Friday, January 8, 2010

What's the best advice you can give to a young couple moving in together for the first time.?

My boyfriend and I are a young couple, I'm almost out of high school and he has been for a year. We are both attending post-secondary education in the fall and will be moving in together. We have been dating for 3 years, all through high school, and haven't taken a break or had any real issues. We have handled a lot of stresses together and I like to think we're a really strong couple, and mature for our ages. I'm not nervous about moving together, I'm excited, and I think we'll do well. But since we have never been in this kind of situation, I'm just wondering if there are any tricks of the trade to ensure a healthy, maintained relationship for a couple experiencing stress from school, work, family, and other issues. Thanks! =)What's the best advice you can give to a young couple moving in together for the first time.?
kiss each other every morning before you start your day and each night before you fall asleep. be respectful of the other persons needs. both should help with cleaning, cooking, and other chores. remember you dont have to be each others shadow because you live together. spend time alone or with other friends. always talk about any issues you have. dont ignore them. be pleasant and not in a bad mood alot. that is a real bummer. most important trust each other and dont be jealous. i think its the number one relationship killer. good luck. i have been married thirty five years. this works,What's the best advice you can give to a young couple moving in together for the first time.?
Living with a boy can be very... trying. I'm newly in this situation myself. I think success depends a lot on the fact that you guys will NOT do things the same way and you'll get irritated at little things because you both come from completely separate backgrounds. But if you're fully aware that these things are going to happen and you're both open to talking things out and coping in an adult manner, you'll be fine.
Get an eduction first. If you what a good relationship. the tow of you need to be able to talk about ever thing and any thing with out getting mad.Talking and under standing is the key. Remember that things will change as you grow older. That is what life is about.Change.
Share the responsibilities of cooking, cleaning, shopping and split the bills. Also, don't act like you own each other, just because you live together.
-give him his space


-don't call him too often





***basically, don't act like his mom is the best advice i can give u. be sexy, cute, n chill.
it won't last. it never does
i agree with that dude
be willing to give... and take... thats all...
ok first... REALLY think about wat ur doing. REAL HARD!!! if ur 100% sure tat u wanna move in wit each other then go right ahead. just make sure to love each other the same or more when u werent in the same house. dnt fight cuz tats wat makes couples separate(usually). when ur BF is stressed out, talk to him and make him feel comfortable. he should do the same if ur stressed. when u have ideas bout ur future talk to him about it and dnt just do it witout him knowing. Do stuff for each other, have sex once in a while(if u do tat) if u dnt then dnt do it till u think ur ready. dnt push him and dnt let him push u. Say I Love You to him(if u say tat to each other). spend time wit each other. go out and have fun. kiss him randomly (I personally like tat). Kiss him passionately. hug him a lot(i like tat too, makes me feel cared for). when he cries, cry wit him, share each others pain. if u cook cook his favorite dish, he should do something in return as well. and finnaly... care for each other each day as if it were ur last. and do other stuff u can think of ok. I wish u two the best of luck . stay strong and kool. Hope u enjoy ur lives togheter. Bye Bye
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