (liquor bottle $11), all time served. THe Probation filed absconding papers on me. I ran partly due to my girlfriend being pregnant and fear of going to jail. I have since come back and my bond was 2000. Bonded out at 300 through bondsman. I have received the best career offer ever but it is out of state. I want to get back to the way I was before all this 2 year mess came around me. I dont know what kind of sentence they will give, if probation will they transfer it for my job offer or what?Recommendations?? Absconder with misdemeanor charges and violations whats the best advice?
It sounds like you have put yourself in a lot of bad situations. You have made a lot of bad choices. It is obvious that you have to do the following:
1. Stay away from the pot
2. Stay away from the alcohol
3. Stay away from the drugs
Gather all the information you have regarding the job offer. Show it to the judge and see if there is anything he can do for you. I would dress up in a suit and tie and very nice shoes. Make a great impression. Show him you are a changed person and you have a good opportunity to change your life.
Also, call an attorney. Many offer a free initial consultation. They may be able to guide you in the right direction on this. Good luck. I know you are going to have rough times, but you are on the right track. Remember that if your sentence does not allow you to move at this time, you have potential. You can work through this and do something good for yourself. You have a job offer. Someone believes in you. You will have to give up all the bad stuff. You can do this. I wish you all the luck in the world. :)
Absconder with misdemeanor charges and violations whats the best advice?
if you were smart, you would have gotten away
All you can do is tell this to the Judge and pray that they outcome you are hoping for comes. I am not answering this to bash you or anyone else but you know good and well that you should have thought about all of this before you KEPT messing up. Not everyone changes for the good. Not everyone realizes that they have started the wrong way and wont to do good for the right reasons. You just need to pray that he has not heard this same story, over and over again before you get in front of him. Most Judges have heard every story that you can think of.
I wish you the best of luck. If you don't get the outcome that you want. You just stay focused, and remember that you have come to realize what is right, don't let you mind sour because you get punished for something that you DID DO. If you get a punishment for it, Man up and tell yourself that you have to pay that price. But also know that once you pay that price for it. Its over then. You paid for it. Then go out and get that job and stay out of trouble........
Good luck to you and God Bless
Get a lawyer, but prepared to do some time in the can.
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
10 points who ever gives the best advice...?
ok i am with my partner..been together close to 3 yrs.. i have the feeling he is cheating on me .. or just hiding something .. i want to the casino on sunday with my mother he told me i could go.. and i did. he called me a few times telling me he missed me and when i was coming home.. well he was drunk when i got home he never drinks... i thought because of health problems with his grandma he drank to relieve the stress.. so i didnt make a big big deal of it. but today i found out he called someone who number i dont recongize..and spoke over 30mins on the phone this person called him at 11pm while i was away.. he didnt tell me anything about this phone call. he had also talked to this other girl from work and spoke to while i was away.. i think he is hiding something or cheating on me. he got mad cause i confronted him.. but he is at work and couldnt talk about it and i was mad so i hung up on him.. in the past few weeks i know he has called this friend who is a girl from work am i.10 points who ever gives the best advice...?
Just sit him down and talk to him and explain your reasons for these suspicions. Try to keep everything as polite as possible. If he cant sit down and simply talk to you about it then he either isnt worth it or he is cheating so either way he doesnt deserve you. I know you said you have been together for 3 years and its hard to let go but if he doesnt treat you right then let him know and if he doesnt straighten up then break it off for a while till he comes crawling back and give him one chance t redeem himself. If he lives up to them then continue life but if not then just try to move on. Hope this helped and good luck.10 points who ever gives the best advice...?
SET HIM STRAIGHT! u shouldnt xcare if he hurts your feeling tell him how it is tell him what your feeling and why you are. mention the phone calls and girls at work and come up with a solution together.
trust your instincts, I learned that the hard way
Just sit him down and talk to him and explain your reasons for these suspicions. Try to keep everything as polite as possible. If he cant sit down and simply talk to you about it then he either isnt worth it or he is cheating so either way he doesnt deserve you. I know you said you have been together for 3 years and its hard to let go but if he doesnt treat you right then let him know and if he doesnt straighten up then break it off for a while till he comes crawling back and give him one chance t redeem himself. If he lives up to them then continue life but if not then just try to move on. Hope this helped and good luck.10 points who ever gives the best advice...?
