I like my friend, what next? 10 points for best advice!?

I have a guy friend who I'm really close to and naturally, some warm and fuzzy feelings have developed from my side! We talk every night for hours, he sends me text messages late at night, we go out and party together and we spend a lot of time together. We flirt all the time and there are a lot of sexual innuendos in our conversations. 1st Question: Does he like me back? 2nd Question: What should I do - he has a long distance relationship, sees his GF twice a year, and he's not sure whether he should be with her. Can I make a move and how?I like my friend, what next? 10 points for best advice!?
Well, the flirting is a good start on your part, and a good sign on his. Try and move the conversation around to his girlfriend to see is he has moved on. If not, put your arm around him or on him etc SYMPATHETICALLY. If he likes this, you can do it more often. Ask pertinant questions. Some males are wimps and like the women to be in control. If he has already done stuff like this though, its time to let him take the driving seat. Remember though, go with your heart, but you may have a better relationship if you are just friends.I like my friend, what next? 10 points for best advice!?
Dont get into a relationship with him. You will be the one who would hurt him someday and leave him forever, which would obviously make things worst and may be your friendship comes to an end. Everything happened with me, just the same conditions as yours. She was interested in going out with me, but then, she got another guy as her boyfriend. Now, we aren't even friends anymore. Being best friends is certainly a far cry now. Stay away from him if you really want him to be happy.
1st answer is true , also take care of ur future and studies
I would say he does like u. I would talk to him about it... If hes thinking he shouldnt b with his gf then he should get rid of her.... But I would just talk to him and tell him how u feel and ask him how he feels about u.
do nothing
You better wait. He's still have a gf. It's not right if you make something that will break their relationship. It can also happen to you and it really hurts so just stay friends with him and wait. if he really likes you, the question is does he loves you, does he loves you more than he's gf, can he give up his relationship with his gf for you? If yes, he'll give up his gf and you'll be now his gf and if not, he still really love his gf. try to meet other guys, maybe you just need some affections. After all, you just like him right? like is very different from love anyway.
i think u should just take it easy.


because u still dont know yet whether he is really like u too or ur just his sanctuary for a while.


if he is that easy forget her gf for u,he might do the same with u.
Never give all of you to him, no sex! Wait until you know it in his eyes. He has a full time job, been working more than 3 years. Play hard to catch once in awhile. I mean it no no sex with him. OK with condom, but no real sex. After that he can easily leave you and hurt you at the end. I've enough of my friend gets hurt and stuck with a baby. A baby can hurt your fiances. A good guy like me get stuck of making choice. Don't limit yourselves under him. Go study and stop worry about love craps!
sounds like fatuation. be careful. this can mistaken for love.
I don't want the 10 points.
he does like you back. just ask him dramatically if he lyks u.
I think, he liked u as well...just open up the feelings towards him! there's nothing wrong to let him know, in that case, u can even ask him if feels the same way...and know what the real score is. go girl! cheers :)
Remember, if he'll cheat WITH you, he'll cheat ON you as well.
dont die wondering......ask him. what have you got to lose (and dont say the friendship....if he is a true friend you will laugh about it one day...or you will be having his children) .
i hate to read long sentences..


thnx for the 2 points anyway.
its simple just tell them how you feel, the way i see it is no has never killed anyone
This is what you should do. Take him out with you for the whole day and at night, either take him to your house or go to his house. Late at night, tell him that you love him. For sure he will be a little suprised and might say I love you back as a friend. Explain to him you true feelings and try to let him understand. He might leave the house right there but don't despair. Being a boy, I know that he would be feeling a little confused. Let him think over it.





If it doesn't work out, then ask him if you guys can still be friends. This way you will stil be with him and can love him. (I do this)
Hey Frangipani,





A long distance relationship is difficult to maintain and he's going through a lot. When you hang out with him, while he texts you in the middle on the night, he maybe is diverting his attention to someone that's close to where he is, as opposed to whereever his girl is.





Be careful here because, speaking from a guy's point of view, you could only be filling the gap in time in place of his current girlfriend. In other words, a part time girlfriend (may have been harsh for your heart to handle). But on the other hand, speaking from experience, his long distance relationship is just as tough for him just as well.





Meeting you perhaps changes his mind about his relationship with his girl. Here's what you could do:


1. let him know, you don't want to be a part-time subsitute for his girl and you're not a booty call. Why is he hanging out with you so much when he's attached, is he only using you because his girl is not with him? What does he want out from all the flirtatious innuendos?





2. Don't let him be in control. He's getting the best of both worlds: a girl friend who's far away and doesn't know that you're haning out with him while he has you, someone who he can flirt with, and what do you have? = He's still not your boyfriend yet. You obviously feel more for him right now, that's because he led you into it.





Girls out there, be careful. When it comes to the game, we have the upperhand.
ist of all he is not sure about any one of u,and what he is looking for is some sexual pleasure.if u are also looking for that then u can go for him unless tryyto find more about him and see whether he can be ur real love or not.so go ahead to find the real inside
Well feelings cant be controlled. And as for him it wont be cheating if he decides that the GF is not the right one for him and he ends it. As for you, dont get into this relationship until his GF is out of the picture. Because if he keeps her and be with you,... it will happen again and the next time, you will be in the same situation as his GF. Just have a talk with him. Tell him how you feel and where you stand on this topic.