Need some serious advise..(10 points for the best advice)?

there is a girl in my university i like and started going out with her. the thing is we come from different origins.i currently live in canada (thu it is not my country). i am not going to mention the country she is from but people from her country are knows as lower class.





i dont care about this but my friends and my relatives are bothering me alot and i am getting embaressed.





i really like this girl and i am not going to breakup with her because of them.





please i need some advice and how to deal with my friend and family on this situation.Need some serious advise..(10 points for the best advice)?
WOW, this is the first time I hear that someone categorize a person ';Lower Class'; just for the country they are from, really...just when I think I've heard it all ...something like this pops up. Listen Honey, if you really like her and you like her just like she is don't let the closed minded and ignorant comments from other people affect you in your relationship with this girl. If you show your ';friends'; that you really don't care about what they say ...eventually they will stop making this comments, when they see you happy and having a good time with her I will assure you that they will envy your relationship. Have you ever thought that this ';friends'; might me jealous already and perhaps they just want to sabotage your relationship?, and if they succeed then what?...you'll be alone and who knows perhaps let the love of your life passing by. Don't let people dictate who you date!Need some serious advise..(10 points for the best advice)?
they will get used to her, soon someone else in your family will do something to get everybodys attention and leave you guys alone. Be happy and enjoy being in love
If you really care about this girl you would'nt care what other people say so if what your friends and family say bothers you maybe you and your girlfriend don't have a future together. But i understand where your coming from, as long as you don't treat your girlfriend like she's lower than you i think you should stay with her because your family will have to learn to put up with her for you eventually. So good luck
All countries have diff. classes of people, it's not where you come from but where you go that counts. If your family and friends cant accept her for who she is, then they are the ones losing.





Tell your friends and family that they are the one acting in a lower class b/c they cant look past a race to see the real person. Ask why they cant be happy b/c you are happy?
just get your serious face on and say shutup i really like this girl so back off
your friends and family are being very ignorant. tell your friends and family to lay off. you really like this girl and just because she is from a ';lower class'; country doesnt mean she isnt a great girl. if your friends and family really love you like they should, then they will try to understand where you are coming from on this. have them meet her and really get to know her, because once they look past her heritage, they will get to the real her and they might actually like her. best of luck!
Well, you need to have your friends and family meet her or talk to her... people do stereotype and judge people based on their nationality and yes it is wrong. You need to have them meet her and see her for the person she really is and maybe they'll stop saying crap! :)
When your friends or family say mean things about her, you can reply:


';My dear friend, don't you want me to be happy? This lady is VERY IMPORTANT to me just like YOU are important to me.


You have told me that you do not approve of our relationship, and I heard you, but please do not continue to repeat this over %26amp; over. I want you to share in my happiness, but if you continue to say mean things, I cannot expose my girlfriend to you anymore.


This means that we will be seeing less of each other, because she goes with me most everywhere I go.';
if you are serious about this girl, give them time.


if they dont turn around, its their loss.
If you like this girl, be a man and own it and stop asking other people what you should do. That's the manly thing to do.
just tell your family she is the only one that makes you happy and that if they want you to be happy they should support your relationship
say they have no right to tell you not to go out with her,that's just not fair!
If she doesn't act like trash, then I would say. Screw your friends and family, they are being really prejudice and awful.
basically it's about what you want. I think it's superficial how they are acting about this girl. They should be happy that you want to be happy. I say to continue with this female and not worry about your friends and family. If they love you and care about your happiness they will come around over time. Just because she may come from a lower class country does not mean that she can't change that statis. Tell them to get over it.
Prejudice is a terrible thing that cultures tend to have toward each other. If you really like this girl, just forget about what friends and family think. It is your choice, not theirs and they have no right to control the people you date, especially people they don't like just because of their culture. I would just tell my friends that if they don't like who I go out with, then they can just shove it up their you-know-whats.
If you guys are in love then go for it . But why shouldn't you just say where shes from, She is in college she trying to do better, So whats the problem. Besides you live in can-- and your not from there but it doesnt mean nothing bad.
do people really still think that way? it's too archaic! first of all, there are all three classes of people in each country and continent, you name the rest. are you from the same country?


she might come from a upper class family in her country, that's the highest social class.


for continents, 1st, 2nd %26amp; 3rd worlds it is just a comparison of economical and technologigal advanced, stuff like that.


if your family and friends are not aware of this, then they are ignorant.if they don't know these definitions then they don't even have to talk about it


PLEASE, IS YOUR FAMILY THE ROYAL FAMILY? EVEN THOSE PEOPLE HAVE BEEN KNOWN TO GET MARRIED OUT OF THEIR CLASS!(see princess Diana)


Britney got married to K-fed for Gods sake! that was a huge class difference!


Al will say to you is if you Love this girl, stand on your point. you are the one that is going to live with her not your family. do what will make you happy and your family will respect you.


sorry to hear that and don't be embarassed, that's someone you love.be proud of her. You should think highly of her. let your family and friends know they are embarasing you. plus this is the 21st century! (i will encourage you more as i think about it)
serious but feel far
listen guy life is too short to do what others want you to do.And its your life, if they really care about you they will respect your choices. As if they were real friends they would support you, you will find out in life the people that you thought were your friends aren't really who they say they are some of the times. So therefore if she makes you happy then that is all you will ever need (her love)..congratulations on possibly finding your soulmate.. One last thing, if she is your soulmate and you were to give her up for others how will you feel in 5 yrs, 10 yrs,15 yrs and so on if you never find out if she was the one!!!!!!!
I know its hard to do but you need to tell your family and friends how you are feeling. They have no right to judge her for where she came from. Tell them to try and see her for WHO she is and not her heritage. And dont let this ruin your feelings for her. I know this is simple, obvious advice but they will never stop if the issue is not adressed. It also may help to write your family a letter. that way you can think about what you are going to say before you say it and make it sound better. I hope things get better.
explain to our family and friends that they are being ignorant and that what race you come from does not determine her personality at all.
you making me like her now hahaha, well you just answered


your own questions buddy, don't break up with her


because people thinks she's lower class, she might be


smarter then you, also if you break up with her she's going


think you listen to other people and she's going to think that


you're lower class for downing her, you know
wow, ok just to make it clear i am guessing she comes from mexico. but dude.... there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. does she treat u the way u want to be? do u love her the way that u feel necessary to be in a steady relationship with her? dude ur relatives and friends should **** off. tell them that u love her (or are happy around her if it is not love that u feel although it sounds like it is) and that if they cant except that then they can go away. its ur life and if u truly are happy with her then heritage shouldnt get in the way. Good luck. hope it works out bro =]
With strength and manhood.
Just tell them that she never really had much and you want to give it to her - remember the old phrase that the guy supports his wife? Your parents will relate to that one. Just tell them what you said here. Give them an ultimatum - either you support me or I do it alone, but I would really like you behind me and a part of my life. Tell them to stop being so critical and take a chance to get to know her and see what you do! Dont worry, they will come around...it will take time. If they get to see what a great person she is, it may speed up things! They should respect you and her and your relationship. Remember: do what makes you happy or you will regret it all your life!! Good luck.
aye just tell them how it is..just say you really like this girl...shes not trash and she means alot to you...i mean after all, how trashy could she be if shes in a university?Obviously shes intelligent and means alot to u and they should understand that if they really care about you..