SET HIM STRAIGHT! u shouldnt xcare if he hurts your feeling tell him how it is tell him what your feeling and why you are. mention the phone calls and girls at work and come up with a solution together.
trust your instincts, I learned that the hard way
I need your advice before i do something that will make me look stupid :( 10pts for best advice!?
What should i think about this? Guys and Girls advice needed!?
I went on a date with this guy on Tuesday. We went to dinner (just the 2 of us), then we met up with my roomie and the guy she's been dating and went bowling... then we went back to my roomie and my townhome and played cranium... when i went upstairs to change into my pj's the guy told my roomie what a great date we had. He stayed until about 3am then went home. The next night(Wed) he came over and we watched a movie.... he left at about 11 and texted me when he got home ';Your awesome...I'm so glad i met you';. Yesterday we had a casual convo through texting and then today he hasn't texted me at all.... What does this mean? Should i text him?
Thanks in advance for your advice!I need your advice before i do something that will make me look stupid :( 10pts for best advice!?
yeah i think he likes youI need your advice before i do something that will make me look stupid :( 10pts for best advice!?
i think you should text him some funny things! just dont text him ';hi. how are you doing?';that is the worst thing to ask now when you know each other!
when a girl text's me something funny, i smile and try to text something funny back! if you understand each others humor, then you are quite a like and you need each other!
send him a simple yet flirty text. Tease him about something that happened on your date or something that you've talked about.wrinkles good makeup
I went on a date with this guy on Tuesday. We went to dinner (just the 2 of us), then we met up with my roomie and the guy she's been dating and went bowling... then we went back to my roomie and my townhome and played cranium... when i went upstairs to change into my pj's the guy told my roomie what a great date we had. He stayed until about 3am then went home. The next night(Wed) he came over and we watched a movie.... he left at about 11 and texted me when he got home ';Your awesome...I'm so glad i met you';. Yesterday we had a casual convo through texting and then today he hasn't texted me at all.... What does this mean? Should i text him?
Thanks in advance for your advice!I need your advice before i do something that will make me look stupid :( 10pts for best advice!?
yeah i think he likes youI need your advice before i do something that will make me look stupid :( 10pts for best advice!?
i think you should text him some funny things! just dont text him ';hi. how are you doing?';that is the worst thing to ask now when you know each other!
when a girl text's me something funny, i smile and try to text something funny back! if you understand each others humor, then you are quite a like and you need each other!
send him a simple yet flirty text. Tease him about something that happened on your date or something that you've talked about.
Hair problems! Help! 10 points for best advice?
ive got curly hair, and when i say curly its CURLY! im black and my hair is soft but its really curly...should i say curly once more lool but basically, i want it straight or wavy for this party im going to and i do not want it to go bushy or frizzy so what should i do? Ps i aint got much money for many products so please advice with not much money involved
OR should i wear it curly but if so i need moouse, gel or hold spray that really really works and hold it still like stone loool i need it to stay like that all night!
thank you sooo much!!!Hair problems! Help! 10 points for best advice?
bbz i totally know how you feel as i suffer with wild curly hair.
best thing to do is if u want it curly wash it then run a small amount through ur hair from root to tip the blowdry on a low heat n if u want it straight wash it blow dry it and make sure u use loads of conditioner then run the straightners through it n apply moose or hairspray
hope it works for you take care xxxHair problems! Help! 10 points for best advice?
