What would be the best advice to give a woman whose ex punched her in her stomach when she was pregnant?

What advice would you give to a woman who when she was three months pregnant her ex-husband / child father got bad and punched her in her stomach. He was mad and said how she wanted to mess things up between him and his new fiance. He told her to have an abortion which she said no she wasn't going to.He got mad and punched her in her stomach. After he left she began throwing up blood. She went to the emergency room and thankfully the baby survived.She tried to have him charged but because of lack of evidence charges were dropped. A few months later she had a healthy baby girl. Her ex/baby's father had no contact with her for a few months. Now when his daughter is six months he wants to be a part of her life and sad he is sorry for what he did to her.He do this because his father found out.She doesn't want him to be because of what he did to her but she believes that should have nothing to do with their child.Would you advise her to allow him back into the child's life or tell him no?What would be the best advice to give a woman whose ex punched her in her stomach when she was pregnant?
My husband punched me in the stomach when l was pregnant with our third....l lost his twin through this action. No, she should most definitely NOT ever let such a man into her daughters' life. Would she let a stranger with the same history near her daughter? Well ,that man is a stranger to her daughter - and shouldn't be allowed near her.What would be the best advice to give a woman whose ex punched her in her stomach when she was pregnant?
you should contact a lawyer or something to get a restraining order, if that's possible...even though he wants to be a part of the child's life, it's great that he realizes he should be, but there is no reason he should be due to the way he acted towards the mother of the child. he should have realized when it was first discovered that he needed to handle the situation differently, it's a little late now and it's best he just back off.
Your answer should be totally obvious! Get a restraining order! Stay away from him!? Was the baby his? Omg that is just awful! Why would any do that to a woman, his baby or not! He sounds psycho, best advice anyone could give you is get away now, and stay away! Don鈥檛 you dare let an innocent life be exposed to such ignorance and selfishness!
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She should file abuse when he hit her. press charge against him.





Doesn't matter how bad this SOB by law he in tittle to see his little girl.


With out or with supervision.


every thing have to be done by court.


Hope she is not stupid enough to listen to the sweet talk and spread her legs for him again.
i think that this woman should NOT let this man come back into her life. This man committed a federal crime! this lady should talk to this guys father and tell him that his son hurt her physically and emotionally, and that it would be best for her to not have him in her life.
Absolutely NOT!!! Any man capable of doing that to a pregnant woman wouldn't think twice at harming a defenceless child in anger. She should get a restraining order against him - seriously!
RESTRAINING ORDER!!!
first of all is he paying child support/does she have his last name/does the name of the father appear on the birth certificate if all your questions to this is NO and she does not care for her to know who he is and then she does not need to let him see her until she decides to let her daughter know what happened or secondly when he takes him to court-when that happens you order child support w/back pay+that his visitation is supervised because the child is small and does not know him. Hope this helps.
what lack of evidence? the woman went to the ER puking blood! i would invest in a voice recorder that you use with a telephone (check state laws - some states do not require that the baby mama would have to inform the baby daddy she is recording their call) and make him apologize for punching her in the stomach. make him say it! then, turn the tape over to the cops along with the hospital report. even if the cops still won't charge, get a copy of the complaint report %26amp; keep a copy of the tape. then, take the b@$tard to court.