Maybe try writing her a note explaining how you feel %26amp; putting it someplace she'll definitely find it. Then wait for her to come to you. I bet she will after she cools off for a bit.10 points for the best advice!?
The problem is you violated her trust. She is not going to forgive easily.
Does her secret crush know now?
If so, does he like her too?
If he does, you have a shot here.
Talk to him. Ask him to talk to her for you.
Have him tell her that you didn't mean any harm, and that if you hadn't said anything, he might not know she liked him, and they might have never gotten together.
She might still be mad, but she'll get over it faster if she knows your mistake worked out for her.
Relationships are built on trust and by telling you've lost that trust. You'll have to earn it back...and only time will tell. Keep in mind this could have been a big issue for her/him. If it's that important to you and they are not willing to talk about it. Check with the school counselor for their help.
just be all sorry and maybe you can tll her u have a crush on sum guy n let her spill it ol ova school....ok i knw this sounds lame...but it might just work, shell get the satisfaction that shes not the only one gettin sneaked on , and she might just feel bad after that and start talking to you again!!
p.s. thats just my take on the thing....uz a/c 2 me if shes really pissed no amount of verbal apologies really work....(i know...ime a teenager too)
hi...it depend how ur relation with her...if it was me in your shoe.. i will create a sympathy scenario..i will pretend like i having a high fever...or met an accident...heheh...so she get closer to me...any make an opportunity to me to apologize to her...hehehe...sounds crazy...but it works for me sometimes..hehehe
I can understand how you feel, but unless she is willing to open up, there is nothing that you can do, it's down to her now.
Mike t.
Say sorry, promise never to do it again, tell her you value her friendship and you know you made a mistake.
apologize to her for betraying her trust and ask for her forgiveness
you should apologize and c how that goes.
this is what i would do 1st say how sorry you are and that you do care about her feelings and how it affected her. Then try saying that you told some one because you really were not thinking about what you were saying and before you knew it ,it came out and tell her that you are so mad at yourself for doing that and how important that her friendship is to you and you could not go on with out her being by your side, then tell her a secret about you that no one knows and how you would feel if she told someone and that's how you know that you will not ever do it again and ask her out for and friendship date the two of you to mend your friendship like to the movies and a pizza at your house and see how it goes and don't force her let it come on its own.oh by the way you can talk to her if she is your friend you cant be afraid you and her both know you mess up so you have to take the abuse but if you do the right thing it will pass over, just do it even if you feel about 1inch tall standing in front of her. make it know that she is your friend and you mess up and you are sorry who cares what others have to say. just get ya girl back on your side 4 real
jarvis
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