A little advice from a professional hairstylist do not use a flat iron on your hair you will damage it and end up with a big mess. I would wear it curly , try some extra hold gel with a firm hair spray. dont use too much it wont hold all night. if you need a little touch up you can put a little water on your hands and rub it on the area you need to touch up the water will reactivate the gel or hairspray
Try blow drying it straight if that will hold or going to salon to blow dry it straight for you. It wont probably cost you much unless you really go to a high class salon. If not, maybe you can use a hair accessory to tame your hair down a bit or tie it up? Curly hair is nice though :) you should just work it! :D
do you own a flat iron? you won't be able to get it very straight without ironing it.
for straight: after you wash it, put product in your hair. anything that is for curly to straight hair that controls frizz, and blow dry it. I suggest using Redken Straight 05 Straightening Balm. after it's dried, put a flat iron through it.
for wavy: wash your hair (do not use conditioner). put mousse in it and blow dry it. take thick chunks of hair using a big curling iron to give you a flowy, big curl.
either style, set with a strong finishing hairspray. (redken quickdry 18 or for extra strength headset 25 finish sprays).
good luck.
hey!!! well i dont buy a straigtner i do the old fashioned way. I use the hair dryer to strighten it. i cant explain so i got you a link to read how to do it. x
http://www.tellmehowto.net/howto/straigh鈥?/a>
p.s just realized it dosent say about the hairdryer what you do is put it to your hair and drag it down with a bruch underneath...your hair can be dry...soz if i dont explain well but that link will help u. good luck x
Again i have to go back to my first answer last question, i've been known to staighten toes in adition to other parts lol, i am willing to try helping with your hair, hahaha grrrrrrr also works for acne and helps you rest well at night hahaha
wear it curly and use mousse 1) curly is always hotter 2)it is natural so more likely to last longer
Staighten it. Whether you have a straightener or a curling iron just pull it along your hair section by section slowly.... spray it with a flexible hairspray first. Hope that helps!
go to a afro hairdressers and they can sort your hair so it will be easier to manage long term. otherwise get some of the sprays and waxes for afro hair.
straighten you hair in sections and do it slowly but not too slowly so u dont burn your hair... and make sure you have hair treatment so you wont damage your hair
OR should i wear it curly but if so i need moouse, gel or hold spray that really really works and hold it still like stone loool i need it to stay like that all night!
thank you sooo much!!!Hair problems! Help! 10 points for best advice?
bbz i totally know how you feel as i suffer with wild curly hair.
best thing to do is if u want it curly wash it then run a small amount through ur hair from root to tip the blowdry on a low heat n if u want it straight wash it blow dry it and make sure u use loads of conditioner then run the straightners through it n apply moose or hairspray
hope it works for you take care xxxHair problems! Help! 10 points for best advice?
A little advice from a professional hairstylist do not use a flat iron on your hair you will damage it and end up with a big mess. I would wear it curly , try some extra hold gel with a firm hair spray. dont use too much it wont hold all night. if you need a little touch up you can put a little water on your hands and rub it on the area you need to touch up the water will reactivate the gel or hairspray
Try blow drying it straight if that will hold or going to salon to blow dry it straight for you. It wont probably cost you much unless you really go to a high class salon. If not, maybe you can use a hair accessory to tame your hair down a bit or tie it up? Curly hair is nice though :) you should just work it! :D
do you own a flat iron? you won't be able to get it very straight without ironing it.
for straight: after you wash it, put product in your hair. anything that is for curly to straight hair that controls frizz, and blow dry it. I suggest using Redken Straight 05 Straightening Balm. after it's dried, put a flat iron through it.
for wavy: wash your hair (do not use conditioner). put mousse in it and blow dry it. take thick chunks of hair using a big curling iron to give you a flowy, big curl.
either style, set with a strong finishing hairspray. (redken quickdry 18 or for extra strength headset 25 finish sprays).
good luck.
hey!!! well i dont buy a straigtner i do the old fashioned way. I use the hair dryer to strighten it. i cant explain so i got you a link to read how to do it. x
http://www.tellmehowto.net/howto/straigh鈥?/a>
p.s just realized it dosent say about the hairdryer what you do is put it to your hair and drag it down with a bruch underneath...your hair can be dry...soz if i dont explain well but that link will help u. good luck x
Again i have to go back to my first answer last question, i've been known to staighten toes in adition to other parts lol, i am willing to try helping with your hair, hahaha grrrrrrr also works for acne and helps you rest well at night hahaha
wear it curly and use mousse 1) curly is always hotter 2)it is natural so more likely to last longer
Staighten it. Whether you have a straightener or a curling iron just pull it along your hair section by section slowly.... spray it with a flexible hairspray first. Hope that helps!
