I need advice what should i do? Best advice gets 10 points?

Ok this isnt a relationship problem but the problems with my homegirl. We talkd back then everyday you know and we both just loved talking to each other but now she just doesnt wana talk no more she says once in awhile. im hurt cause what we had back then is gone she just finds me annoying. i dont know what to do. it feels as if she doesnt even care about me no more and i dont wana lose her as my friend. what should i do. im scared that she'll just disappear from my life. and i know she doesnt like me so thats out if you guys think of it.





p.s. she still wants to be friends but she just doesnt wana talk as much no moreI need advice what should i do? Best advice gets 10 points?
Dude man I am the person to talk to, I have had alot of ';BFF's'; and its cause i always get really close to girls and then we grow apart, we grow apart since were so close all the time...basically all you can do is try not to hard to stay close to them r you'll push them even further away...respect her space but still talk to her often and not to much (basically don't be desperate)..i've found that this helps since whenever yall start hanging out again they realize how much they really miss you and what not...anyways thats what i've come to learn and it works for me even though it sucks having to grow away from them to get close later on again...but in the mean time you can make another new close friend and just expand your friend list...anyways i could talk all day..hope this helped somehow - travisI need advice what should i do? Best advice gets 10 points?
Well what i would say is talk to her and ask her what's going on


depending on her answer, make sure you let her know that you still want to be friends with her, and nothing more so the feeling is mutual


say you miss her as a friend, and you don't want her to disappear from your life


she'll appreciate how much she means to you and most likely will talk to you more
try talking to her about the old times and how things used to be and try to get back into those memories


but if that doesn't help, well then the past is the past


everything happens for a reason


try finding someone new


who knows, she might just crawl back to you someday.
Remember the good old days. The times when you first kissed, the best day ever, etc. Bring her somewhere special, or romantic. Remind her why she fell for you. If you really don't want to be together, talk it out. If she feels the same way, she should understand.
Unfortunately there is a not a lot that you can do.You cannot force people to like or to want to spend time together.


She obviously has found other interests...


time will tell...she may realize what a good friend you were and come running back.
give her her space. crowding her won't help your situation at all! if anything, that will push her farther away and might even lead to her never talking to you again.





just do what she wants you to. that'll work better than you think!
Just be yourself. That is all she wants. Most people wants their friends to be themselves especially when they confide with them about serious stuff. So yeah, be yourself. Most people asks me how i have so many friends and i tell that I'm just being myself.
Hi, ask her why. Tell her how you feel...let her know you are hurt and just want an explanation.


But if she is still cold and distant, then she has no heart. But don't worry, there are plenty of other people out there. Go out and make new friends! Good luck!
if she wants to still be friends and doesn't wanna talk as much what kind of friend is that...she's being mean to why that's not nice...she's not a true friend. you know if it was me i would say ok what ever bye
you're really going to have to just let her go.


i know that is hard, i've lost lots of good girl friends, but sometimes, things just don't work out.


you'll find another friend you can talk to some day, don't worry
Some people's priorities just seem to change over time. Her mind is on something or someone else. Don't take it personally, just support her decision. She obviously feels like it may be best for her.
well it sounds she really wants to be your friend so juststay in her life as a friend its better to be in her life as a friend rather than nothing at all
just keep hanging out


you'll find something good to talk about


eventually
She found new friends.


You should too.
just tell her how u feel
tell her how u feel bout her but dnt harass the hell out of her its jus annoying no offense,,, u can text her and if she says call me den make da move or if ur texting nd she says g2g alot den she doesnt wanna talk 2 u








hoped this hepled
Well it would help if we knew if you were in middle school or high school or other. When your in middle school kids are always trying to figure out were they want to fit in at or with who. This is the time you discover and search for who you are. Once in high school your pretty much still trying to fit in somewhere if you haven't in middle school. If your friend is into sports, then she's going to want to hang out with people into it too. If she wants to be preppy then she wants to find preppy kids to hang out with. She's wanting to move beyond where she is in life and your ok were you are. You just need to except that she's changing and she doesn't feel you want the same thing.She likes you but she's out grown you. You just need to start looking for other friends that have the same interest as you and let her move on.