Give me ur best advice pleaseeee?????

i have been with my boy friend for three years my whole family hates him because he was a drug addict he finally cleaned up and then only 8 months after my daughter was born began shooting heroin i love him and i want things to work out but i dont know if i should suck it up and walk away and stand by him no matter how much he hates me just because i know he is a good person without drugs!!!!!!!!!!Give me ur best advice pleaseeee?????
Ditch the pond scum. He'll just drag you and your daughter down into his sewer.Give me ur best advice pleaseeee?????
help him to cure the addiction of drugs
This sounds tough for you. Try to get him to stop, by getting some time alone with him and talk to him. If you have to pressure him: like at night leave a note on the table or something, saying how you feel, and head over to a friends house if he gets abusive... even if the abuse is verbal. He is a threat to you and your daughter, and if he doesnt' stop, he's a danger.
you should stick with him through this and try to get him help and tell him that if he doesnt get help your going to leave him.
I think he deserves a chance. A person's history doesn't always mean anything, because people change, except in rare occasions. They key word is was, not is. It's what a person is now days, that matters, not what a person once was. We're in the 21st century, after all, not the 18th or 19th. They're being cold hearted and selfish. You know, some drug counselors were once addicts. Your parents don't think they (counselors) are bad, too, do they?
letting go of someone we love is a difficult thing to do... most specially when he makes us feel the worldly lust but, not the love in him- which we keep denying within, each time. life will always be a one way street... we always try to understand, to defend in his behalf... yet, left on our own each time he turns his back for the true love of his life that he will never, ever give up for anything. each time, we always go back to square one. each time we continue to live with his lies.


the decision is ours. if we prolong our agony by staying within the world of pretense... it is a choice we make. stop whinning then... accept and live the life you choose. the answer is in your hands. pray... life is beautiful
well my best advice to you is help him recover if you really love him and when he recover you must take care of him because maybe take drugs again! fight for your love! thanks for asking! break a leg!
He needs to get off the drugs for himself not for you or your daughter. You can't become an enablier for him. Being in a relationship with an addict is dangerous. Its gambling with your life. Addicts never know the ';quality'; of the drugs they take also long as they get thier high thats all that matters. Ask yourself who do you love mere? Your boyfriend or your daughter, cause your going to have to make a choice? Which choice could you live with?
One thing you should know, no matter how hard you try, you cannot CHANGE a person. He can only change himself. I know how you love him but think of your FUTURE, esp now you have a daughter. Are you married? GO and FIND a better guy. There are still lots of guys that will LOVE you and your daughter. For your information, ADDICTED to drugs and alcohol will destroy every family. Believe me.


Of course it is always possible for a person to change, but how long will you wait?


I'm sure you are still young enough and worth for a BETTER FUTURE. There are still HOPE outside there. Be tough and BEGIN a NEW LIFE. God bless