go to a afro hairdressers and they can sort your hair so it will be easier to manage long term. otherwise get some of the sprays and waxes for afro hair.
straighten you hair in sections and do it slowly but not too slowly so u dont burn your hair... and make sure you have hair treatment so you wont damage your hair
Does any1 have advice 4 a girl who just lost her best friend an boy friend in the same day?
My friend lied 2 me so i went off @ her, my bf told me he didnt understand y he liked me and said it wuz over. What would you do about both? Is there any cure 4 heart sickness?Does any1 have advice 4 a girl who just lost her best friend an boy friend in the same day?
You are most likely better off without them if they can leave in the drop of a hat. And yes there is a cure, or so they say... but I havent found it yetDoes any1 have advice 4 a girl who just lost her best friend an boy friend in the same day?
Talk to your friend and forget about your EX-boyfriend, not forget forget (you guys can stay friends) but in reality feelings do go away, they fade as time passes. Shakespeare wrote that love's worst enemy is time. Time waits for no one. Snatch seize and enjoy every moment of it. My boyfriend broke up with me today as well, but life moves on. I know that it's easy to say but in my situation, I thought I loved this guy, I mean I do love him. Relationships are strange in the way that they work. Friends... well that is a different story, is her friendship worth it? You will realize that friends is what counts, someone to share things (it sounds like a boyfriend doesn't it??? perhaps excluding all that relationship bullshit... sure it's fun and nice... when it is fun and nice.) Peace.
DONT SOUND LIKE YOU LOST MUCH. FIND YOURSELF A TRUE FRIEND AND A BOYFRIEND WHO WILL APPRECIATE YOU. THE CURE IS REALIZING YOULL DO BETTER.
listen gurl!lifedoesnt stopcoz ur best friend and ur bf left u! so get up n face the world.go 4 sum retail therapy or try 2 dosumthn u like. believe me itworks.
Hook up with your b/f's bestfriend.
sometimes in life your friend ships will last a lifetime some a season and if you and your friend are rreally friends u can always apologize if u and her are mature enough and as far as him sweetie let it go u loose friends u make friends sometimes you are better off without both
new friends. eventually someone will appreciate you , if not
try personals
Sorry to hear about what happened to you. The only insight I have for you is that your boyfriend does not deserve you. He was already planning on breaking up with you. He just used your friend's lying, you going off on her as an excuse. He is a coward. Even if you had not fought with your friend he still would have done it. Try not to stress about it. The only cure is Time.
It seems like it wasn't a mature relationship and wasn't going anywhere if he didn't understand you. Find things that will make you feel better but no drugs or alcohol though ok? You'll find someone better...but don't think about that now, just think about making yourself feel better
The best revenge is a life well lived. Buy yourself a new outfit, change your hair and PARTY. They will see you out, not giving them another thought and realize what a mistake they made. Or if not at least you look great and are having fun.
Time will heal your heart, she wasn't all that good a friend was she? and for him, honey, you will only be young and beautiful once, don't waste a single second on a man who doesn't treat you like the queen you are! Trust me, there are men lining up to treat you like a princess, go find one of them. (or many of them)
You are most likely better off without them if they can leave in the drop of a hat. And yes there is a cure, or so they say... but I havent found it yetDoes any1 have advice 4 a girl who just lost her best friend an boy friend in the same day?
Talk to your friend and forget about your EX-boyfriend, not forget forget (you guys can stay friends) but in reality feelings do go away, they fade as time passes. Shakespeare wrote that love's worst enemy is time. Time waits for no one. Snatch seize and enjoy every moment of it. My boyfriend broke up with me today as well, but life moves on. I know that it's easy to say but in my situation, I thought I loved this guy, I mean I do love him. Relationships are strange in the way that they work. Friends... well that is a different story, is her friendship worth it? You will realize that friends is what counts, someone to share things (it sounds like a boyfriend doesn't it??? perhaps excluding all that relationship bullshit... sure it's fun and nice... when it is fun and nice.) Peace.
