What is the best advice to give your friend about her boyfriend getting help from other females with tasks?

Okay here's the skinny. My friend has a boyfriend and they have been together for a little over three years now. They have a long distance relationship which, due to the fact that the he is always in and out of the country on business. Right now he is working on a project so he has not been able to come home as much as he likes. While he has been gone he asked a neighbor to look after his house for him because the last time he was home he had a new roof put on his house, and he wasn't happy with the job so he had the company come out and redo the job while he is out of the country. He happens to find out from another neighbor in the neighborhood that the neighbor that was watching his house was talking bad about him. So he asks his friend, who is a female, who has been picking up his mail to get the keys from the neighbor and take care of the roof job.





Well the boyfriend gets a email from a ex girlfriend that she found some stuff that belonged to him. So she shoots him and email to tell him that she wants to give him his stuff. Well he then tells the ex to drop the stuff at the neighbors house who suppose to be watching the house. Anyways the friend that is now looking after the roof and getting his mail and the ex girlfriend meet up at the same time. To make it a little shorter they pretty much start telling lies that the other was engaged or going together. And then they both start posting stuff on his page because both of them are friends on a certain soical website and they even emailed each other about him. Its a mess.





My friend is upset because is like he didn't trust her enough to ask her to get his mail or even have his mail sent to her house. He wasn't going to tell her about it. They live in the same state but about 2 hours away. She feels as though he doesn't trust her, but she trust him full.


how do I help my friendWhat is the best advice to give your friend about her boyfriend getting help from other females with tasks?
First of all , there is not much YOU can do for her but she can do for herself.





She has to take a time and have serious talk with him about this Trust issue. and then the boyfriend, who I believe is out oif his mind to get help from such jerks, has to stop all this mess by not giving any permission or ask any help from such assholes.





Good LuckWhat is the best advice to give your friend about her boyfriend getting help from other females with tasks?
i understand how she may feel however honestly I would not have a romantic partner handling my house keys just in case she decided to bring another love interest over my house or if she decided to break up with me while i was away and then the security of my house and belongings would be in jeopardy until I got back. I also understand how thats messed up because they have been together for 3 years, if there is no talk of engagement then she should move oon, and I would be verry irritated that he had female friends doing all his chores and then lying about being with him on a social network. She should probably end the relationship because she might be getting played since she at first didnt even know about the whole roofing drama and the scenario. Yea in short there r trust issues communicayion issues and she should probably move on