DONT SOUND LIKE YOU LOST MUCH. FIND YOURSELF A TRUE FRIEND AND A BOYFRIEND WHO WILL APPRECIATE YOU. THE CURE IS REALIZING YOULL DO BETTER.
listen gurl!lifedoesnt stopcoz ur best friend and ur bf left u! so get up n face the world.go 4 sum retail therapy or try 2 dosumthn u like. believe me itworks.
Hook up with your b/f's bestfriend.
sometimes in life your friend ships will last a lifetime some a season and if you and your friend are rreally friends u can always apologize if u and her are mature enough and as far as him sweetie let it go u loose friends u make friends sometimes you are better off without both
new friends. eventually someone will appreciate you , if not
try personals
Sorry to hear about what happened to you. The only insight I have for you is that your boyfriend does not deserve you. He was already planning on breaking up with you. He just used your friend's lying, you going off on her as an excuse. He is a coward. Even if you had not fought with your friend he still would have done it. Try not to stress about it. The only cure is Time.
It seems like it wasn't a mature relationship and wasn't going anywhere if he didn't understand you. Find things that will make you feel better but no drugs or alcohol though ok? You'll find someone better...but don't think about that now, just think about making yourself feel better
The best revenge is a life well lived. Buy yourself a new outfit, change your hair and PARTY. They will see you out, not giving them another thought and realize what a mistake they made. Or if not at least you look great and are having fun.
Time will heal your heart, she wasn't all that good a friend was she? and for him, honey, you will only be young and beautiful once, don't waste a single second on a man who doesn't treat you like the queen you are! Trust me, there are men lining up to treat you like a princess, go find one of them. (or many of them)
Please read and help, 10 pts best advice?
Ok so i've been dating this guy for almost a year. We found a place to move in together, Feb is the day we move in. We haven't made anything official we just saw the place today and know we want it.
The thing is, I've never been in a long term relationship, most of mine don't last past 3 months. I'm shitting myself just thinking about moving in with him. I have deep insecurity issues.
I'm also very attracted to his friends.. The thoughts i have about them are uncontrollable. I've tried controlling my thoughts and desires, but they always come back more intensely. I think his friend would date me too, but it would be awkward because they've been great friend's for years, so i don't think i could put either of them through that. Although someone in our group of friends already did that.
I know this guy can read my thoughts, he always hints at these fantasies i've had. It's really rather embarassing. He also told me last night that he's going to start looking for a gf, and that broke my heart, even though i'm with his friend. It's selfish to feel that way I know. I just really want to be with him, and i can't and it breaks my heart.
Should i move in with my man, and stay with him, even though i have these thoughts about the other person ?
I'm so hesitant on leaving him because i won't get the other half of the rent from his friend, i don't want to hurt him, i do love him, i don't want to pay for pot, and i don't want to take the bus. I don't want to not potentially see any of his friends anymore. These are obvious reasons to not stay with someone right? why do you stay with your lover?Please read and help, 10 pts best advice?
If you are really attracted to other people, and you are hesitant to leave this man because you ';won't get the other half of the rent';, then moving in with him is the worst possible thing you can do. You say that you care about him and don't want to hurt him-- it sounds clear to me that if you try to live together right now, you will end up hurting him, and hurting him far worse. As of nor, from what you have written, you are not fully committed to this relationship. That almost guarantees that living together will end in disaster; the more so because it's his friends that you're attracted to, which means that if anything happens, he'll not just lose you but his friendship with the guy you're attracted to as well. If you move in with him and keep seeing his friends, it's a disaster just waiting to happen-- you'll be hurt, he'll be hurt, the friend will probably end up hurt...
You're clearly not at a point in this relationship where you are ready to commit 100% to this man, but that's what choosing to live together should mean. Please, don't do it.Please read and help, 10 pts best advice?
I could give you the real big story of how you are not ready or I could tell you some story's of why people get divorce.. But it all come down to this.
You are not ready yet.. So just wait and be true to yourself. Just to let you know, I am proud of you that you are at least asking us and yourself the right question... Just wait for the right time.. And that is not now.
Be honest with him and don't commit to any obligations that could destroy your, or his, financial credibility.
get a job get a car pay for your own weed pay your own rent quit free loading and using him
What do you mean ';why do you stay with you lover';? You do realize you posted this in marriage %26amp; divorce, right? Because he's my HUSBAND, we're not teenagers, we aren't looking to diddle each other's friends, and we don't stay together just so we only have to pay 1/2 rent. UGH! Grow up!!
Best thing to do is be honest with your boyfriend and yourself.
I would not move in with him because you clearly have feelings for his friends. You are not 100% ready to commit. You would be wise to do what is best for you.
I stay with my lover because I love him and enjoy spending time with him.
You are not in a mental state to move in with anyone now. You are so confused and the red flags you have raised are enough for me to say stay put until you know what you really want. If you really love someone, you dont' go after thier friends. If you love the other person, you need to sit them down and discuss it. But to move in, then say oops, I like your friend, is asking for lots of legal issues. Sit the friend down and ask him how he feels about you. Talk it out. If its worth throwing everything away, ok, but know you can't go back. If you realize, your boyfriend is the one you love, stay. Don't use him for a source of pot, a house, food, ect. That isn't love, its using him. As for the rent issue? yes, its money, but your issues are larger than money now. Until you can think with a clear head about what YOU want and need, stay put. If either of your friends loves you, they will give you space to figure things out, and come back. If they don't? Not your friends. As for the drugs. stop them now. Legally, you are asking to be kicked out of your home if you keep using and storing them at your premise. Its grounds for evicion and no money refund. What is your life worth to you, ask yourself this? Girl you need lots of counselling. Not a cheap apartment.
The thing is, I've never been in a long term relationship, most of mine don't last past 3 months. I'm shitting myself just thinking about moving in with him. I have deep insecurity issues.
I'm also very attracted to his friends.. The thoughts i have about them are uncontrollable. I've tried controlling my thoughts and desires, but they always come back more intensely. I think his friend would date me too, but it would be awkward because they've been great friend's for years, so i don't think i could put either of them through that. Although someone in our group of friends already did that.
I know this guy can read my thoughts, he always hints at these fantasies i've had. It's really rather embarassing. He also told me last night that he's going to start looking for a gf, and that broke my heart, even though i'm with his friend. It's selfish to feel that way I know. I just really want to be with him, and i can't and it breaks my heart.
Should i move in with my man, and stay with him, even though i have these thoughts about the other person ?
I'm so hesitant on leaving him because i won't get the other half of the rent from his friend, i don't want to hurt him, i do love him, i don't want to pay for pot, and i don't want to take the bus. I don't want to not potentially see any of his friends anymore. These are obvious reasons to not stay with someone right? why do you stay with your lover?Please read and help, 10 pts best advice?
If you are really attracted to other people, and you are hesitant to leave this man because you ';won't get the other half of the rent';, then moving in with him is the worst possible thing you can do. You say that you care about him and don't want to hurt him-- it sounds clear to me that if you try to live together right now, you will end up hurting him, and hurting him far worse. As of nor, from what you have written, you are not fully committed to this relationship. That almost guarantees that living together will end in disaster; the more so because it's his friends that you're attracted to, which means that if anything happens, he'll not just lose you but his friendship with the guy you're attracted to as well. If you move in with him and keep seeing his friends, it's a disaster just waiting to happen-- you'll be hurt, he'll be hurt, the friend will probably end up hurt...
You're clearly not at a point in this relationship where you are ready to commit 100% to this man, but that's what choosing to live together should mean. Please, don't do it.Please read and help, 10 pts best advice?
I could give you the real big story of how you are not ready or I could tell you some story's of why people get divorce.. But it all come down to this.
You are not ready yet.. So just wait and be true to yourself. Just to let you know, I am proud of you that you are at least asking us and yourself the right question... Just wait for the right time.. And that is not now.
Be honest with him and don't commit to any obligations that could destroy your, or his, financial credibility.
get a job get a car pay for your own weed pay your own rent quit free loading and using him
What do you mean ';why do you stay with you lover';? You do realize you posted this in marriage %26amp; divorce, right? Because he's my HUSBAND, we're not teenagers, we aren't looking to diddle each other's friends, and we don't stay together just so we only have to pay 1/2 rent. UGH! Grow up!!
Best thing to do is be honest with your boyfriend and yourself.
I would not move in with him because you clearly have feelings for his friends. You are not 100% ready to commit. You would be wise to do what is best for you.
I stay with my lover because I love him and enjoy spending time with him.
You are not in a mental state to move in with anyone now. You are so confused and the red flags you have raised are enough for me to say stay put until you know what you really want. If you really love someone, you dont' go after thier friends. If you love the other person, you need to sit them down and discuss it. But to move in, then say oops, I like your friend, is asking for lots of legal issues. Sit the friend down and ask him how he feels about you. Talk it out. If its worth throwing everything away, ok, but know you can't go back. If you realize, your boyfriend is the one you love, stay. Don't use him for a source of pot, a house, food, ect. That isn't love, its using him. As for the rent issue? yes, its money, but your issues are larger than money now. Until you can think with a clear head about what YOU want and need, stay put. If either of your friends loves you, they will give you space to figure things out, and come back. If they don't? Not your friends. As for the drugs. stop them now. Legally, you are asking to be kicked out of your home if you keep using and storing them at your premise. Its grounds for evicion and no money refund. What is your life worth to you, ask yourself this? Girl you need lots of counselling. Not a cheap apartment.
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Believe in yourself, treat people with respect and dignity.Whats the best piece of advice you could give a child bout life?
In life you will never be what you have always wanted to be, so be aware of, and grab opportunities as they come your way.You may hit the bull's eyeWhats the best piece of advice you could give a child bout life?
I HAVE A 7 YEAR OLD SON, IVE TAUGHT HIM HONESTY ALWAYS PAYS EVEN IF WHAT HE SAYS OR THINKS MAY NOT BE THE ANSWER.IM BRINGING HIM UP WITH MANNERS, TO THINK OF OTHERS AS WELL AS HIMSELF.BEFORE I HAD HIM I NEVER EVER REALISED THAT THERE IS SO MUCH THAT CHILDREN NEED TO KNOW. THE WAY I WORK IT IS IN EVERY DAY SITUATIONS. MY BOY IS KIND,CONSIDERATE AND A BEAUTIFUL PERSON
Always do something in each day that you will look back upon and think, 'yes, I did something rewarding today'.
And don't go to church!
Always walk away from a potential fight. In this day and age of so many knives and guns it is not worth losing your life over a silly squabble.
There is no such word as can't
Be safe and live life to the max...Study hard and you will be rewarded
Illegitimi non carborundum !
the truth as it iz dont go round the houses just say wot think about life
Shoot for the moon...even if you don't make it, at least you will always reach the stars.
My dad always says it to me, even now I'm 20, and I always remember it!
Listen to what your elders tell you, there is nothing more valuable than life experience.
Use a condom!!!
Laugh at life, enjoy everything that you do and smile.
Whatever, you should always support your child in whatever they decide to do.
';Work like you don't need money,
Love like you've never been hurt,
And dance like no one's watching
If you find a way of life that makes you happy, and it doesn't involve hurting anybody, then be sure to ignore anyone who criticizes you for it. The only person in charge of making decisions for you should be... you. And enjoy being young: it's over far too soon.
Be good, happy , and , be your self!
There is no end of positive things you can say to a child. Though when you was one, did you listen? I know I certainly didn鈥檛. We have to fall so we can rise again, and the way we rise is what defines us not the way we fell.
...and don't take it too seriously, son.
Study hard, listen to your conscience, never stop beliving in miracles.
make your own mistakes and laugh at yourself.
just say live you life to the full but dont waste it by doing drugs and crime.
Be good and live fully
Enjoy life, but it isn't a fairytale. You will have to be strong and look out for yourself, cos no-one else will (apart from parents)
either the birds N bees story... or
we are only on Earth a weekend so make the most of it %26amp; be happy!!!
you can be what you want to be
respect be honest and live life to full
enjoy life to the full because life is short for us all
always treat people the way you would like to be tret yourself as what you dish out you will recieve and the people you pass on the way up you will sure to meet on the way down so never forget yourself treat everyone with respect and you will earn respect
find a rich man/woman and live a life!
Enjoy life, you are only young once
Arguments, fights or wars; no one ever wins.
Knowledge and power are dangerous without wisdom and control.
The right thing is rarely the easy option.
Make the most of it and do not waste a single day, stay safe, study and work hard and be happy.
In life you will never be what you have always wanted to be, so be aware of, and grab opportunities as they come your way.You may hit the bull's eyeWhats the best piece of advice you could give a child bout life?
I HAVE A 7 YEAR OLD SON, IVE TAUGHT HIM HONESTY ALWAYS PAYS EVEN IF WHAT HE SAYS OR THINKS MAY NOT BE THE ANSWER.IM BRINGING HIM UP WITH MANNERS, TO THINK OF OTHERS AS WELL AS HIMSELF.BEFORE I HAD HIM I NEVER EVER REALISED THAT THERE IS SO MUCH THAT CHILDREN NEED TO KNOW. THE WAY I WORK IT IS IN EVERY DAY SITUATIONS. MY BOY IS KIND,CONSIDERATE AND A BEAUTIFUL PERSON
Always do something in each day that you will look back upon and think, 'yes, I did something rewarding today'.
And don't go to church!
Always walk away from a potential fight. In this day and age of so many knives and guns it is not worth losing your life over a silly squabble.
There is no such word as can't
Be safe and live life to the max...Study hard and you will be rewarded
Illegitimi non carborundum !
the truth as it iz dont go round the houses just say wot think about life
Shoot for the moon...even if you don't make it, at least you will always reach the stars.
My dad always says it to me, even now I'm 20, and I always remember it!
Listen to what your elders tell you, there is nothing more valuable than life experience.
Use a condom!!!
Laugh at life, enjoy everything that you do and smile.
Whatever, you should always support your child in whatever they decide to do.
';Work like you don't need money,
Love like you've never been hurt,
And dance like no one's watching
If you find a way of life that makes you happy, and it doesn't involve hurting anybody, then be sure to ignore anyone who criticizes you for it. The only person in charge of making decisions for you should be... you. And enjoy being young: it's over far too soon.
Be good, happy , and , be your self!
There is no end of positive things you can say to a child. Though when you was one, did you listen? I know I certainly didn鈥檛. We have to fall so we can rise again, and the way we rise is what defines us not the way we fell.
...and don't take it too seriously, son.
Study hard, listen to your conscience, never stop beliving in miracles.
make your own mistakes and laugh at yourself.
just say live you life to the full but dont waste it by doing drugs and crime.
Be good and live fully
Enjoy life, but it isn't a fairytale. You will have to be strong and look out for yourself, cos no-one else will (apart from parents)
either the birds N bees story... or
we are only on Earth a weekend so make the most of it %26amp; be happy!!!
you can be what you want to be
respect be honest and live life to full
enjoy life to the full because life is short for us all
always treat people the way you would like to be tret yourself as what you dish out you will recieve and the people you pass on the way up you will sure to meet on the way down so never forget yourself treat everyone with respect and you will earn respect
find a rich man/woman and live a life!
Enjoy life, you are only young once
Arguments, fights or wars; no one ever wins.
Knowledge and power are dangerous without wisdom and control.
The right thing is rarely the easy option.
Make the most of it and do not waste a single day, stay safe, study and work hard and be happy.
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